Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise

In this episode, we take a look back at some of my favorite episodes that I have recorded so far. We also talk about what I have learned, how I have grown and what to look forward to as we continue this amazing podcast journey! Send us Fan Mail Thanks for listening to Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise . If this episode meant something to you, take a second to follow the show, leave a rating, and share...

Some movies make us laugh. Some make us cry. And some hit completely differently once we become parents. In this solo episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I'm counting down my favorite parent movies of all time—not because they're award winners, but because they capture the love, sacrifice, humor, and unforgettable moments that come with raising a family. From Look Who's Talkin...

In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I sit down with author Danielle Frank to talk about her unique journey from the world of Miramax and Hollywood storytelling to writing A Wine Lover's Guide to Parenting . Danielle shares how her experiences in the entertainment industry shaped her approach to storytelling, why she decided to write a parenting-themed book despite not being a pa...

Summer break is here, and if you're a parent, you know exactly what that means—more snacks, more road trips, more boredom battles, and a lot more chaos. In Episode 17 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, Brian shares his completely unofficial, highly questionable, Dad-approved guide to surviving the summer. From lowering expectations and building the ultimate road trip survival pack to creating t...

Ever wish parenting came with a handbook? In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , Brian shares some of the unofficial rules of parenting that every mom and dad learns along the way—usually through trial and error, plenty of laughter, and a little bit of chaos. From kids who think they know more than you do, to the mysterious disappearance of shoes, to the universal truth that you should...

Marriage comes with a lot of rules... the problem is nobody tells you what they are. In Episode 15 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , Brian dives into the hilarious and sometimes confusing unwritten rules of marriage. From the proper way to fold a towel and load a dishwasher to passenger seat driving and the mystery of fitted sheets, this episode explores the little things every married couple seem...

Episode 14: The Older I Get, The Weirder My Playlist Gets Ever realize your playlist starts making less sense to everyone else… but somehow makes more sense to you? In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, Brian talks about how music changes as we get older and how certain albums and artists become attached to different chapters of our lives. We dive into the records that shaped us growing...

There are things dads quietly miss after becoming fathers… and most of us never talk about them. The silence. The freedom. The hobbies. Hot food. Watching an entire movie uninterrupted. In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, Brian talks honestly about the little parts of life dads secretly miss while also reflecting on the meaningful chaos that comes with fatherhood. From kids stealing f...

Nobody really talks about the guilt that comes with being a father. The moments we replay. The pressure we carry. The fear of getting it wrong. The struggle of trying to be better than the example we grew up with. In this episode of Mostly Me Occasionally Wise , Brian gets real about fatherhood, the invisible weight dads carry, and the quiet moments that stick with us long after our kids forget th...

There’s something about 80s movies… They weren’t always perfect…  they weren’t always polished… but somehow—they stuck with you. In this episode of Mostly Me Occasionally Wise , I’m breaking down a list of 80s gems you need to watch at least once —the ones that flew under the radar but still left a lasting impression. We’re talking about movies that were:  a little weird   a little wild   and some...

Welcome to Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise — a podcast about growing up, growing older, and figuring it out as we go. If you grew up in the 80s or 90s and now find yourself raising kids in the WiFi era, you’re in the right place. We talk nostalgia, modern parenting, marriage, work-from-home life, and the occasional unpopular opinion (yes, E.T. is overrated… and Die Hard is not a Christmas movie). 🎙️...

At some point… it happens. You say something…  and immediately realize— “Wow… I sound just like my parents.” In Episode 10 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , we’re diving into the phrases we swore we’d never say… but now say all the time. From the classics like:  “We have food at home”  “Because I said so”  “Money doesn’t grow on trees” …to the ones nobody prepares you for:  “Don’t eat that”  “Why...

Some conversations don’t happen out loud… They happen in our heads. We rehearse them.  We replay them.  We tell ourselves we’ll say something… eventually. But we don’t. In this episode, we’re talking about the conversations we avoid — with our spouse, our kids… and even ourselves. Not because we don’t care…  but because we don’t know how they’re going to go. I share real-life moments from home, th...

WrestleMania 42 is HERE… and yeah… I’ve got some thoughts. 😤 In Episode 7 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I’m breaking down the official WrestleMania 42 match card —the big matches, the stories, the ones I’m hyped for… and the ones that have me raising an eyebrow 👀 But before we get into all that, we kick things off with the Dad Life Debrief —because life as a dad doesn’t stop just because Wre...

We hear things our whole lives…  “Time flies.”  “Be patient.”  “You’ll understand when you’re older.” But what happens when one day… you finally do? In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , we take a real and honest look at the difference between knowing something… and actually understanding it. From parenting and relationships… to the people who’ve shaped us along the way, this episode d...

What makes a movie a comfort movie ? Is it nostalgia?  Is it familiarity?  Or is it just that feeling you get when you press play and know exactly what you’re about to experience? In Episode 6 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , we’re diving into the movies we keep coming back to — the ones that feel easy, familiar, and just right no matter the mood. But this time, there’s a twist… This list isn’t j...

What happened to action heroes? There was a time when they were unstoppable.  No fear. No weakness. No explanation needed. They showed up… and handled it. But somewhere along the way, that changed. In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , we take a deep dive through the decades—from the larger-than-life icons of the 80’s, to the charismatic rebels of the 90’s, the grounded professionals o...

Parenthood is a journey that constantly changes. In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I reflect on raising my three kids—a four-year-old, a thirteen-year-old, and a nineteen-year-old daughter—and how each stage of life requires a different parenting approach. From the challenges of building trust with a teen who has experienced trauma, to the heartwarming moments with my daddy’s-boy f...

Episode 3: Villains Then vs. Now What happened to great villains? In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I take a fun look at how villains have changed from the classic bad guys we grew up with to the darker, more complex villains we see today. From the over-the-top personalities of the past to modern characters like The Grabber and President Snow, villains aren’t just evil anymore—they...

What does 42 really look like? In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I reflect on the lessons I’ve learned over four decades of growing, adjusting, failing, and figuring it out as I go. From how times have changed…  To why mentality matters more than milestones…  To learning when to say no, ask for help, and protect your peace… This isn’t about having life mastered. It’s about perspect...

The 80s had better movies. I said it. In this kickoff episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise , I’m ranking my Top 10 80s movies of all time — based on one simple rule: rewatch value. If I’m not casually putting it on when I’m bored, it doesn’t make the list. We’re talking iconic moments, unforgettable villains, legendary soundtracks… and a few hot takes that might raise your blood pressure. Yes,...