Kinky in the Real World

This episode of the Monsterfucking Files explores the slippery, slimy and salacious ways of alien abductions and tentacular creatures. Some notes from the episode: Slime Stories on Literotica: https://tags.literotica.com/slime/ Specific story that Becca read and mentioned: https://www.literotica.com/s/i-was-spelunking-in-a-cave-one-day "V" the tv series Becca mentioned - https://en.wikip...

Another Kinky Q & A! In this episode, Luna and Becca answer their listener-submitted questions and musings. HUGE thanks to everyone who write in with questions - we adore you!!! thehalfheard asksed: So here's a fun question... As someone beginning to dip my toes back into the dating scene - which feels somewhat terrifying nowadays - at what point do you think someone should admit to having...

Join Luna and Becca in an introduction to the various facets of "Mommy Kink", the MILF phenomenon, and the older female/younger male dynamic. Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!!  ⁠ hello@kinkyintherealworld.com ⁠  or message us on tumblr at  ⁠ @kinkyintherealworld ⁠ You can find us on: ⁠ YouTube ⁠ , ⁠ Spotify ⁠ , ⁠ Apple Podcasts ⁠ , ⁠ Google Podcasts...

Join us for a conversation about BDSM, poly relationships and the kinky life with another real life Domme, the delightful Mistress Maye! Maye has been a poly, slightly switchy Domme for 10 years and cohabitates with her boy, z-the-sub. She dabbles in some paid content but is genuinely into kink, and passionate about breaking down male shame surrounding submission/femininity. She’s a frequent face...

The Monsterfucking Files return! In this episode we run wild with werewolves and all primal, beastly powers of nature. Some things we mention in the podcast: Becca and Luna's picks for movies that introduced them to the sexiness that is werewolves: Becca was "The Company of wolves (1984) and Luna was Dracula (1992) Otherkins - see the Wikipedia page Primal Play on Kink.com (with Garett Nova) Alpha...

Gather around for a special STORYTIME episode... Our own Becca's certified steamy account of a real bathhouse gang-bang experience! Things of Note: Becca mentions Jennifer Zurba, a sex educator. You can check out her at http://jenniferzurba.com/ Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!!  ⁠⁠⁠ hello@kinkyintherealworld.com ⁠⁠⁠  or message us on tumblr at  ⁠⁠⁠ @kinky...

Real Domme in the house! In this episode we welcome a wonderful new guest and lifestyle Dominant, Céline, @yourgfdgirlfriend from tumbr! She joins us from Germany, taking time out of her busy law student schedule to talk to us about her experiences and her thoughts on GFD - G entle F emale D omination. Céline has 8 years in the BDSM community, knowing early on her power as a dominant woman. Lots o...

Another Kinky Q & A! In this episode, Luna and Becca answer their listener-submitted questions and musings. HUGE thanks to everyone who write in with questions - we adore you!!! Anonymous (aka the Gift Goblin) asked: Is it wrong of me to enjoy it when men want to buy me things??? 😳 At first I would say “noooooo!”” I can buy my own things-thank you very much!” But then I gave In this one time…...

The Monsterfucking files are diving deep with mermaids(folk), nagas and all manners of halflings! Some things we mention in the podcast: Naga dildos on etsy! So many cool ones, and like we said, we have never tried these and are in no way affiliated, but still so cool we had to share - LINK HERE Becca's obsession with her fanfic continues! Here she mentions a Selkie story and a Merman one that...

In this episode, #2 of the Monsterfucking Files, Becca and Luna explore the undying and powerful sexual appeal of vampires and their ilk. NOTES! Luna and Becca debate whether Bram Stoker's Dracula can do sunlight - Yes! (Luna 1 : Becca 0) (from Wikipedia): Dracula is much less powerful in daylight and is only able to shift his form at dawn, noon, and dusk (he can shift his form freely at night...

Introducing the Monsterfucking Files: A series on monsters and their undying, kinky appeal. Becca mentions a few things in this episode in case you want to dive deeper: some great examples of scary women monsters in the Netflix series Love, Death and Robots. Season 1, episodes "Sonnie's Edge" and "Beyond the Aquila Rift". AND something she is SUPER JAZZED about, a new-to-he...

"Get naked for REAL!" ~ Luna Luna and Becca have a conversation about the practice and mindset of Tantric Sex. It is all about enhancing your sexual connection - with yourself and your partner, so you can have REALLY great sex. Becca mentions a great dance program called The World Groove Movement, you can check that out here - https://theworldgroovemovement.com/ (get out of your head and...

Grab your lube! Becca and Luna get extra cocky with an in-depth discussion on strap-op sex.

In this weeks episode, Luna and Becca answer a question from an anonymous writer, asking:  "What are your thoughts on “poly under duress”?" They discuss poly, monogamy and just plain good ol' relationship habits.  Becca mentions a book she read about heartbreak (which she recommends to anyone going through it): Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey by Florence Williams

In this lengthy episode, Luna and Becca address the wild array of fun sizes, shapes and kinks penises 'come' in.  Some links from the episode you may want to check out:  How To Do It (on Slate.com) with Stoya and Rich: https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it The depilatory cream that Luna talked about: Barenuts - https://nutcare.com/products/bare-nuts Have any questions or thoughts...

In this episode we answer two fabulous listener’s comments: @ curvycandyyyy wrote in: The podcast feels like sitting with cool friends in a café and a lot of fun to watch! I’m not sure this fits the theme or audience. It’s a thought about when you are first introduced to kink there’s an entry exam you didn’t study for asking what role you are. I wish for less emphasis on titles, more on living the...

A saucy conversation about vaginas in need of some extra sauce! A great question from an Anonymous listener: Good evening to you both! I am writing about an issue that isn’t  necessarily kink related-still sex related though. I am a woman in my fifties with a pretty high sex drive, and although it is high-I am unable to achieve a decent amount of wetness and if I do-I can’t seem to maintain i...

An intimate conversation with special guest, Misty LovesFun, about her multifaceted and fluid explorations in sexuality, gender, and kink.  And for more information (than you may want) on Misty and the pineapple, you can check out her profile on Porn Hub - MistyLovesFun  Or you can connect with her on her FetLife (a social media for kinky people) - @mistylovesfun, or at Club Eden - @mistylovesfun

In episode #4 of Kinky in the Real World we discuss how traditional porn trends can affect real life sex, kinky dynamics and exploration. We love porn, but not all porn is created equally. We talk about some sites we love and why. Here are a few of the sites we talked about and some that are note worthy: Cockyboys - gay male awesomeness that we both give a 5 out 5 Kink.com  - whatever flavour...

More questions have been sent in, and we address 2 of them in this episode! One from whatever-the-mess (tumblr), who asks us what aspects of D/s (Dominance/submission) do we enjoy the most, and what is it about the dynamic that attracts us to it. Our next question comes from female-led-relationship (tumblr) who asks us how we feel about Fin-Dommes (FinDom) and Financial Domination - an interesting...

In this episode of Kinky Q & A, Luna and Becca discuss living openly as kinky people and some of the challenges in a sex negative world. Special thanks and lots of love to devotedtoher for asking the very first question - you rock!   

Right off the bat we've received questions, and we've got answers. A huge thank you to @devotedtoher on tumblr for reaching out with such a great question. Look for Episode #2 soon!

What is this podcast going to be about anyway? We're going to explore kinks from a really approachable place. No stereotypes here! Today we talk about what we want the podcast to look like, getting this baby off the ground, and some personal experiences diving into the kink world.