The Daily Fight

Ep 105: Chasing a Version of Fulfillment That Doesn't Exist You're never going to have it all, all at once, all the time. Fulfillment comes in MANY moments. And MINI moments. The little milestones, experiences, and wins that we barely give ourselves credit for. In today's episode: Why fulfillment isn't something you achieve once and get to keep forever. How somebody else's defi...

Episode 104 People will judge your success based on what they can see. That doesn't mean they have a clue what you've actually accomplished. In today's episode: How one decision to ditch a prepaid hotel room turned into an unforgettable experience with my daughter. Why putting yourself first doesn't mean putting your family last. What success, freedom, and abundance look like when...

Episode 103: They're Ruining Christmas Life is urgent. That doesn't mean it's meant to be rushed. In today's episode: Why I'm pissed off about Christmas taking over before Halloween. The difference between living with urgency and rushing through your life. What we're sacrificing when we're constantly looking ahead to what's next. Your Daily Fight: What part of your...

Are money-back guarantees giving you peace of mind or permission to quit? What happens when you invest in yourself without a backup plan? In today's episode: Why money-back guarantees can keep you from going ALL IN. What you lose when you give yourself an easy way out. Why the real return on your investment has nothing to do with getting your money back. Your Daily Fight: What are you willing...

Ep: 101: The Before is What's Kicking Your Ass It's not the doing that's kicking your ass. It's everything you're putting yourself through BEFORE you do the damn thing. The thinking. The anticipating. The second-guessing. The endless planning and preparing for something you already know you want to do. In today's episode: Why the BEFORE is harder than the doing or the after...

What if the problem isn't what you're doing, but what it's costing you to keep it up? In today's episode: Are you questioning what you want or what it takes to maintain it? How long can you keep up the pace, pressure, and commitments? When is it time to say NO, change your mind, or make a U-turn? Your Daily Fight: Do you really want to do this? And if you do, do you really want to...

MIND MAPPING YOUR SAVAGE STORY This is an excerpt from a private workshop, and this one is an exercise. Start with one rupture. One reckoning. One adversity. One event that changed something. Then we’re going to mind map it and pull out the stories, lessons, decisions, moments, and angles sitting inside that one experience. Do not listen to this one while you’re driving. Get a notebook, a big piec...

THE 4 SINS OF SELF-BETRAYAL This episode is pulled from a private workshop where I broke down four ways we betray ourselves without calling it betrayal. Silence Settling Second-guessing Suffering You know when you’re going against your gut. You know when you’re accepting less. You know when you keep delaying because you don’t trust yourself enough to move. You cannot lie your way into your next li...

OG EPISODE #41: REBEL AGAINST THE OLD YOU You say you want something different, then keep fighting every change required to get there. That’s the fight. This episode is about where you’re resisting your own growth, clinging to an old version of yourself, and making the next chapter harder than it has to be. THE DAILY FIGHT WITH ROBYN LYNN TANNER Instagram: @robynlynntanner Email: robyn@robyntanner...

REINVENTION IS A T IN THE ROAD You hit the T in the road. You can turn left. Turn right. Make a U-turn. Sit in neutral. Go window-shopping at Walgreens for a while. Or head straight toward the damn cow pastures because that’s where you actually want to go. Changing your mind without making it a crisis Giving yourself permission to pause Taking a completely different route Holding the decision once...

OG EPISODE #25: HORN HONKERS If you won’t honk your horn when somebody cuts you off, where else are you staying quiet? This episode uses something as simple as a car horn to look at how you communicate, ask for what you need, express what hurts, and practice speaking up in everyday life. Where you’re staying silent Why speaking up feels harder than it should How to start using your voice THE DAILY...

OG EPISODE #38: WHAT’S IN YOUR STORE OF STRENGTHS? You’ve got strengths you use every day and strengths you’ve probably buried under old roles, old identities, and other people’s expectations. This episode is about recognizing what you’re damn good at, owning it, and deciding what you want to do with it now. THE DAILY FIGHT WITH ROBYN LYNN TANNER Instagram: @robynlynntanner Email: robyn@robyntanne...

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO ADMIT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT? OG EPISODE #37: WHAT’S YOUR TODDLER TANTRUM TELLING YOU? What do you want when nobody else gets a vote? This episode is about letting yourself want what you want without shrinking it, justifying it, making it more realistic, or worrying about how it sounds out loud. Your desires don’t need a permission slip. THE DAILY FIGHT WITH ROBYN LYNN TANNER In...

