Table for 9: An Enneagram Podcast

In this week’s episode, we are talking about anger, shame, and anxiety... as compasses that we will learn from and listen to forever... NOT as problems to solve. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype - types 4, 5, and 6 are still open for 2026. Types 1,2,3,7,8,9 ... see you next year! Wait list can be found at your type's page. Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 star...

JUST MY TYPE IS LIVE! Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype ... Join us for type 4 or type 6's open spots... or sign up for the waitlist on any type's page for next year! In this week’s episode, we are continuing our anonymous type series with Enneagram Type 9's. We talk about disengagement, anger, and the internal experience of a type 9... I mean... what's conflict REALLY? Thanks for stop...

JUST MY TYPE IS LIVE! Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype In this week’s episode, we are continuing our anonymous type series with Enneagram Type 8's. We talk about lust and intensity, vulnerability, and childlike wonder. F**cking PHEW. Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (vo...

In this week’s episode, we are continuing our anonymous type series and barely scratching the surface for Enneagram Type 7's. We talk about plans, fulfillment, and the future (and frustration and impatience hehe). We never did quite make it back to Taylor Swift. Next time. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions?...

JUST MY TYPE IS LIVE! Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype In this week’s episode, we are continuing our anonymous type series with Enneagram Type 6's. We talk about authority, contrarianism, and .... god, so much more where do I even start? Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes...

Mistakenly JMT for 8 doesn’t start till next week! Go straight here at once! Tablefor9.myflodesk.com/jmt8 In this week’s episode, we are continuing our anonymous type series and barely scratching the surface for Enneagram Type 5's. (should we do a part 2?) We talk about competence, avarice, and whether or not fives feel... hint: don't pmo. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype Thanks for stopping by!! Don...

In this week’s episode, we are we are continuing on our anonymous type series with an interview with an incredible anonymous Enneagram type 4. We talk about melancholy, the idealization, and what it actually means when you tell a four to just get over their feelings. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call...

In this week’s episode, we’re B-siding our anonymous 3 with a type 3 Q&A. Is slowing down and feeling your feelings a crock of sh*t? Let’s find out. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype for YOUR-TYPE-ONLY cohorts Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be play...

In this week’s episode, we are we are continuing on our anonymous type series with an interview with an incredible anonymous Enneagram type 3. We talk about success (barf), the line between authenticity and persona, and what the core fears actually look like in real life. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/...

In this week’s episode, we are we are continuing on our anonymous type series with an interview with an incredible anonymous Enneagram type 2. We talk about rejection, loving and being loved, and needs… Unmet and otherwise. Jackiecontessa.com/justmytype Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q...

In this weeks episode, we're launching the FIRST of a nine-episode series by interviewing an anonymous Enneagram Type 1. We talk about anger, control, self-imposed responsibility, and resentment... and so much more. Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not b...

In this weeks episode, we are going over part two of the VERY INSANELY REQUESTED Enneagram and attachment styles... and how each of the styles fares with our core motives. Next week, the AN ANONYMOUS TYPE series starts! Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. https://tablefor9.myflodesk.com/justforyou Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute quest...

In this weeks episode, we are going over part one of the VERY INSANELY REQUESTED Enneagram and attachment styles... and how each of the styles fares with our core motives. Part 2 will be out this week before next week's AN ANONYMOUS TYPE series starts! Thanks for stopping by!! Don’t forget to share, subscribe, and rate 5 stars. https://tablefor9.myflodesk.com/justforyou Got questions? Text/Cal...

In this weeks episode, we are talking PART 2 of whether or not our Enneagram type does relationships well, like really actually. The answer is yes. The answer is also maybe. The answer is also another question entirely. https://tablefor9.myflodesk.com/justforyou ⁠⁠ Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's...

In this weeks episode, we are talking PART 1 of whether or not our Enneagram type does relationships well, like really actually. The answer is yes. The answer is also maybe. The answer is also another question entirely. https://tablefor9.myflodesk.com/justforyou Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's con...

In this weeks episode, we are talking about BURNOUT - why some kinds of rest don't work because you're the kind of tired that comes from living against yourself... and what it looks like for each of the 9 types to work against themselves. https://tablefor9.myflodesk.com/justforyou signup for the surprise drop here Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (vo...

In this weeks episode, we are expanding on a listener's question: what does it mean for enneagram types to be in their triadic names? Reactive types? Optimistic types? Withdrawn? Attaching? Hello? https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-morning-show-enneagram-and-the-body/id1466446583?i=1000767212322 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/morning-show-enneagram-and-the-heart/id1466446583?i=10...

In this weeks episode, we are answering FOUR listener Q&A questions. A type 4 wants to know what words they can't relate to mean in the Enneagram and why they are so different from everyday language. A type 1 wants to know what is next for them in the Enneagram. A type 9 is trying to split the line between personality patterns and a wise move, and a type 6 wants to know why they and their...

In this weeks episode, we are talking about ESTRANGEMENT - what it is, what it's NOT, and most importantly, how to take care of yourself (based on your enneagram type, of course) no matter what side of the boundary you sit on. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's connect! ⁠Instagram.com/tablefor9co...

In this weeks episode, we are talking about AUTOMATIC PREOCCUPATIONS - what automatically preoccupies our inner world, how it serves us ... and ultimately, how it doesn't serve us at all. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's connect! ⁠Instagram.com/tablefor9co⁠ or ⁠jackiecontessa.com⁠

In this weeks episode, we are talk through "subtypes without the Enneagram types"... aka INSTINCTS or Instinctual Variants. We break down the self-preservation subtype, social subtype, and sexual subtype. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's connect! ⁠Instagram.com/tablefor9co⁠ or ⁠jackiecont...

A bonus from yesterday's episode- we are FINISHING the question in our Q&A: what is the difference between a main type, I typed that goes there in stress, and the type that goes there in health? Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's connect! ⁠Instagram.com/tablefor9co⁠ or ⁠jackiecontessa.com⁠

Our first Q&A! Today we go over two questions... 1) Am I a 7 or a 9? and 2) what is the difference between an Enneagram type, a type going there in stress, and a type reaching there in health? Types 2-9 are in part 2, episode 18 Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be played on air) Let's connect! ⁠Instagram.com/tablefor9...

Today and in the last of this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE NINES: Disengagement... and if you say lazy I might just throw a fit. We talk about disengagement, what PEACE really is, and what happens to the confidence about future effort when Nines stay too disengaged for too long. Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A...

Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE EIGHTS: Dominance and insensitivity... and really, they're not what you think they are. We talk about what insensitivity really is, the actual meaning of dominance, and pissing (yes, seriously). Got questions? Text/Call ( 201) 749-4490 to contribute questions to Q&A Episodes (voicemails will not be...