New Dad Order

New Dad Order – Episode 37 is a thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation about modern fatherhood, youth sports, resilience, and intentional parenting, featuring the real-life experiences of a former Division I athlete, attorney, coach, and dads. The episode explores how early life lessons, career pressure, natural disasters, and sports culture shape the way men show up as fathers today. The discussio...

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the college football coaching carousel, reacting to Lane Kiffin leaving Ole Miss for LSU and the ripple effects it creates across the SEC and the national landscape. This conversation tackles the complicated intersection of NIL, the transfer portal, early signing day, and the evolving expectations placed on modern college coaches. Wh...

Will AI destroy us, or are we panicking about the wrong things? Through a fast-paced and honest conversation, we explore how artificial intelligence, social media, screen addiction, and technology are shaping modern life—and whether any of it actually threatens humanity. The discussion begins with the widespread belief that social media is destroying society. But the hosts challenge this idea, arg...

The Dad Rules Compilation explores a humorous yet relatable set of “dad rules” covering fitness etiquette, grocery store behavior, men’s fashion, and the culture of fatherhood. Blending real-life scenarios with bold opinions, the conversation outlines what it means to be a modern dad—and what behaviors should be avoided. A major focus of the discussion is gym etiquette. The hosts emphasize that da...

In this episode, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the real meaning of failure, discipline, and doing hard things—and how these principles shape success in sports, business, parenting, and everyday life. They break down why people fear failure, why excuses become our biggest obstacle, and how building discipline through small daily challenges leads to long-term growth. Sports becomes a central metaph...

In a special Father’s Day episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait welcome their longtime friend and first guest, Jason Lipscomb, a local real estate mogul and entrepreneur from Ponchatoula, Louisiana. Jason’s inspiring journey from dealing cards at poker tables to becoming a top-producing real estate broker, investor, and restaurateur highlights the power of hustle, motivation,...

New Dad Order, welcomes Ernie M. Burns, Jr., President & CEO of Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors and host of the TV show Total Retirement with Ernie Burns. With over 30 years of experience in retirement income planning, Ernie shares his personal journey of resilience, faith, and discipline, along with expert insights on retirement planning, wealth management, estate planning, and fi...

In this episode of The New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down what it truly means to have “Ice in the Veins” — that elite-level calm under pressure that separates average performers from true leaders. Drawing from college football memories, parenting lessons, and the psychology of performance, they unpack how emotional control, preparation, and resilience build both great athletes and confident...

This episode explores the often-unspoken reality behind modern masculinity — where strength and vulnerability collide. This episode dives deep into the emotional struggles men face in silence, the pressure to “be the rock,” and the hidden cost of suppressing pain. Hosts Ray and Parfait open a real conversation about how men can carry strength without losing their humanity, combining stoic principl...

In Episode 30 of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the unspoken rules of emotional intelligence, and conversation skills. The episode opens with a relatable truth—how men often default to saying “I’m good” even when they’re not. It’s a cultural shorthand for emotional restraint, politeness, and control, but it can also isolate men from real connection. The hosts explore ho...

In this episode of the Water to Wine Podcast, two dads open up about faith, family, and friendship—and how God often turns the simple, ordinary moments of life into the “good wine” that nourishes our souls. Drawing inspiration from Jesus’ first miracle at Cana, they explore what it means to live out faith not just in church, but in marriage, parenting, and daily relationships. One host shares how...

Is America getting too soft to defend itself — or even raise resilient kids? In this episode, Ray and Parfait break down Pete Hegseth’s passionate warning about soft culture, weak leadership, and fading standards. They connect his message to everyday parenting, youth sports, and the modern military, asking the hard question: Can a soft generation survive in a hard world? From the soccer field to t...

In this episode, the hosts break down Pete Hegseth’s fiery 45-minute speech to military generals, focusing on standards, leadership, and the future of the U.S. military. The unscripted and passionate delivery impressed both hosts, who argue it was one of the clearest calls to action on restoring accountability and readiness in today’s armed forces. Core TakeawaysRaise Standards, Not Lower Them: He...

This episode examines three of the most talked-about stories of 2025: the Charlie Kirk assassination, the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, and the debate over deploying the National Guard in New Orleans. The conversation begins with the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, a moment that shook the political landscape and intensified national concerns about political violence. The episode explores not...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk — a polarizing figure in American politics and social media. We talk about:👉 His rise from college campus debates to internet fame👉 Why so many people either loved him or hated him👉 The role social media played in his career (and his downfall)👉 Our honest opinions on his impact, legacy,...

In Episode 23 of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the funniest, strangest, and most absurd house rules and parenting myths they grew up with. From weird family traditions to childhood superstitions, the episode unpacks the rules parents swore were true but turned out to be nothing more than myths or scare tactics. The Strangest House RulesSome rules were practical, but others m...

How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic. As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spot...

Breakfast Cereal, 90s Nostalgia, Saturday Morning Cartoons, Sugar Smacks, Frosted Flakes, Lucky Charms, Apple Jacks, and Corn Pops — in this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait take you back to the golden days of childhood when cereal and cartoons ruled Saturday mornings. The hosts start by declaring their favorite childhood cereals: Sugar Smacks (both agree it was their number o...

Welcome back to the New Dad Order Podcast! In Episode 20, Ray and Parfait take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the magic of Saturday morning cartoons. From bowls of cereal in front of the TV to heated debates about which shows truly stood the test of time, this episode is packed with laughs, memories, and a healthy dose of dad perspective. We compare the cartoon eras of the 80s vs. 9...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the world of travel baseball vs travel basketball (AAU). They break down how summer becomes “high drama season” with endless World Series tournaments, costs of travel ball, team classifications (AA, AAA, Majors), and the business behind organizations like Perfect Game, UTSA, and Hammond Yankees. They also compare basketball’s...

n this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, co-host Jerrard shares his firsthand experience using Thirdzy, a natural sleep supplement, and how it compares to his previous go-to: Beam, a CBD-based sleep aid. As a dad who juggles early mornings and long commutes, Jerrard gives a detailed, no-hype breakdown of how Thirdzy affected his sleep quality, referencing data from his WHOOP sleep tracker. He...

s your marriage struggling after having kids? You're not alone. In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast (Ep 17), we dive deep into how marriage changes after kids and what it takes to reconnect with your partner when life revolves around parenting. From managing schedules to creating intentional couple time like a quiet coffee or dog walks, we share real experiences and practical tips for...

In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked yet important transitions a man can experience: rediscovering your identity after becoming a father. Fatherhood changes everything — from your hobbies and lifestyle to how you see yourself. Hosts Ray and Parfait reflect on their personal journeys of transformation, sharing how they moved from late-n...

Work-Life Balance for Dads: Real Talk on Boundaries, Stress & Family Time (NDO15)Struggling to balance your career, stress, and family time as a dad? You're not alone. In Episode 15 of the New Dad Order podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait open up about the real challenges modern dads face when it comes to work-life balance. From long work hours and bringing stress home to missing precious moments w...

Welcome to the New Dad Order Podcast, where we get real about the modern Dad Identity Crisis and the challenges men face from dating to marriage to fatherhood. In this episode, hosts Ray and Parfait break down what it really means to lose — and then rediscover — yourself as a husband and father. They dive deep into the stages that shape your identity: going from dating to dad, balancing a demandin...