Let's Be Real

In this episode, Tara and Sheri delve into a topic that's often misunderstood and under-discussed: the termination of a therapeutic relationship. They candidly share their experiences and insights about what happens when therapy ends, whether it's planned or unexpected. From the different perspectives in private practice versus agency work to the nuances of maintaining professional boundaries and...

Today, we're addressing some feedback from our TikTok community about the content we post, particularly regarding our scope of practice as therapists. We clarify why we don't handle acute addiction and the importance of staying within our professional boundaries to provide the best care possible. Plus, we'll dive into the nuances of therapy specializations and why referring clients to the right re...

Today, Tara and Sheri dive into the fascinating world of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Therapy. Sheri, a seasoned practitioner of EMDR, sheds light on how this innovative therapy helps individuals process trauma, reduce anxiety, and navigate through past emotional blocks. They discuss the mechanics, benefits, and transformative power of EMDR, sharing real-life examples and a...

This week, meet Miami, a Texas-based therapist specializing in trauma and young adults, who blends somatic practices with experiential therapy. Despite her name, Miami is a true Texan, navigating the world of virtual therapy and coaching with authenticity and compassion. Discover how she uses creative approaches to help clients reconnect with their emotions and bodies, and the unique insights she...

Check out this new epsiode where Tara and Sheri explore the essential boundaries therapists set to ensure effective treatment, the importance of consultations, and how building genuine connections with clients can make all the difference. In this episode, we discuss why having clear rules—like not seeing clients under the influence or specializing in specific areas—is crucial. They  also delve int...

In this episode, we dive into the complexities of writing professional letters as licensed mental health practitioners. Join us as we discuss the frustrations and ethical dilemmas surrounding letters for emotional support animals, gender-affirming surgeries, and VA claims. We explore the challenges of balancing advocacy with the potential for misuse, the importance of proper client assessment, and...

In this episode, Tara and Sheri dive deep into the topic of alcohol, sobriety, and societal pressures. They share personal experiences, insights, and reflections on why it's important to respect people's choices regarding alcohol consumption. Join them as they challenge common ideas and encourage kindness towards oneself and others. If you're navigating sobriety, exploring your relationship with a...

In this episode, we dive into the intriguing dynamics of dating between introverts and extroverts. From negotiating boundaries to understanding each other's needs, we explore the dynamics of dating when worlds collide. Tara and Sheri explore the importance of communication, negotiation, and understanding each other's needs. They debunk stereotypes and emphasize the spectrum of introversion and ext...

In this episode, Tara and Sheri dive deep into the various phases of a breakup, from the infamous 'ho phase' to the complexities of trust issues and the 'don't care anymore' mindset. Join them as they share personal anecdotes, challenge stereotypes, and explore the gender dynamics of post-breakup experiences. With humor and honesty, they navigate the emotional rollercoaster of moving on and ask th...

Tara and Sheri have invited their friend Dawnchele Harris in this new and informative episode. The ladies discuss about Dawnchele's role as a doula and her insights for comprehensive perinatal support as well as the unfortunate facts of Black women's health. Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion on the critical importance of advocacy and access to care in maternal and infant well-being.   F...

Taking a break from the mental gymnastics, Tara and Sheri discuss the joys and challenges of their profession, sharing insights on paperwork, client dynamics, and their personal aspirations outside therapy. With humor and candor, they traverse through the intricacies of their work, revealing the messy yet fulfilling journey of being therapists.   Follow us! YouTube   Instagram   TikTok   Facebook

In this episode of Let's Be Real, hosts Tara and Sherry welcome guests Hector and Juan for an enticing conversation. Hector and Juan share their backgrounds in applied social and cultural psychology, focusing on the Latino community's mental health, gender diversity, and LGBTQIA+ well-being. Their conversation delves into the challenges and nuances of discussing emotional intelligence, the impact...

