The Upshot: A Podcast for Dads Who Try

In this episode of "The Upshot," Jeremy, Kyle, and Shane dive into an often-overlooked topic: the significance of friendship for fathers. While it might seem like a lesser priority, building and maintaining strong relationships with other men is crucial for a dad’s well-being. The trio explores the challenges dads face in forming deep connections, the value of vulnerability in friendship...

In this episode of The Upshot we sit down with Buck Giebelhaus, Lead Pastor of Northpoint Church, to explore the critical role of emotional health in fatherhood. Buck shares his journey of understanding and prioritizing his emotions and how it has impacted his relationship with his sons. He discusses practical strategies for fathers to maintain emotional health and the ripple effects it can have o...

In this episode of "The Upshot," we talk with Ryan Lehman about the value of raising kids in the great outdoors. Ryan shares how his mother's final days battling cancer inspired his family to explore parks and natural areas around central Texas. He discusses their decision to prioritize outdoor living and the benefits it brings, especially in a world dominated by screens. Join us as...

In this episode, we’re thrilled to have Jason Perkins join us to share his fatherhood journey. Jason has raised three kids while working in the corporate world and pastoring a church in Colorado Springs. Now, he lives in Australia and partners with churches worldwide through the Irresistible Church Network. Many dads look up to Jason for his wisdom and experience, especially now that he’s an empty...

On this month's podcast, we are joined by Chris McSorely. A man normally behind the scenes but put on the spot (after being recommended by so many) to share his fathering wisdom. He tells the story of what it was like becoming a dad when he didn't have an example of his own growing up and what it means to win with daughters. Get ready, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you get it...

Welcome back dads! In episode 13, we are joined by friend Brandon Rogers. Brandon and his wife Jenn have their own following on Youtube that documents their life journey from Seoul to Maui to Austin while beginning a family. After beginning to settle in Austin, their life took a turn when their new daughter Izzy was diagnosed with an unexpected and rare illness. Brandon shares this painful story w...

In Episode 011 of the Upshot, we are joined by the better halves of our hosts: Jessica Watson & Alana Norcross. One of the most powerful questions we can ask as fathers is: What is it like on the other side of me? Alana & Jessica share their insights on what it is like as moms on the other side of us dads. Lean into what they have to say because part of getting it right as dads, is recogni...

Welcome to the Upshot! In this episode, we are joined by a good friend & expectant father, Jordan Geist. As of the recording of this podcast, his first baby is due in just a few days! Jordan shares his perspective on what he has observed in his journey of becoming a father, what he has experienced, heard and learned from other dads in this process and insight from years in student ministry, le...

Welcome to The Upshot Podcast! In this episode, Shane and Kyle, along with guest Jeremy, explore the pivotal role of fatherhood in children's lives, sharing real-life anecdotes and insights. From the impact of absent fathers to practical tips for intentional parenting, this episode provides a poignant look into fostering emotional availability, creating secure environments, and engaging with t...

In this episode Shane and Kyle, along with guest Adam Ulatoski, explore the power of traditional rituals and ceremonies in shaping our boys' lives. From childhood experiences to organizing meaningful moments for their kids, they discussed how intentional markers guide boys through different stages of becoming a man. It's not just about masculinity, but about developing truly impactful and...

Welcome back to The Upshot Podcast! In today's episode, Shane and Kyle dive deep into feeling stuck and the struggles that come with it. Join us as we explore the concept of feeling stuck and discover actionable ways to create positive momentum, change perspectives, and unlock our own potential. Shane and Kyle reflect on their own experiences of being in a season of feeling stuck and the desir...

Welcome to another exciting episode of The Upshot Podcast! In this week's episode Shane and Kyle dive deep into the joys and challenges of being a father. Our special guest, Barry Cox, joins the conversation as they explore topics such as the pressure to provide for their children, the importance of creating meaningful experiences, and the evolving nature of parenting strategies as children gr...

In today's episode of The Upshot, Kyle and Shane dive into a range of topics, including anger management, navigating conflict in relationships, and the importance of emotional awareness. You won't want to miss this insightful episode! Tune in now to gain valuable insights and takeaways. Key Takeaways: - Anticipate and identify triggers that cause anger or frustration. - Recognize and accep...

On this episode Kyle and Shane emphasize the importance of creating memorable experiences for kids as a dad, without necessarily requiring a lot of money. They explore various real-life experiences and traditions involving family trips, fishing and adventure. Then they give some insightful and actionable advice on how to overcome mistakes and move past shame, even to the point of using it as a tea...

On this episode of The Upshot Podcast, Kyle and Shane explore the importance of community, connection, and vulnerability for fathers. From riding bikes and cleaning up after meals to struggling with loneliness, busyness, and trust issues, hear personal insights and practical tips to help dads navigate life's challenges. Join us as we dive into parenting, marriage, mental and emotional wellbein...

In this episode, Kyle and Shane discuss the all too familiar tension between career and family. They ask questions about what it actually means to be a provider, share ideas about instilling a work ethic in your child, and discuss the importance of coming home ready to play and have fun.

Join Kyle and Shane as they kick off the first episode of The Upshot! The upshot is the final or eventual outcome of something. If you were to die today, what would be the upshot of your life and your fatherhood? What would you be remembered for, and who would you be remembered as? While these may seem like big questions to ask, they help us to figure out what it looks like to win in parenting. Af...