Lessons in Self Worth

HERE are all the details for The Self-Worth RESET, make sure you join up today Are you doing the work on your low-self-esteem? If you have recently had a wake-up call that it's time to improve your self-worth, you're in the right place. In this episode, I give you three common patterns I see how up again and again in people with low self-esteem. There are clear patterns that quietly shape...

If you struggle with self-worth and self-esteem, this podcast is for you. Self-worth shapes how you think, feel, and show up in your relationships, your work, and your everyday life. When it’s low, it often shows up as anxious attachment, jealousy, overthinking, obsession, perfectionism, mood swings, anxiety, people-pleasing, and constant worrying. Hosted by Carly Ann, this podcast helps you under...

If someone is living rent-free in your head, this episode is for you. Are you obsessing, overthinking, worrying, and constantly day-dreaming? As a therapist (and ex anxious attacher!), the key steps that actually help you get your life back. You’ll learn how to stop putting your happiness and self-worth into another person and start rebuilding happiness, self-trust, and peace from within anxious a...

Living with an anxious mind doesn’t mean happiness is out of reach. In this episode I explore with you what it’s really like to build a fulfilling life while overthinking, worrying and feeling everything deeply, and how happiness can still show up anyway You might think happiness isn't possible, or it doesn't last for you - but happiness is something you can create, even when you have an anxious m...

Why do so many adults who experienced childhood trauma struggle with self-respect? This episode explores how early childhood wounds shape self-worth, boundaries, and the tendency to tolerate less than we deserve as an adult I hope by understanding the survival strategies formed in childhood, you can begin replacing the tendency to self-abandon and lose yourself with SELF LOVE...and start rebuildin...

Today’s episode isn’t an easy listen if you grew up in tough circumstances that impact you today. This episode is especially for you if you ever notice yourself acting in ways that don’t feel true to who you are or if you struggle to hold onto your sense of dignity I explore ‘developmental trauma’ and how early experiences of neglect, misattunement, or ongoing stress can shape your adult life toda...

Is anxious attachment or worry causing you pain right now? This episode is for the woman that is absolutely determined to stop being taken over and hijacked by emotions, triggers, and the past! What if your journey is not about “fixing” your anxiety or fixing yourself… instead it is about having a new kind of relationship with your anxiety and with yourself? In this first episode of 2026, I’m taki...

Work with Carly Ann HERE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram HERE This meditation is a gentle shield for moments that feel overwhelming. Whether you’re navigating difficult conversations, challenging people, intense relationships, or emotionally charged situations, this practice helps you stay grounded without taking everything personally. It’s designed to support you in remaining true to yourself, less...

In this episode I (Carly Ann) am honoured to sit with mental health counsellor Lara Land for an honest and important conversation about trauma and recovery. As you will hear, Lara is a compassionate expert - she is qualified, realistic, and so passionate which is what this podcast is all about. This is really one not to be missed if you are interested in trauma recovery for yourself or clients. We...

Send us a text Listen if you self-sabotage If you’ve ever wondered why you keep falling into the same habits, the same blocks, or the same frustrating cycles, this episode is going to hit home. I'm diving deep into self-sabotage (the quiet, often unconscious ways you get in your own way and hold yourself back from the life, relationships, success, and happiness you’re trying to create) You’ll...

Send us a text If you worry and spiral, this episode is with you in mind.  I'm thinking of you if you catch yourself fixating on a mistake you made, or worrying about someone abandoning you, or worrying about what might go wrong...and it takes over your mind and can be paralysing. This pattern is truly a therapy insight, this is a key part of education for managing worry and it could really m...

Send us a text In this episode, we dive deep into the moments that send us spinning and spiralling. Christina Lane joins us for an honest conversation about what a spiral really is, how to recognise the early signs, and how to support yourself so you can respond instead of react . We explore whether it’s truly possible to stop being triggered by certain things, why triggers happen in the first pla...