In this episode, Tara and Sheri expose some of their own experiences, sharing juicy gossip and reflecting on past relationships. From dealing with homophobic comments to navigating toxic dynamics, they lay it all out on the table. Join them as they share personal anecdotes, offer valuable insights, and provide a space for listeners to connect and relate to their experiences. Whether you're navigat...

n this episode, Tara and Sheri dive into the art of self-regulation and conflict resolution. From exploring personal experiences with music to discussing effective strategies for managing heated moments, they offer valuable insights and practical tips for maintaining healthy relationships. Join us as they share stories, explore research findings, and provide guidance on navigating conflicts with g...

In this candid conversation, hosts Tara and Sheri dive deep into the complexities of relationships, self-discovery, and navigating the pitfalls of toxic dynamics. With humor and honesty, the ladies discuss receiving warnings about potential partners to setting boundaries on social media nuances of social media personas, the power of self-reflection, and the journey towards healing and growth. Join...

Tara and Sherry dive into the often-overlooked topic of mommy issues. They discuss the societal bias towards protecting mothers, the challenges of setting boundaries, and the impact of unmet nurturing needs in childhood. From the expectations placed on moms to the complexities of parenting, this episode will cover a wide range of perspectives. Follow us! YouTube   Instagram   TikTok   Facebook

Join Tara and Sherry in a candid conversation about daddy issues – a topic that's often discussed when it comes to women but is equally relevant for men. In this episode, the ladies explore the subtle nuances and deep-seated patterns associated with daddy issues, debunking stereotypes and offering insights into how they manifest in behavior and identity struggles. Tune in next week when Tara and S...

Is keeping secrets a bad thing? For today's topic, Tara and Sheri discuss why it could be. Join in on the discussion as they explore the complexities of keeping, sharing, and confronting secrets, touching on relationships, shame, and the impact of holding onto hidden truths. Follow us! YouTube   Instagram   TikTok   Facebook

Janna is back! In this episode, Janna gets more personal about her past career and the complexities of the toxic work environment. Tara, Sheri, and Janna explore the issues of burnout, lack of recognition, and poor leadership within the system. This conversation touches on the desire to make a positive impact, finding the balance between passion and fair compensation, and the importance of challen...

Discover the unexpected places where support and camaraderie thrive outside traditional therapy settings! Whether it's a friendly chat in the restroom or a comforting encounter at the grocery store, support can be found in unexpected corners of our daily lives. Join Tara and Sheri as they discuss the power of finding connection and support in the unlikeliest of spaces, and learn how to navigate ch...

In this episode, Tara introduces the topic of highly sensitive persons (HSP) to Sheri, exploring Dr. Elaine Aron's concept of sensitivity. They delve into the characteristics of HSPs and discuss the challenges and misconceptions surrounding sensitivity. Join them as they navigate through personal experiences, societal expectations, and the importance of understanding and embracing one's sensitivit...

Tara and Sheri dive into the world of disappointing affirmations and explore the humor and relatability behind these unconventional nuggets of wisdom. If you're in the mood for a lighthearted conversation about navigating life's challenges with a touch of humor, you're in for a treat! Join us as we share laughs, reflections, and maybe a bit of sarcasm. Follow us! YouTube   Instagram   TikTok   Fac...

Tara and Sheri share insights into why these issues seem prevalent and explore the dynamics that draw individuals to such relationships. The duo emphasizes personal responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries early on to avoid getting entangled in unhealthy dynamics. Tune in for a candid conversation about relationships, personal growth, and finding the balance between love and self-pr...

From the difficulties of meeting people in a transient community to the impact of technology on organic connections, Tara and Sheri discover why reaching out, smiling at your neighbor, and creating local meetups might be the key to fostering genuine connections in a world where we are all seeking to belong. Don't miss this candid conversation about the importance of human connection in an increasi...

Sherry and Tara navigate through the maze of personal growth, discovering that resolutions aren't just about January 1st goals, but finding your 'why.' Explore the importance of setting meaningful, lasting goals that align with your passions and values. It's a journey toward self-improvement that transcends temporary fixes. Follow us! YouTube   Instagram   TikTok   Facebook