COMMITTED HEARTS

What if the breaking in your relationship is actually part of the process? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk about the real process of blending, not just in blended families, but in every relationship where two people are trying to become one. Whether you are bringing children into a marriage, blending routines and personalities, or simply learning how to live lif...

What do you do when marriage doesn’t feel like what you imagined? In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk honestly about the moment every couple faces at some point: “Help… this is not what I thought it was going to be.” Whether it is finances, parenting, daily habits, personality differences, structure vs spontaneity, or the unexpected realities of living life together,...

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , we talk about a principle that can completely transform your relationship: leaving and cleaving . Most people think it just means moving out of your parents’ house, but it goes much deeper than that. You can leave physically and still be emotionally, mentally, or even habitually tied to your past. And that might be the very thing blocking intimacy,...

In a world full of social media highlights and picture-perfect marriages, it’s easy to feel like your relationship doesn’t measure up. On this episode of Committed Hearts , Donna and William Porter break down the dangers of comparison and share how transparency, communication, and intentional action can help you build the marriage God intended for you. Learn why struggles are necessary, how to cre...

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , we dive into a real and honest conversation about how to protect and strengthen your marriage in a world full of distractions. Affairs don’t just happen overnight—they often start with small compromises, lack of boundaries, and unmet needs. But the good news? You have the power to create a relationship that’s so strong, fulfilling, and intentional...

Is romance missing in your relationship… and you don’t even realize it? In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , Donna and William Porter have a real, honest conversation about why romance often fades—and how couples can bring it back in a meaningful way. Many couples believe they’re being romantic… but never stop to ask if it actually feels that way to their partner. 💡 In this episode,...

Conflict is inevitable in marriage — but how you handle it determines whether your relationship grows stronger or slowly breaks down. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about why avoiding conflict actually makes things worse and how couples can learn to confront issues in a healthy way. They share practical wisdom about creating a conflict plan, staying current inst...

Are your words building your marriage — or quietly tearing it down? In this powerful episode of Men At Heart Podcast , William and Donna Porter dive deep into “Matters of the Mouth” — how tone, timing, attitude, and delivery shape your marriage more than you think. It’s not just what you say… It’s how you say it. And even more importantly — when you say it. From Ephesians 4:29 to real-life moments...

Welcome to Committed Hearts , a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload. Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away. You’l...

Marriage doesn’t stay strong by accident — it requires intentional maintenance. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter dive into the powerful truth that saying “I do” is only the beginning. Just like a fire needs fuel and a car needs regular upkeep, a thriving marriage requires consistent attention, intentional actions, and ongoing investment. Using practical analogies like...

Welcome to Committed Hearts , a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload. Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away. You’l...

What do you do when you love your spouse… but you don’t like what they’re doing? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter get real about the “dislike list”—those moments, habits, tones, and pet peeves that can frustrate you in marriage if you let them grow. They share a practical mindset shift that helps couples protect love during frustrating seasons: stop magnifying the dis...

Boundaries aren’t about building walls—they’re about building a healthy, lasting marriage. In this episode of Committed Hearts , we dive into what boundaries really look like in marriage and why they’re essential for trust, respect, and emotional safety. Many couples struggle with boundaries—whether it’s with family, friends, communication, or personal space—but learning how to set them with love...

What if the biggest shift your marriage needs is a change in perspective? In this episode of Committed Hearts , we talk about how seeing your spouse as God’s son or daughter changes the way you speak, listen, handle conflict, and show love. When perspective shifts, everything else follows—communication, respect, patience, and connection. We discuss: Why treating your spouse like a parent damages i...

Welcome to Committed Hearts , a podcast for engaged and married couples who want a stronger, more connected, and more intentional relationship—without the pressure, the clichés, or the churchy tone. Just real talk, real tools, and real love. In this very first episode, we’re sharing our story —how we met, fell in love, built a marriage rooted in commitment, faith, and friendship, and how we’ve lea...