Hot Mess Habits

Today I’m sharing 20+ wellness habits & products that genuinely made my life easier this year — realistic, affordable, Type B–friendly, ADHD-approved things that supported my routines through one of the most chaotic seasons of my life. Wellness doesn’t need to be expensive, aesthetic, or curated to “count.” Some of these are $0 habits, some are small upgrades & some are tools that simply m...

f you’re feeling tired, unmotivated, or tempted to say “i’ll start again in january,” this episode is your gentle reminder that it’s not too late to finish the year with intention!!!i’m sharing 5 cozy *realistic* habits to help you end the year well. this is for the girlies who want to feel grounded, not burnt out as 2026 begins! 🤎 this episode is for you if: — you feel like december always disap...

this is the year we end our phone addiction. if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you. today we’re talking about realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction i’m sharing the exact things i’ve been doing to reduce my screen time, how i keep my phone out of reach, what i replace scrolling wi...

if christmas coming hasn’t been feeling magical lately, you’re not alone. as adults, the holiday season can start to feel busy, overwhelming, or… honestly just flat. in today’s episode, we’re talking about how to feel the christmas spirit again and simple ways to bring back a whimsical, cozy, meaningful holiday season. 💛 this episode is for you if: — christmas doesn’t feel magical like it used to...

if you end every week feeling behind or overwhelmed — this episode is for you. today we’re breaking down how to plan your week realistically. we’re talking cozy routines, flexible time-blocking, and mindset shifts that actually stick. whether you’re a work-from-home girlie, a type b planner, or just someone trying to feel more in control — this episode will help you reset your week without the pre...

this is truly my fave time of year — cozy routines, PSLs, candles, and all the fall vibes. in this episode, I’m sharing my full fall bucket list — from little seasonal traditions to cozy home goals, family fun, and creative resets. if you’re craving inspiration to make this season feel special (without the pressure), this one’s for you.🤎 this episode is for you if:— you’re craving cozy inspiratio...

This is my ABSOLUTE fave time of year + always when I have the most motivation. today I’m sharing my fall reset — what to do before you reset, the categories to focus on, and the cozy, realistic habits I’m building this season to feel grounded again. 🍂💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone craving routine after a busy seasonwhether you are worki...

WELCOME BAAACK! grab a coffee + let's catch up so excited to finally be bringing back the podcast, not to give a disclaimer but the set up / lighting is NOT MY BEST WORK in this video, i promise it will get better next week 🫶🏼 no timestamps this week because we are just chatting! lmk what videos you want to see for the fall! OTHER REALISTIC PRODUCTIVITY VIDEOS: 11 habits to exit your lazy gi...

This is my ABSOLUTE fave time of the year + always when i tend to have the most motivation. these realistic habits are helping me adjust to this time of year and inspiring my every day💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone just trying to do their bestwhether you pick one or try them all, these habits are here to support your real life—not just th...

if you're craving a fresh start this spring but don’t want to go into debt for it, this is for youi'm sharing 7 wellness hacks that have seriously helped me feel more energized + productive—but are 100% free!!💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone just trying to do their bestwhether you pick one or try them all, these habits are here to s...

from one fellow wellness girly to another, these are my simple yet effective products / tools that i cannot live without!! specific links mentioned: google calendar freebie: https://tiny-field-370.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 ultrahuman ring (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo brown noise playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ByuY6FCCzjHvt6xZuOGCG?si=ef82f614ac6d4286 my link...

if you are ready to get your life together for the spring this one is for you! my linksbucket list template: https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-goal-setting-template-canva-template best postpartum socks: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14399718 ultrahuman ring (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-800735...

my first MOM life video where I talk about the logistics of those early days with a baby, while managing adhd symptoms my links best postpartum socks: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14399718 ultrahuman ring (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy....

struggling with motivation, especially if you have big dreams and goals, can be tough. if you’re stuck in ruts and can’t get out, or feel like you never make real progress, this video is for you. everyone faces motivation struggles, but for some, it’s more frequent. when coping skills aren’t strong, it’s easy to get stuck for longer! links microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august pr...

If you need a little winter pick-me-up this is the episode for you! we chat through some routines + habits to be working on this winter as well as some products that have been making my life better. this is really the time of year when it is easy to give up on everything, so i hope this episode encourages you specific products mentioned: liquid sunshine ( a must for winter): https://go.shopmy.us/p...

in today’s episode, we’re talking about how to stop getting stuck in the endless cycle of planning for the future without taking action in the present. we’ve all been there—dreaming big, making vision boards, saving tiktoks, but when it comes down to it, our daily life doesn’t change. we chat through some practical tips like using your current habits as motivation, finding inspiration in the life...

11 GLOW UP TIPS TO EXIT YOUR LAZY GIRL ERA (realistic / type b edition) | working on our healthy habits for winter are you ready to leave your lazy girl era behind and glow up this winter? in this video, we are chatting 11 realistic and easy-to-follow glow-up tips designed for type b personalities who want to make healthy habits stick without stressing out. these tips are designed to be *actually...

welcome to my 50 goals for 2025! type b edition because there are no "smart" goals here. in this video, we’re setting ambitious yet achievable goals for the year ahead, with a focus on personal growth, content creation, career development, health, creativity, and mom life. if you are a fellow type b girlie, i hope these 50 goals and intentions will inspire you to start planning for for the year ah...

this week the internet is FILLED with advice on how to make 2025 your best year yet. if you are looking for some realistic advice for the everyday girl, you are in the right place! youtube videos coming soon: - home office makeover - my 2025 goals - how to get through winter links microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing f...

how to goal set in a way that is realistic as we head into 2025! today we chat about reflecting, dreaming and actually making space to create and plan for the new year you may notice my set looks a little different this week! we just moved so i am still working on getting everything back to normal. thank you for your patience :) links mentioned: 18 WAYS TO RESET FOR 2025: https://www.youtube.com/w...

for the girls who are already wanting to start preparing for the new year, here are some approachable things you can work on as you reset for 2025 links mentioned: MORNING MENUS: https://youtu.be/mLvA0x1mUew?si=jxh7kOuozErajGFy CHAT GPT PROMPTS: https://www.tiktok.com/@duney/video/7415301353720794410 links atomic habits book: https://amzn.to/4eprSHI google calendar freebie: https://tiny-field-370....

there is a lot of talk about goal setting, but what happens when we don't do the things we hoped for? today's episode is heart to heart style, and i hope you leave feeling encouraged 💗 links WATCH VLOGMAS HERE timestamps 0:00 was this year a write off? 1:04 welcome back / VLOGMAS 3:21 before all the new year content, let's check in 4:24 my "worst" year ever 6:02 the two biggest things to do 9:24...

yes, i planned this episode to come out black friday cyber monday week! if you feel stuck with your finances, this is the perfect no shame pep talk to give you some ideas for realistic ways you can get yourself into better money habits for 2025! links mentioned: productivity episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mq6VQjgGnEQ&t=15s cash folder: https://amzn.to/3ZlxttJ other links atomic habit...

feeling like it’s easy to let go of your goals at the end of the year? you’re not alone! it can be easy to fall apart with our dreams, goals and aspirations as the holidays approach. today we are chatting about 7 micro-habits to give you inspiration that this time of year isn't about completely starting fresh, but making small adjustments and showing up for yourself 1% more than yesterday links me...

this time of year can be so busy, how do we stay present and keep showing up for ourselves even when things feel chaotic? links atomic habits book google calendar freebie my desktop calendar template microphone taylor swift august print: timestamps 0:00 let's plan our season together 1:34 welcome back / giveaway winner / life update 5:15 what does intention look like in this season? brain dump 7:5...