New Dad Order

Is America getting too soft to defend itself — or even raise resilient kids? In this episode, Ray and Parfait break down Pete Hegseth’s passionate warning about soft culture, weak leadership, and fading standards. They connect his message to everyday parenting, youth sports, and the modern military, asking the hard question: Can a soft generation survive in a hard world? From the soccer field to t...

In this episode, the hosts break down Pete Hegseth’s fiery 45-minute speech to military generals, focusing on standards, leadership, and the future of the U.S. military. The unscripted and passionate delivery impressed both hosts, who argue it was one of the clearest calls to action on restoring accountability and readiness in today’s armed forces. Core TakeawaysRaise Standards, Not Lower Them: He...

This episode examines three of the most talked-about stories of 2025: the Charlie Kirk assassination, the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, and the debate over deploying the National Guard in New Orleans. The conversation begins with the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, a moment that shook the political landscape and intensified national concerns about political violence. The episode explores not...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk — a polarizing figure in American politics and social media. We talk about:👉 His rise from college campus debates to internet fame👉 Why so many people either loved him or hated him👉 The role social media played in his career (and his downfall)👉 Our honest opinions on his impact, legacy,...

In Episode 23 of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the funniest, strangest, and most absurd house rules and parenting myths they grew up with. From weird family traditions to childhood superstitions, the episode unpacks the rules parents swore were true but turned out to be nothing more than myths or scare tactics. The Strangest House RulesSome rules were practical, but others m...

How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic. As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spot...

Breakfast Cereal, 90s Nostalgia, Saturday Morning Cartoons, Sugar Smacks, Frosted Flakes, Lucky Charms, Apple Jacks, and Corn Pops — in this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait take you back to the golden days of childhood when cereal and cartoons ruled Saturday mornings. The hosts start by declaring their favorite childhood cereals: Sugar Smacks (both agree it was their number o...

Welcome back to the New Dad Order Podcast! In Episode 20, Ray and Parfait take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the magic of Saturday morning cartoons. From bowls of cereal in front of the TV to heated debates about which shows truly stood the test of time, this episode is packed with laughs, memories, and a healthy dose of dad perspective. We compare the cartoon eras of the 80s vs. 9...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the world of travel baseball vs travel basketball (AAU). They break down how summer becomes “high drama season” with endless World Series tournaments, costs of travel ball, team classifications (AA, AAA, Majors), and the business behind organizations like Perfect Game, UTSA, and Hammond Yankees. They also compare basketball’s...

n this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, co-host Jerrard shares his firsthand experience using Thirdzy, a natural sleep supplement, and how it compares to his previous go-to: Beam, a CBD-based sleep aid. As a dad who juggles early mornings and long commutes, Jerrard gives a detailed, no-hype breakdown of how Thirdzy affected his sleep quality, referencing data from his WHOOP sleep tracker. He...

s your marriage struggling after having kids? You're not alone. In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast (Ep 17), we dive deep into how marriage changes after kids and what it takes to reconnect with your partner when life revolves around parenting. From managing schedules to creating intentional couple time like a quiet coffee or dog walks, we share real experiences and practical tips for...

In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked yet important transitions a man can experience: rediscovering your identity after becoming a father. Fatherhood changes everything — from your hobbies and lifestyle to how you see yourself. Hosts Ray and Parfait reflect on their personal journeys of transformation, sharing how they moved from late-n...

Work-Life Balance for Dads: Real Talk on Boundaries, Stress & Family Time (NDO15)Struggling to balance your career, stress, and family time as a dad? You're not alone. In Episode 15 of the New Dad Order podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait open up about the real challenges modern dads face when it comes to work-life balance. From long work hours and bringing stress home to missing precious moments w...

Welcome to the New Dad Order Podcast, where we get real about the modern Dad Identity Crisis and the challenges men face from dating to marriage to fatherhood. In this episode, hosts Ray and Parfait break down what it really means to lose — and then rediscover — yourself as a husband and father. They dive deep into the stages that shape your identity: going from dating to dad, balancing a demandin...

