The Asian Dating Podcast

In this episode, I sit down with Heidi Chance, a former law enforcement officer and human trafficking expert, to uncover what trafficking can actually look like in the dating world. Heidi explains how traffickers may initiallyappear to be normal, charming men who build trust through dating, gifts, trips, or financial support before gradually introducing control, isolation, threats,and exploitation...

What does dating and lasting love look like in your 60s, 70s, and beyond? In this episode, Belle Gayer shares lessons about love, relationships, and marriage from the perspective of someone who has been married for more than 54 years. Belle discusses why failures can ultimately make us better and why she believes singles should prioritize meeting in person rather than spending too much time buildi...

What if one of the things missing from your dating life isn’t romance, but simply human touch? In this episode, I talk with Epiphany Jordan, author of Somebody Hold Me, about touch starvation and why nurturing physical connection is important even outside of romantic relationships. Epiphany shares ways single people can meet their need for healthy, consensual touch, including cuddle parties, works...

What makes a relationship healthy, and how do you know when conflict has crossed the line into something toxic? In this episode, I sit down with Heather Melville to talk about breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, communicating through conflict, and learning how to repair after a fight. We explore why healthy couples still disagree, how “I” statements can change the tone of a conversation, and...

What do men really need to understand about women, and what actually creates attraction? Dating coach Scot McKay joins me for a candid conversation about attraction, confidence, flirting, and what men and women often misunderstand about each other. We talk about how men can stand out even if they’re shorter or don’t look like George Clooney, the real purpose of a first date, and how men can let th...

In this episode, I sit down with Owen to explore how unresolved trauma can quietly impact our dating lives, relationships, and even our ability to speak up for ourselves. We talk about how to recognize when you may be stuck in an emotional pattern, the three major categories of trauma, and why even highly successful people can struggle with assertiveness and relationships. Owen also shares how lon...

In this episode, Matchmaker May sits down with Executive Charm Coach Frank Anderson to explore why timeless dating etiquette still gives men a tremendous advantage in today's dating world. Frank explains why confidence isn't about flashy lines or expensive dinners. It's about slowing down, being intentional, and making someone feel genuinely valued. The conversation covers practical da...

Lakshmi Nagasamudra shares how family, culture, and intentionality shape the South Asian matchmaking experience. As the founder of VivaahReady, she explains why her platform is designed specifically for marriage-minded singles rather than casual dating and discusses the importance of verified profiles, family involvement, and community compatibility. The conversation also explores whether professi...

Asian Matchmaker May and New York City matchmaker Alina Fattakhova sit down to discuss what it really takes to build meaningful relationships in today's dating world. Alina shares how her own dating experiences led her to become a matchmaker, why consistency is the key to forming lasting connections, and how singles can make the most of dating events and mixers. She also explains why being too...

In this episode, May is joined by Francesca Zoia to discuss what it really takes to build a healthy, lasting relationship. They explore when counseling can help, why your partner can't meet every emotional need, the importance of assuming the best in one another, and how personal growth strengthens relationships. They also tackle one of the biggest questions couples face: when should you keep...

In this episode, professional matchmaker May sit down with licensed therapist, coach, and relationship expert Jena Jake to explore what truly creates lasting relationships. They discuss why chemistry isn't always a sign of compatibility, how self-awareness can transform your dating life, and why healthy boundaries are essential for finding the right partner. Jena also shares how her compatibil...

In this episode, professional matchmakers May Bugenhagen and Sara Moses share practical dating advice for men, covering everything from creating a stronger dating profile and moving conversations off the apps to avoiding common texting mistakes. They also discuss green flags to look for, behaviors that can turn women away, and simple strategies to help men build genuine connections and find lastin...

Sophie knows the more information means more power in your love life. She works primarily with BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color) singles, blending relationship psychology with an unflinching look at how race, culture, and generational conditioning shape who we choose and why. In this episode, she gets candid about why "high standards" are often a myth, how successful women g...