Send us a text Understanding self-esteem and recognising if you’re anxiety is related to low self-worth In this episode we will spend some quality time breaking down the most common signs of low self-esteem using the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale which is a trusted psychological tool for measuring a person’s overall self-esteem Recognising low self-esteem is important because it helps you understand...

Send us a text We break down the common mindset pattern that shows up in the therapy room over and over again - it  fuels shame, anxiety, and low self-worth - the subtle thinking style that convinces you you’re always behind, always falling short, and never quite “enough.” If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or constantly judging yourself, this episode will help you understand why . If you have goals,...

Send us a text If you’ve ever felt like your happiness depends on other people’s approval, or like you keep losing yourself trying to be “enough” this podcast is for you.  Stop Giving Your Self-Worth & Happiness to Someone or Something Else is your reminder that you don’t have to keep chasing validation - you can reclaim your confidence, peace, and power today. Carly Ann shares important thera...

Send us a text In this episode you will be given a simple therapy framework that could help you make sense of any problem, and actually interrupt it in real time. This is truly a powerful therapeutic framework designed to give you key insight and understanding into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, and habits. Meaning you can break old subconscious patterns and cycles. You’ll learn this too...

Send us a text Getting triggered over and over can be exhausting. It is frustrating when you can't control your reaction to the same trigger. If your triggers have been running the show lately, this episode is for you. Today, we’re diving into what it means to be triggered. I’ll walk you through four key pieces of psychoeducation that will completely change the way you see your triggers. This...

Send us a text Is morning anxiety a problem? Mornings is one of the times people can feel in a real funk Waking up with a racing heart, a clouded mind, or a sense of dread is a common theme and I believe the sooner we get a handle of our mornings the sooner we can start the day of fresh and feeling more like ourselves (and happy!)  In this episode, we dive into how to help when mornings can feel l...

Send us a text Tonight, I’m feeling inspired to share with you. If you’re in the thick of it right now - feeling  triggered, anxious, overwhelmed, maybe caught in your thoughts or emotions - I am meeting you right there Where you can't let go, stop worrying, or calm down - I've recorded this for you Sometimes we just need someone to pause with us, to remind us that we can soften, breathe...

Send us a text Do you find yourself endlessly waiting for a text, replaying conversations, or worrying about whether you upset someone? That’s your anxiety showing up and it usually means you’re stuck in old patterns instead of truly feeling your emotions. We act out as a way to feel better, and it often makes you feel worse In this episode, I’ll explain what it really means to feel your feelings...

Send us a text Join stuck to Secure HERE Feeling stuck in a cycle, habit, trigger, or mood you just can’t seem to break? You’re not alone - and you don’t have to stay stuck.  In this Workshop, Carly Ann guides you through a powerful 5-Step Therapy Framework designed to help you interrupt the patterns that are keeping you stuck and create real, lasting change.  Whether it’s emotional spirals, unhel...

Send us a text If you’ve ever promised yourself “this time will be different” only to end up back in the same cycle... the same relationship problems, the same habits, the same procrastination - this episode is for you. Carly Ann breaks down the key areas to focus on if you actually want to create change that lasts. She shares therapy insights that no one else is talking about, sharing the psychol...

Send us a text Do you have feeling you are made for more? Do you see yourself repeating the same cycles and pattern even though you KNOW it’s not meant for you.  You may or may not be aware of your thoughts… especially negative thoughts.  In this podcast, I am talking about the beliefs that pull you back, keep you in a loop, and drive anxiety/low mood. As well as key therapy insights, you will als...

Send us a text Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a proven approach that helps you stop fighting your thoughts and feelings, make peace with what you can’t control, and start living a life guided by what truly matters to you This episode is for those of you who feel like life just isn’t going your way right now. Maybe you’re stuck in overthinking, worrying if someone is pulling away, or re...

Send us a text Ever wonder how elite athletes stay consistent, how top business leaders keep showing up, or why your favourite podcast hosts seem to have it all together? It’s not just willpower, so many of them use mental training &  visualisation . Visualisation is a powerful mental technique - one of the most underrated tools for building habits that actually stick. It’s used by high-perfor...