You Seem Great

In today’s episode, we’re diving into seasonal trends in dating, how the time of year can shape your love life more than you think. We’ll walk through what dating looks like in each season, from cozy winter cuffing to the breezy energy of summer, and break down the pros and cons that come with each. Join us as we share practical tips and tricks to help you navigate cold winter months, hot summer d...

Welcome back to You Seem Great! We’re officially kicking off Season 3 with this quick intro. We’re sharing what this season is all about, why we’re excited to be back, and what’s coming next — from real dating patterns we’re seeing right now to honest conversations about modern love, compatibility, and connection. Whether you’ve been with us since Season 1 or you’re just finding us, we’re so glad...

Welcome back to You Seem Great! In this episode, we're getting into something every couple faces eventually — conflict. But not all fights are created equal. We explore the most common fighting styles, how they show up in relationships, and why the way you argue might matter more than the argument itself. From blowups and shutdowns to logic-vs-emotion showdowns, Becca and Talia unpack the patt...

You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t quite name. We talk about the difference between compatibility and connection, why chemistry can’t be force...

You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t quite name. We talk about the difference between compatibility and connection, why chemistry can’t be force...

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great , Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving partnership, why focusing on green flags can help you build trust and joy, and how tuning into these can chan...

Welcome back to You Seem Great ! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you . Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes beyond checklists. Because maybe you're not doing it wrong — maybe you're just doing it di...

Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a different package than you expected, how timelines quietly make or break connections, and why playfulnes...

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great , we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update as we take a brief pause after season 1 and give you all the details on how to catch us on Instagram L...

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great , we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with a fresh mindset. From having conversations about your past relationship to handling those first few po...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great , we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and even perfecting that quick, one-time meet flirt to ignite a romantic spark. No matter the situation,...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and find meaningful connections. This empowering conversation sheds light on the unique strengths that ne...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive into the topic of dating anxiety and offer practical solutions to help ease your nerves in the search for love. Whether you're struggling with the fear of rejection, past relationship trauma, or feeling the pressure of societal expectations, this episode is packed with strategies to help you feel more confident and at ease in dating. Key Ta...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great , we're joined by Maryann Roberts, a matchmaker with Three Day Rule, to discuss the ins and outs of dating over 60. We'll explore the pros and cons of finding love later in life, how to approach relationships at this stage, and the role of technology and texting for baby boomers. Whether you're over 60 and single or tuning in for advice for...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great , we're diving into the world of long-distance dating. With more singles open to dating beyond their city since the pandemic, we're here to show you how to make it work! We’ll explore everything from where to search for a long-distance partner to how to build a strong connection and avoid common pitfalls. Key Takeaways: Finding Your Partner: Dis...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great , we sit down with "The Prenup Guy" Raymond Hekmat to discuss the often misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements and their role in fostering stronger relationships. Raymond sheds light on how prenups aren't just for marriage but can be a tool for assessing financial compatibility at any stage of a relationship. Key Takeaways: Redefinin...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great , we're continuing our city series with special guest, matchmaker Elisa Del Castillo. Join us as we dive into the vibrant Miami dating scene and explore how Latin culture plays a significant role in shaping relationships. Elisa shares insider tips on the best spots to meet singles in Miami and offers guidance on navigating the city's booming dat...

In this week's episode of the You Seem Great Podcast, Talia and Becca dive into your most pressing questions! This special Q&A session covers essential topics like  how to manage burnout ,  navigating the path to exclusivity in relationships , and  overcoming the challenges of dating as a parent . Whether you're struggling with stress, wondering when to define your relationship, or loo...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we discuss dating with VIP Matchmaker Simone Grossman. Simone brings her expertise in helping high-achieving individuals navigate the complexities of finding a stable partner. Key Takeaways: Navigating Dating as a Successful Professional: Explore the unique challenges of dating when you're at the top of your field. Business vs. Dating Dynamics: Und...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we delve into the intersection of money and love with Dr. Jenny Olson, Assistant Professor of Marketing at Indiana University's Kelley School of Business. Dr. Olson's expertise lies in consumer behavior, particularly within interpersonal contexts. Key Takeaways: Assessing Financial Compatibility in Relationships: Learn how to evaluate financial...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we welcome Liesel Sharabi, Associate Professor at Arizona State University. Liesel, an expert in communication technologies, explores how these tools shape the ways we start, sustain, and end relationships. Key Takeaways: Effective Use of Dating Apps: Discover strategies for maximizing your success on dating platforms. Technology and Relationship Satis...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, join us for an enlightening conversation with Sunny Lie Owens, Associate Professor of Communication at CalPoly Pomona. Sunny, an expert in culture and communication, delves into the intricate relationship between religious communication and ethnic identity. Sunny's research-driven advice offers invaluable guidance for singles seeking meaningful con...

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive deep into the world of dating post-divorce with expert matchmaker Melissa Rogers. Melissa offers her professional insights on knowing when you're ready to start dating again, navigating those crucial first dates, and building confidence after a divorce. Whether you're newly divorced or have been dating for a while, this episode is full...

This week, we're giving you a peek behind the curtain of the matchmaking process. Get all your questions answered, from understanding the costs and choosing the right company to asking the best questions when hiring a matchmaker. Plus, we break down what date coaching is and address some of the most frequently asked questions about it. Tune in for the scoop on the world of matchmaking and date...

This week, we're diving into everything you need to know about making organic connections. Whether you're looking to enhance your dating life or build meaningful relationships, we've got you covered with a step-by-step guide. Discover proven techniques to establish genuine relationships face-to-face, and learn how to identify and frequent the best places to meet like-minded people. We&...