I NEED THE VELMAS

In November, this project will be 3 years old. For that cause, and that reason—A WOMAN LIKE MY MOTHER will be published in Fall 2024. Here, I read the working prologue for this essay. This has been an incredible journey. And there’s more ahead…Book 6 is now live! Purchase here: Paperback: https://a.co/d/09R1er02 or Ebook: https://a.co/d/0eS4m02j STORIES FOR BOOK 7 START 9/4/2024.

As of Book 6 there are 1,586 stories. The fact all this is happening? I’m humbled. Thank you all so much. Book 6 is now live! Purchase here: Paperback: https://a.co/d/09R1er02 or Ebook: https://a.co/d/0eS4m02j STORIES FOR BOOK 7 START 9/4/2024. Let’s run the numbers: RUN THE NUMBERS- since 2021 1586 stories/videos 26 episodes 18 playlists 6 anthologies 3 social media platforms (TT, IG, FB) 1 short...

As this second season ends, we are excited to bring a LIVE SHOW! Book 6 is now live! Purchase here: Paperback: https://a.co/d/09R1er02 or Ebook: https://a.co/d/0eS4m02j

As promised, we did a live show on Monday, Memorial Day. DA is cohosting as we were on TikTok live! Remember Book 6 will be out by June 12!

I was engaged in this dating/relationship conversation in late 2020, and 2021 on TikTok. The adage became, “We want women like our mothers.” From those conversations, in November 2021, I started reading comments on my side of the internet based around the lives of “women like our mothers”. As of November 2024, this project is 3 years old! For this show, I reflect on that —and I get to talk about t...

The wheels on the bus go round and round! This show is cohosted by no other than DA. We did a live show during the middle of BOOK 6- this cycle keeps proving to be more and more special! This is wild!

This episode has videos from the ON THIS DAY video from 1/2022. This episode was cohosted by my niece Charm and her daughters. THE TRADITIONAL WOMEN VOLUME 6: TELL YOU NO LIES will be out (June 2024).

This week my Cohoes is none other than the oldest, DA. These stories come from love and war playlist, three and six, with the both of them being found from Early 2022.

This show was LIVE on TikTok February 17, 2024. These stories are from LOVE OR WAR (10) And now? At long have merch: https://seewhatjayesaid.threadless.com/designs/cornbread-or-corpses. Explore and get you something for you or the TRADITIONAL woman in your life!

This episode is brought to you by the THROWBACK: TTW playlist on my TikTok page (whatjayesaid2.0). I must remind you all that book 6 begins in February. And book 5, in the proceeding other four books (including a Christmas edition) are out and available on Amazon and Kindle now. And now? At long have merch: https://seewhatjayesaid.threadless.com/designs/cornbread-or-corpses/mens/t-shirt. Explore a...

WE ARE BACK IN FULL FORCE! This show was recorded LIVE on FACEBOOK and TikTok on Saturday, January 6, 2024. And now? At long have merch: https://seewhatjayesaid.threadless.com/designs/cornbread-or-corpses/mens/t-shirt. Explore and get you something for you or the TRADITIONAL woman in your life!

We are at the end of SEASON 1! As we wrap this season, it ends with my cohost Auntie Nightshade! She graces this platform as only she can! Look for Season 2 in January 2024!

For this episode, I am joined again by my Good Cousin again for Round 2 of storytelling! Remember Book 5 is out December 20! Note: These stories are from playlists 12 & 13.

Out of almost 1100 stories, I would be lying to say that I didn’t have favorites. Do to reflection, and maybe, perhaps my own bias, I’ve come up with my favorites so far… Perhaps they will be yours too! Remember, book 5 comes out in December! Note: TTW Playlists break down as follows: Book 1: LOVE OR WAR 1-3; Book 2: LOVE OR WAR 4-6; Book 3: LOVE OR WAR 7-8; Book 4: LOVE OR WAR 9-11; BOOK 5: LOVE...

For this weeks episode, we are going to go back to playlist LOVE OR WAR (7). There are so many stories that I missed! And I still don’t know how! It is a reminder at just how resilient women are, how diabolical we can be, and your mother wasn’t always your mom. LINK FOR BOOK 3: The Traditional Women: Volume 3: Trigger Warning https://a.co/d/62mNu47

The stories this week are taken from August 2023 (at the start of Book 5) and from LOVE OR WAR (11). For all the bravado of the male ego, some of y’all’s Uncle and Daddies are a DIFFERENT different!

This Bonus episode comes from the Love Or War Playlist (11)—specifically stories 1-23. This playlist corresponds to Book 4 in the series. And as of this particular recording, book number five is currently in production! Look for a book number five in December 2023 just in time for Christmas!

This week I am cohosting with the Internet cousins! And keeping with the spirit of Traditional Women: Volume 5, these stories are going to be from the LOVE OR WAR playlist 6, with a majority of these stories being submitted in August - September 2022. Make sure that you grab your copy of traditional women volume three on Amazon and Kindle. The Traditional Women: Volume 3: Trigger Warning https://a...

For this episode, my cousin queenariesdri is cohosting with me and BAYBEE! These Mamas and Grandmas this week are breaking hearts, cast irons, doors, tables and curses! There is even a story of a ONE HUNDRED AND SEVENTY- FIVE YEAR OLD cast iron skillet! **NOTE: queenariesdri’s stories are in Volumes 3 (The Traditional Women: Volume 3: Trigger Warning https://a.co/d/2l0tbVb ) and Volume 4 ( https:/...

For this episode, we go back to LOVE OR WAR Playlist (6). Here is where stories REALLY were wild, and my best friend's mother’s story is included in this collection! For a copy of Book 3, go here The Traditional Women: Volume 3: Trigger Warning https://a.co/d/8c958VH

For this episode, I am joined by the Internet Family! This bonus episode talks about the impact of this project, future goals and as always…being “traditional”! Look for MissCharm to co-host the August 19th show!

For this bonus episode, we are going to playlist LOVE OR WAR 9. These stories are included in THE TRADITIONAL WOMEN VOLUME 4! I think I became serious about this series being viable outside of social media. Book available on Amazon and Kindle!

For this week’s episode, we are exploring stories from LOVE OR WAR (11). With the 5th volume of THE TRADITIONAL WOMEN about to begin again in August 2023 (publishing for Book 5 will be in December 2023), it stands to reason that this logic of “we want women like our mothers and grandmothers is SORELY misplaced. Link for Book 2 (where Cuba and Ms. Eva Mae are mentioned): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B...

For this bonus episode we are jumping to LOVE OR WAR playlist 8 (these stories are a part of THE TRADITIONAL WOMEN VOLUME 3: TRIGGER WARNING). For this bonus episode you are going to hear cameos from my best friend, known in other universes as @resistancerequirednow and @incrediberry.

Going back to where it all began! As of November 2023 this series is 2 years old. The stories are from the first list of LOVE OR WAR on my TikTok page (whatjayesaid2.0). Find THE TRADITIONAL WOMEN book series is found here: The Traditional Women: Volume 3: Trigger Warning https://a.co/d/1CBXo5F