Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶 In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like...

Ready to be your best, hottest and most sexy self? We'll show you exactly how! In this episode of Hacking Love, we explore the critical role health and hormones play in transforming your body and preparing you for active, fulfilling lifestyle experiences. Anna draws from her considerable experience in this area, discussing how to achieve hormonal balance and sexual wellness, how to overcome challe...

In this episode of “Hacking Love”, Anna grapples with deeply ingrained societal conditioning around sexuality, and her own sense of self-worth. From early-age teachings about the 'proper' roles for women, to confronting double standards, she shares her internal conflicts and evolving perspective shaped by her experiences in the lifestyle community. Listen as we unpack our battles with slut-shaming...

As Aiden and Anna prepare for a lifestyle pool party, beginning the recording just before they head out. Anna candidly shares her feelings of self-consciousness and insecurity, particularly around an attractive single woman, which triggers her jealousy. Throughout the episode, the couple debate and discuss their expectations, anxieties, and dynamics, both before and after the party. As the night u...

In this episode, Anna and Aiden tackle the question of separate play in their open relationship. Anna proposes that, in order to deal with her own insecurities, Aiden hook up with a particularly attractive and adventurous single woman from their lifestyle group while she's away on work trips. The couple discusses feelings of jealousy, personal boundaries, and the tangled web of emotions that often...

In this episode, we dive into monogamous marriage conflict traps, advocating for the 'let them' philosophy of relinquishing control of others. We also update you on our journey getting to know the 'Smart-Amazon' couple as we brainstorm ways to build chemistry and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Anna gets excited for an upcoming playdate. Email us at AnnaAiden@gmx.com Join the conversation on ou...

Welcome back! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of lifestyle podcasts and apps, sharing our personal journey and experiences along the way. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we dip our toes into the waters of non-monogamy. We kick things off by reminiscing about our initial forays into lifestyle podcasts, recounting how they opened our eyes to new possibilities and helped us redefin...

In this revealing episode, we dive deep into our journey of reconnecting after a significant breakup, highlighting the transformative power of humility and vulnerability, coupled with effective counseling. We describe the importance of finding a non-judgmental counselor experienced in ethical non-monogamy, recounting our challenging yet enlightening sessions. We share personal anecdotes about over...

In this episode, we (Anna & Aiden) open the doors to our world, engaging in a heartfelt and unfiltered conversation about our journey within the lifestyle—non-monogamous relationships. We share raw, personal reflections on the intricate dance of trust, etiquette, and discretion within our community. We’ll share an account of our recent party, providing a window into our encounters with fellow...

In this intimate episode, we dive into our thoughts and experiences from a recent lifestyle party we hosted. Recorded immediately after the event, we share our raw and unfiltered reflections, capturing our feelings and insights while still under the spell of the night's naughtiness. Join us as we discuss the dynamics of the party, our personal revelations, and the connections we made with some won...

In this episode, Anna and Aiden recount their tumultuous breakup which was filled with misunderstandings, miscommunications, and hurt feelings. The story begins with a nostalgic reflection on a concert that brings up old wounds from their first year of dating, leading to discussions about trust issues and significant moments of miscommunication and misunderstanding. From their painful breakup to a...

In this episode, we dive deep into our first adventurous steps into the world of non-monogamy. We reflect on our experiences at a festival sex tent and later, our surprising experience at the infamous Burning Man Orgy Dome. We discuss the significance of exploring our boundaries, dealing with emotions like jealousy and excitement, and the critical lessons we learned about consent, communication, a...

In this episode of "Hacking Love," Anna and Aiden share their journey into redefining their relationship and leveraging aspects of ethical non-monogamy to enhance their individual and mutual growth after their difficult divorces. They explore topics such as relationships, honesty, and the flaws they discovered in traditional relationship models. The couple discusses: Their early conversations abou...

Welcome to the premiere episode of 'Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships.' Join hosts Aiden and Anna as they embark on a candid journey to explore the dynamics of open relationships and the tools to foster deeper connections through radical transparency and ethical non-monogamy. In this introductory episode, get to know Aiden and Anna, their experiences with love, heartbre...