The Becoming Her Podcast

When you protect your peace, you safeguard your mental health , when you safeguard your mental health your life improves drastically. One of the reasons why we are still stuck is because we are staying in situations where we feel unloved and we are not doing anything about it . When people continuously talk down on you , when people continuously act like you don’t matter , and you let them to keep...

You are not alone, you are heavily guarded and protected. I understand that sometimes life can be very demanding and difficult that it makes us want to seclude ourselves because we feel like no one is truly going to understand our situation. I understand that we are so used to shutting off when life becomes very heavy that we simply zone off when faced with tough situations. I understand that when...

The reason why most financial expert teach about compound interest is because they understand that when an interest is compounded over time , the profit is massive . This is the same thing that happens when you decide to do things daily that can change your life .  Do you know that if you can dedicate the next 90 days to your dreams and goals , you can form a habit and that habit slowly builds you...

When you finally have the courage to leave a toxic situation, you become so unstoppable . I understand that sometimes our mind makes us believe that no one is going to love us , so we prefer to stay in a familiar place than leaving a painful situation. When we spend years in the wrong situation , our mind tricks us into thinking that this is all there is , so we don’t even want to make a change be...

When you go back to a place where you were mistreated , disrespected and abandoned, it says a lot about how you see yourself. And the person that you are returning back to won’t even value you because he or she understands that you don’t hold yourself in high esteem.  I understand when we have built emotional attachment with people , it’s sometimes difficult to let go , because we are scared of th...

When you become self aware , it helps you take a step back and reanalyze your life . It helps you trace your habits , and to understand the role you are playing in your suffering.  Sometimes, the problem are not always other people, sometimes , we are the weapon fashioned against ourselves. Not to sound harsh , but this is a wake up call . If you really want your life to get better , you have to l...

Forgive yourself about the mistakes you made when you didn’t know better , forgive yourself for your past , forgive yourself for your shortcomings .  In life , sometimes we have to make mistakes to learn , to grow , to become better . So forgive yourself. Beating yourself up won’t help you , ruminating about the past and why you made such mistakes won’t help you . Instead it starts to turn to Self...

Sometimes it’s really difficult to forget our pain because of how deeply wounded we felt by it . Sometimes we want to change from being good people because of our experiences .  Most times it’s easier said than done , when people tell you to forget your past , let it go , and preach a bunch of things , we start to say things like ‘You have not lived in my shoes , so you don’t know my pain . And we...

Know your worth , Queen 👸🏽. You exude so much power , so much essence, so much elegance to settle for less . You are worth more than silver and gold , Infact there is no price tags to your worth because you are priceless! ACT LIKE IT . Carry yourself like it .  Do not stay in situations where you are not valued, where you are not loved , where you are not respected. You should have list of non n...

You are not your current situation, you are not your past mistakes, you are not the pain that you experienced. Do not let any of those things define you , do not allow your life to stay stuck because you are living in regrets .  God can change your story , God can rewrite your story . Sometimes the pain becomes the stepping stone to your next level . I understand that when going through the pain ,...

We need to look at our fears to the face and say , ‘You cannot keep ruining my life’. Fear has kept us stuck , because we just think we are going to fail . The fear of failure has kept us in the loop of not wanting to try anything .  The voices in our head that’s making us believe the fears must be silenced. There is so much we can achieve , so much we can become , so much we can conquer. I want u...

Worry doesn’t even change your current situation, it just makes you to panic , it makes you paranoid. And before you know it fear creeps in , before you know it the voices in your head starts to talk to you , before you know you it you start to believe the voices , and you start to act on it . And it starts to tell you that you can’t become anything and your subconscious listens carefully to what...

I know that we all personally want to grow , we are tired of being stuck and repeating the same patterns everytime . We notice that after listening to a motivational speech , we are energized and ready to do what it takes to get a better future . But after few days , the energy fizzles out and we become tired and less interested.  Do you remember how at the beginning of the year , you wrote many t...

The voices in our head can sometimes be our greatest enemy. And the reason is because we believe what those voices are saying to us and we start to act upon it .  Most times we believe the negative things the voices are telling us . One thing is certain, your subconscious listens to what you repeat daily and slowly that becomes your reality .  I understand that pain , rejection, betrayal , anger,...

Do you love yourself? Too often, we neglect ourselves. We pour love into everyone else while allowing our own minds, bodies, and spirits to become depleted. Today, I want you to make a decision: choose to love yourself. Be intentional about it. Understand that you matter. Your birth was not a mistake. You are here for a reason, and you are needed. I know that life’s experiences can sometimes make...

Episode 3: We Are All Broken Yes, we are all broken!! We are all healing from something we don’t talk about. Every day, we get dressed, show up, smile, and present ourselves to the world as though everything is fine. We wear our best clothes, look glamorous, chase our goals, and keep moving. Yet beneath the surface often lie deeply rooted pain, wounds, disappointments, and battles that no one sees...

Have you ever found yourself asking: Why did God create me? What is my purpose? How do I know I’m on the right path? In this episode of The Becoming Her Podcast, we explore one of life’s deepest questions: Purpose We discuss how fear often keeps us from pursuing the life we were created for, why everyone’s journey is unique, and how painful seasons can sometimes be preparing us for something great...

Welcome to the very first episode of ‘ The Becoming Her Podcast ‘  In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most important parts of any transformation journey: Realizing who you are. So many of us spend years living according to expectations, past experiences, fear, or the opinions of others. But true growth begins when we pause, reflect, and reconnect with our authentic selves. Join me as...