No Room for Phonies

What do you do when the world around you is so divided?  Why do people feel alone and like they don't matter? What can be done?   We can love fiercely.  We can use the 9 daily practices to combat the busyness in our lives that prevents us from slowing down and putting humanity first.  

Is kindness normal?   How does kindness shape how you interact with the world?  Why deep kindness?   How does incompetence hold us back from being kind?   How does insecurity hold us back from being kind? What do inconvenience and inconsistency have to do with being kinder?   What is the 1% rule?  

Life is a series of single days.   Make a simple decision to make someone's life easier or more rewarding, even just for a day.   Living is a team sport.   The every day details matter.  There is no lack of opportunity for any of us to do good in the world.  

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Why do we have a hard time dealing with our feeling? What happens in Vucaville?  How do we regulate our emotions?   What is co-regulation?   Why is the language of feelings important?   How do you optimize emotional regulation? How do you use the meta-moment?  

What is the FOGG Behaviour Model?  What about motivation?   What about ability?   What are the skills of change?   Do you want to embrace a new identity?  (I am a person who can change... I am a person who can feel calm and relaxed.  I am a person who eats right and exercises., etc)  What about bad habits?  What are the steps in Behaviour Design?  

What is status? How does it impact our daily lives?  Facts about identity signaling. Behaviours that indicate identity signaling.    Why is identity signaling dangerous?  

Follow us at noroom4phonies.com for our Worldview Quiz Why is it important t consider your worldview? How do you shift and what influences your worldview?    

Does DAD take a back seat in your household?   What is dad's role in family life? How do your kids view the mom/dad dynamic?  

How do we raise young men who will thrive in today's society?  What are the important components to raising kind, generous, responsible men who use their energy to build up those around them?  Galloway talks about physical and mental strength, friendships, romantic partners, fatherhood and SO MUCH MORE! My favourite quote is that the key to humanity's survival is and always has been kindness, cons...

Who is this coaching for? The First Hidden Problem:  The Hypervigilance Loop The Second Hidden Problem:  Identity Disruption For Partners - Your Side of This What Actually Helps - The Integration What Rise and Restore Coaching Actually Is A Specific Next Step

A Moment, not a statistic... Who We Are The Diagnosis - Advocating Into the System The Aftermath Nobody Warned Us About What the System Offered and What It Didn't  The Hard Middle - The Careful Silence What Started to Shift Things Why This Became A Coaching Business Stay Tuned May 30 for How We Can Help You

Are you feeling overwhelmed or burned out?   Slowing down and ambition are not opposites.   Bring some softness into your life.   Slow down, look for quiet moments and find small ways to choose the soft life.  

Why is being alone (at least in your thoughts) important?  Do you need to try some regulation that doesn't cost anything but a few minutes  a day?  - Try some reflective, mindful solitude.  A  busy family does not have to prevent you from turning off your phone and taking 10 minutes to journal, breath, reflect and make a difference for yourself.  

How do you find a pick me up for your relationship during crazy times?  These are 25 more ways to show love - simple and fun!

Just some simple things that you can do to strengthen your relationship - remember, looking after yourself is as important as looking after others.  Staying healthy, moving, making time for each other and yourself and much, much, more...

What do you need to know? What do you need to do?   What are the 5 most important things that impact men's health? Do you have a great naturopath to support you?  Dr. Dalton Vandersan https://www.healthdoc.ca/listing/dr-dalton-trevor-vander-sanden-nd-16312f He will do online consultation all across Canada.  

The 3 P's of Manhood Why do men go quiet? Redefining "Real Man" Why should men connect with men at a deeper level? What are some core characteristics of a "real man"?    

Financial Habits - the small, repeatable decisions that quietly do the heavy lifting.   When goals become behaviour - why systems matter - making decisions about making money work in real life, not just on paper.   Progress comes from clarity, repetition, and a willingness to look at our numbers without panic or avoidance.  

What can you do to achieve financial freedom? Why is financial freedom important?

What happens in the brain and body, and why joy is actually deeper than happiness.  Living well isn't about chasing more, but about meaning, connection, and resilience.  We talk about the chemistry, the psychology, and the lived experience - how joy grows through purpose, relationships, creativity, and even through challenge.  

How do you practice joy?   How do you normalize holding joy and sorrow together?   What does aging with joy look like?   What are some core truths about joy?   Preserve your radiance - find joy in small moments.  

Do you want some practical tips for aging well?  Look no farther - we are sharing some tried and true strategies that we use every day.   Aging well isn’t luck — it’s intention. In this episode we share the real habits, mindsets, and daily choices that keep us sharp, connected, curious, and grounded in midlife. From movement and food to joy, friendship, and decluttering your life, we talk honestly...

Lots of tips for not just surviving aging but THRIVING.  Keep sharp, creative, healthy, curious, disciplined and fully alive.  Manage your time, get physical, stay intimate and connected, nutrition, sleep and take your life in your own hands.  Look for role models and friends who encourage and model movement, fun and always moving forward.  

What do the difficult people in your life look like?  Are they bullies, avoiders, TMI'ers, etc?  Read about the 5 steps that can help you move forward in any difficult relationships.  Lots of great examples to deal with family, friends, co-workers, bosses and even yourself.  Life is a learning journey.