Welcome to the New Dad Order podcast! In this powerful episode, Ray and Parfait dive into a deeply personal and eye-opening discussion about the 8 most harmful phrases parents unknowingly say to their kids. Whether you're a new dad, seasoned parent, or someone healing from childhood trauma, this conversation will resonate with you. Starting at 1:07, the hosts break down phrases like “What’s wrong...

Want to play D1 college football — or help your kid get there? In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray breaks down 8 things he did to play Division 1 football in the 90s — and 5 ways modern athletes can still get recruited today. The game may have changed — with NIL deals, transfer portals, and social media highlights — but one thing hasn’t: effort always matters.🎧 Whether you’...

Welcome to New Dad Order! Are you a dad contemplating a return to fitness or curious about the CrossFit phenomenon? In this insightful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, hosts Ray and Jerrard delve into the unfiltered truths about embarking on a CrossFit journey, especially from a father's perspective. What You'll Discover:Scaling Isn't Failing: Learn why adapting workouts to your f...

n this raw, honest episode, Ray and Jerrard talk about the stuff most dads won’t say out loud—from spiritual gut instincts to childhood trauma, health scares, and parenting in the shadow of addiction. You’ll hear Jerrard open up about losing his mom at age 6, and Ray surviving a terrifying AFib incident, and how faith slowly made its way back into Jerrard's life. The guys also dive into the “G...

#podcast #family #friends #oktoberfest #prom #xbox Buckle up for a wild ride in Episode 8 as we dive into Covington’s newest restaurants and Jerrard’s surprising Chinese food hustle. We dish on picky eaters, homemade pasta, and the magic of Italian markets—then shift gears to globe-trotting tales from Oktoberfest mayhem to Hawaiian leis and Canadian adventures. You'll meet Henry—the coolest gu...

In this episode, we dive deep into what makes real friendships stick—from supporting each other through insecurities to calling out the fake "L" word. We share hilarious stories, explore the bond between veterans in Irreverent Warriors, and reflect on the importance of surrounding yourself with people who show up. From casinos and poker tournaments to MGK as a dad and Ryan Reynolds as De...

Strap in for an epic ride through dad life, fashion faux pas, Disney trauma, and the never-ending Star Wars feed. In this episode, we tackle everything from lightsabers to laugh tracks, school calendars to cargo shorts (spoiler: they gotta go). Get ready for real talk, nostalgia, unpopular opinions, and way too much time spent on tactical pants.🎢 Topics include:Disney World meltdownsWhy vertical...

Jerrard and Ray discuss Helicopter Parents and if Life 360 is good or bad. When you cook is that what you eat or do you have picky eaters? Jerrard and Ray discover that picky is the trend. Light discussion on Poker and how Guardian Helmets that the NFL use are not allowed in Louisiana Highschool football, find out why. All this in our longform podcast...enjoy! Reach out to Jerrard or RayJerrard-Jm...

Jerrard and Ray discuss sleep patterns and when their kids should and wanted to go to sleep, a brief discussion about Thirdzy, getting to the gym. Dad fashion is on the books-did you rock cargo shorts? Squatting and Leg press are subjects for meat head moment and they finish off with a heated discussion on who is a better athlete...Soccer players or basketball players! Who you got?

Reach out to Jerrard or Ray Jerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.com Jerrard-IG is ‪@itsparfait‬ Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.com Join us as we navigate the exhilarating journey of fatherhood, sharing stories, advice, and the occasional dad joke, real talk on parenting, balancing life, and embracing the chaos of fatherhood.​ Welcome back to the New Dad Order — where we raise strong kids, crush weak mindsets, and deadli...

Jerrard and Ray talk about Bullying and how it affected each of their lives and they give solutions to parents especially in this new day of social media. Talking about social media, how can you post it but not talk about it? There are a few more topics and a new Dad Rule and a meat head moment. Reach out to Jerrard or Ray Jerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.com Jerrard-IG is @itsparfait Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.c...