OCTOPUS ARMS PART TWO: ROLES + ATTENTION Wife. Mom. Professional. Friend. Fixer. Caretaker. Obligations. People. Problems. Decisions & Dreams.... At what point did all the roles & obligations start running your life? The roles taking up the most space What actually has your attention What you’re carrying that may not belong there anymore THE DAILY FIGHT WITH ROBYN LYNN TANNER Instagram: @r...

WHY DO I FEEL PULLED IN SO MANY DIRECTIONS? OCTOPUS ARMS PART ONE: LIFE + IDENTITY Your career wants one thing. Your relationship wants another. Your future wants something your old life may not fit anymore. And then there’s you in the middle of all of it. Where your life is fighting itself Which version of you is making the decisions What deserves more, less, or a hard question If you’ve got a lo...

WHY SAVING $23 CAN COST YOU MORE How much are you actually willing to pay for “free”? I spent more than 15 minutes getting transferred, disconnected and increasingly pissed off trying to redeem a $23 Pizza Hut credit. This is for the person who keeps choosing cheaper, easier or “free” without counting what it costs in time, energy and standards. Inside: When does saving money stop being worth it?...

What if burnout isn’t because you do too much? What if you never give yourself a week to actually LIVE? WHY YOU NEED A BIRTHDAY WEEK EVERY MONTH This is for the high-energy woman with 20 tabs open who loves to work, create and go hard... but keeps putting the fun stuff, the life stuff and herself on the bottom of the list. I work two weeks on, one week off. Not a week to sit on my ass. A Birthday...

At some point, you have to stop looking at the life you want and start building the damn thing. Your vision board might be full of dreams you already achieved, dreams you don't even want anymore, and shit you've been staring at for three years without doing anything about it. Maybe you don't need another vision board. Maybe you need a battle board or wall of wins. Inside: Is it still y...

STOP TRYING TO GET PICKED Are you being yourself... or making yourself easier to choose? I caught myself doing it on the treadmill. Trying to package myself right. Say it right. Position it right. Pitch myself right. All so somebody else would check the damn box. We're not on the junior-high playground anymore. Inside: Am I expressing myself or editing myself? Am I growing or auditioning for a...

STOP CHASING YOUR FUTURE SELF. You’re so busy becoming her, you might be starving the woman who has to get you there. We talk a lot about future you. Becoming her. Manifesting her. Building her. Fighting for her. But CURRENT YOU is doing all the damn work. This episode is for the woman who keeps looking ahead while putting herself on the back burner today. Inside: What do you actually want RIGHT N...

My name is Robyn Lynn, and I am here to help you fight for your current self, your future self, all the previous versions of you, your decisions, your do's, your don'ts, everything that you believe is possible for you is possible. But it's showing up ugly. It is not wondering what if, and it is never settling. It is Absolutely never settling. Listen to your to your gut. That is God cal...

The Daily Fight Episode 84: Let Your Kids See You Try and Fail Now. The best thing you can show your kids is a mother who actually lives her own life. My kids have birthdays this week. And every birthday reminds me that while they’ve been growing up, I’ve been becoming someone too. This episode is for the moms (especially single ones) Inside: Why chasing your dreams is part of raising your kids Wh...

Is the ONE thing you catch yourself saying even true? The Daily Fight: Episode 83 One sentence can mess with your mindset, your confidence, and where you’re trying to go without you ever questioning what you actually mean by it. Inside: Why one negative thought can turn into something you believe about yourself How to separate what actually happened from what you decided it means The question that...

The hardest part isn't holding your position. It's trying to get back into it after you've convinced yourself to quit. One bad decision in Pilates this morning reminded me exactly what happens when you break your own stride. Inside this episode: Why stepping away can make the fight harder. How to recognize when you're negotiating your way out of discomfort. The difference between c...

The Daily Fight Podcast | Episode 81: BAND-AIDS: How much is it costing you to keep making a life you don't want more comfortable? My husband's $150 orthotics sent me down a rabbit hole. Because how many damn things can we buy, try, and do before we admit we already know what needs to change? And I'm not just talking about his feet. Inside this episode: Why your next quick fix might be...