Intelligent Intoxication

Time to get curious about why you say YES when you want to say NO - or, why you say NO when you really want to say YES.  I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice saying YES when you mean NO? What prevents you from saying NO? When do you notice saying NO when you mean YES? What prevents you from saying YES? If you’re intrigued by human design and curious about experiencing it wi...

When we feel SHAME, it’s because we’re labeling, criticizing and persecuting ourselves. When we feel GUILT, it’s because, according to us, we’re out of integrity. When we feel DISCOMFORT, it’s because we’re incapable of or unwilling to meet the expectations of others.  I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice feeling ashamed of your capacity? When do you notice feeling guilty a...

When we’re aware of our core values, we will know what we refuse to put up with or tolerate.  I’m not willing to put up with: others making decisions for me others putting words in my mouth having to anticipate other people’s emotions being responsible for other people’s emotions difficult friendships I invite you to consider these questions: Which actions or behaviors do you refuse to put up with...

When we’re “sure” of something, it means that we’re certain of something or someone.  I invite you to consider these questions: What are you really sure of? What is your authentic self sure of? When do you notice your Inner Critic getting triggered because it feels safe to find and achieve certainty? Do you know how to feel “sure” in your body? How willing are you to have your own back? If you’re...

You may be reluctant to tell yourself the truth about how you really feel or what you really want because you think if you admit, you’ll somehow be forced to act on that truth.  I invite you to consider these questions: What do you really need to tell yourself the truth about? Who can you trust with your truth? Are you ready or willing to live your truths? What might prevent you from acting on you...

When we live in “time scarcity”, it’s because we believe that we are: lacking sufficient time running out of time I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice telling yourself that “there are just not enough hours in the day”? How might it feel to believe: “I have plenty of time for what really matters”? When do you notice waiting to do things until you have “more time”? When do yo...

We all tip into some type of “over” habit: overeating overdrinking overspending over-scheduling over-committing over-thinking over-whelming I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice getting overwhelmed or saturated with: time with others? listening to or watching TV/Movies/Podcasts? too many texts/calls/emails? too much food or drink? How willing are you to carve out space for:...

When we avoid “feeling” our emotions, we tend to become emotionally reactive. Being emotionally reactive can look like “acting out” in an emotion rather than feeling and responding to what you’re feeling.  I invite you to consider these questions: How willing are you to feel any emotion? Which emotions do you avoid or resist feeling: anger? sadness? hurt? fear? weakness? Where do you notice feelin...

When our lives are cluttered and “too full”, it may be because we have “too much” in our: minds bodies homes schedule/calendar I invite you to consider these questions: How willing are you to write “morning pages” in order to ditch mental clutter? How willing are you to take a break from what might be cluttering your body: overeating? overdrinking? How willing are you to create more space in your...

When we’re in limbo, we often feel pulled into directions - do we stay, or do we leave: a relationship? a job or career? a location? I invite you to consider these questions: Where in your life do you need to assume a holding pattern to buy yourself time to decide whether to stay or to leave? What are the benefits and costs of staying? What are the benefits and costs of leaving? If you leave befor...

In coaching, I invite my clients to “start where they are” by accepting their beginnings.  I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice judging your “starts” or your “beginnings”? When do you pressure yourself to be further along than you are? Where are you currently in a new “beginning” or in a “start”? If you’re intrigued by human design and curious about experiencing it with oth...

When we tell ourselves that we’ll feel better if others change or if our circumstances change, we are blaming others for our emotions.  I invite you to consider these questions: What is your responsibility in your relationships? When do you notice expecting someone to change who they are or what they’re doing or saying in order for you to feel better? When do you notice giving the responsibility f...

Our friendship circles may get smaller as we age as we become more discerning about who we’re really compatible with or genuinely connected to.  I invite you to consider these questions: Who is in your inner friend circle? What do you have in common with these friends: activities? interests? values? passions? proximity? history? Which of your wants or needs are currently unmatched? If you’re intri...

We’re hard-wired to make decisions in our bodies. However, it’s very normal for your Inner Critic to get triggered post-decision and create doubt and regret.  I invite you to consider these questions: What flavor of Inner Critic chatters at you post-decision-making: Perfectionist?  Saboteur? Pessimist? Martyr? What time of day do you notice your Inner Critic chatter? How do you tend to respond to...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Dharma reminds us that we’re ordained to use our inherent gifts and talents to BE our purpose. Purpose isn’t something we find outside o...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Detachment is fueled by the belief that we can intend to create THIS, but are willing to be unattached to HOW it comes to be.  I invite...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Least Effort is fueled by the belief that what we focus on is what we create or attract.  I invite you to consider these questions: What...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Least Effort is fueled by the belief that we create the results we want without hustling, pressuring, or forcing things to happen too fa...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Karma is fueled by the belief that what we DO and WHY we do it matters. In fact, the decisions we make in the present determine our resu...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Giving is fueled by the belief that in order to receive, we must be willing to give to and be of service to others by using our inherent...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma The Law of Pure Potentiality is the belief that “everything is possible”. We must imagine and intentionally seek examples of what’s possible for us...

In his best-selling book, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, author Deepak Chopra teaches: The Law of Pure Potentiality The Law of Giving The Law of Karma The Law of Least Effort The Law of Intention and Desire The Law of Detachment The Law of Dharma I invite you to consider these questions: How do you define success? How do you define failure? If you’re intrigued by human design and curious abo...

We all have rituals, routines, and habits that ground us.  I invite you to consider these questions: Which rituals ground you? Which routines ground you? Which habits ground you? How can you tell when you need to ground yourself? If you’re intrigued by human design and curious about experiencing it with other inspired students, I invite you to email me below: terribradwaylifecoaching@gmail.com   I...

We all have “shadows” that keep us stuck or that interfere with living a purposeful life. Knowing and embracing your shadows allows you to fully embody your gifts and talents.  I invite you to consider these questions: Which “shadows” keep you stuck? Which “shadows” prevent you from living a purposeful life? How willing are you to identify, learn from, and embody your inherent shadows? If you’re i...

When we elongate, we stretch into a new version of ourselves or “level up”. When we stabilize, we ground ourselves where we are.  I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice being called to elongate in your personal or professional life? What are you ready to exhale or stop doing? When do you notice needing to ground yourself in “what is” by prioritizing rest, space, play, or fun?...