Let's be honest — nice guys are finishing last, and nobody's talking about why. In this episode, May sits down with dating coach Dan Silverman, the man on a mission to rescue the Invisible Nice Guy from the friendzone, the ghost, and the endless dating app spiral that's going absolutely nowhere. Dan doesn't sugarcoat it. If you're seeing the same painful patterns repeat in your...

What if finding love was less about swiping and more about living intentionally? In this fascinating conversation, May sits down with Rebeccah Lipson, a Boston-based Jewish matchmaker with a refreshingly real take on modern romance. Forget the endless checklist — Rebeccah breaks down why your lifestyle, your values, and even the relationship you watched your parents model matter far more than any...

This conversation with matchmaker Maja Uckar is refreshingly real — no scripts, no rulebooks, just hard-won wisdom from someone who's genuinely in love with her work. Maja shares her philosophy on modern dating: move fast, keep it fun, and stop treating dates like job interviews. From knowing when to take things offline to supporting late-blooming men and divorced women rebuilding their confid...

Vivek's story isn't what you'd expect. On paper, he had it all...but underneath all that? He was quietly struggling, feeling lost, fearful, and disconnected from who he really was. Through years of therapy, coaching, and serious inner work, he discovered a version of himself that was warm, magnetic, and fully present — and now he helps others do the same. He eventually connected with O...

What if dating wasn’t about luck—but a skill you can actually learn? In this episode, I sit down with internationally recognized dating expert Hunt Ethridge to break down the real mechanics behind attraction, charisma, and connection. From helping a 40-year-old virgin transform his dating life to teaching everyday people how to spark instant chemistry, Hunt shares practical, surprisingly simple to...

In this episode, I sit down with private matchmaker Lorii Abela to unpack why even highly successful individuals can feel stuck in their love lives—and what it really takes to choose the right partner. We explore the deeper layers of compatibility beyond chemistry, including family dynamics, cultural expectations, career demands, and long-term alignment. Lorii shares candid insights on common pitf...

In this episode, I sit down with Wayfinder Life Coach Tricia Rose Stone to explore how women can shift their mindset around dating and relationships by changing the inner “lens” through which they see love. We talk about the pressure many women feel when dating, why connection is more of a creative and evolving process than a checklist, and how practicing simple, everyday interactions can build re...

In this episode, I sit down with matchmaker Hayley Hurst, founder of Cohen Gray Connections, to talk about what’s really happening in modern dating and how both men and women can approach dating more effectively today. We dive into what truly matters when it comes to attraction, from job, lifestyle, and values to the often-overlooked importance of presence and communication. Hayley also shares ins...

In this episode, I sit down with emotional intelligence dating coach Chris Gillis to unpack why so many successful, high-performing men thrive in their careers—but struggle in their dating lives. Chris shares how he helps men bridge that gap by translating connection, attraction, and communication in a way that actually works with women. We talk about moving beyond “nice guy” answers, how to bring...

In this episode, I sit down with astrologer and coach Elizabeth Weihmiller to explore how Eastern astrology can offer powerful, practical insights into dating, relationships, and self-awareness. We break down the differences between Eastern and Western astrology, how astrology is used in matchmaking, and why even skeptics can benefit from understanding their birth chart. Elizabeth shares how she u...

In this episode, I sit down with self-sabotage expert and entrepreneur Mike Radoor to explore a powerful question: “Am I the man that I admire?” We dive into what truly defines a high-value man—from self-respect, discipline, and physical health to emotional awareness and relationship dynamics. Mike shares his journey from building multi-million-dollar companies while struggling internally, to tran...

In this empowering episode, Transformation Coach Connie Curtis helps women unlearn old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and release the people-pleasing habits that keep them stuck. She shares powerful insights on self-love, intuition, and how to stop chasing butterflies or trying to change someone else. Through raw honesty and soulful humor, Connie reminds women that true freedom begins when you take...