Hey Girl Hey! with Lory and Kay

Why is it so scary to dream again when you've experienced a dead end? Why is it so hard to pray for a desire, when God said didn't answer prayers in the way you hoped for in the past? We get vulnerable again on our past heartbreaks, disappointments, and our "No's" from God, and what we're learning about hope in new dreams.

Have you ever seen anything completely unexplainable? What about going on a date when you didn't know it was a date?? Well, WE HAVE!

We're back at the topic of personal values and this time we make it juicier... by bringing on our partners and having them give their top values. Do our values align? Where are the tension points? Do our conflicting values cause rifts in our relationships? Could relationships be easier with a partner with similar values? Listen on for our takes as well as personal experiences on this matter.

Have you ever sat down and defined your top 5 to 10 core values and what those mean to you? Have you ever considered that those values determine and can even be used to predict your behavior when placed before a decision? Listen on as we discuss our top 5 personal values and what they mean to us, as we give real life examples how these values effect our lives.

Did you know that everyone has an attachment style? What the *bleep* is attachment style?? Understanding attachment styles can literally change your life for the better! Tired of being in struggle relationships? Want to know why you cling to your person so hard, or want to run away when there's conflict? The answers may be in this episode about attachments.

On the second half of guest Mariafe's story, she talks about how she learned to co-exist with the grief after unexpectedly losing her husband, leaving her a widow with two young children.

Losing a spouse at any age is devastating, but being widowed so unexpectedly and left with young children.... Mariafe tells her amazing story of tragically losing her husband, being the person to find him, and how she managed to process the grief.

Not making the team, relationships not working out, divorce, career changes... these are some of the painful "No's" that actually ended up being positive in our lives.

This week we share some dating tips and hot takes that we wish we knew in our younger dating years. Having gone through toxic and abusive relationships, we have learned some things that our early-twenties-selves did not know at the time.

We discuss openly what it's like to go through a divorce (or two) in your twenties, and the shame, fear, and ultimately growth that it brings. Yes, there is life after divorce! We hope to encourage anyone going through or in the beginning processes of divorce that you're not less of a person for it and are definitely not alone in having thought those thoughts.

We're shaking things up a bit with a light hearted episode on hot takes! Let us know if you agree or disagree with us about pet names, bachelors degrees, astrology, etc.

Today we let you in on our most recent spiritual attack... feeling unmotivated and paralyzed. Sometimes it feels like no matter what you do, you can't get everything you need to done. That's when Satan attacks your identity and can feed you crippling delusions. We talk about what we did to overcome this obstacle and get back on track.

Wow! These guys are wise! These guys being OUR guys Brandon and Ky. We put the boys on the hot seat to get their takes on dating and relationship questions that our listeners wrote in on topics such as red flags, boundaries, rejection and more.

Everyone enjoys a GOOD love story full of twists and turns! This week our special guest is Kay's boyfriend Ky! He and Kay reveal how their slow-to-grow friendship blossomed into a deep, irrevocable love within God's timing.

EVERYONE talks about how wonderful it is when you finally meet your person. What people DON'T talk about, is the GRIEF that can accompany the (single) chapter of your life coming to an end. We discuss the perplexing concept of how we are so grateful to be in a relationship, while simultaneously missing the *enchanting* vibes of singleness. Comment and let us know if you can relate!

Think back to the very first time you truly felt noticed and valued. Was that from something you accomplished or for who you were as an individual? Could that impact where you believe your self-worth lies? We discuss the first times we felt valued by others and how that impacted our beliefs about ourselves, our roles in relationships and what we had to do to be accepted. Let us know when you first...

Kaylin and former NFL dancer Natalie bring the vulnerability in this emotional episode about feeling like one's identity is lost after an ending of a life chapter. When you've always been known for being a certain thing and suddenly that isn't you anymore, then who are you now? They discuss real life identity crises that anyone can relate with, such as weight gain, loosing a parent, di...

In this second episode on video, Natalie and Kay spill all the tea on what it's really like to be a pro NFL cheerleader, what it was like trying out for Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, and being on the Netflix show American Sweethearts. They talk about the common assumptions as well as the real struggles of the trade, and how that can affect the dancers identities.

Join us again for the enchantment as we're back and finally on video! There have been MANY life changes which we will unload here and now! As always, let’s talk about the enchanting parts of life, the hard parts, and the deeper meanings behind it all.

In this last episode of 2023, we talk all about jealousy... How we handle jealousy in our relationships, friendships and life in general. Find out what we've been jealous of and how we've dealt with it.

Kay is off the market ladies and gentlemen! She tells all on this exciting life update episode. From her new relationship, different ways to look at dating/marriage, and more of our listeners icks!

Is something different about Lory?? This week we give the whole 4-1-1 on Lory's trip to Europe and go over some of our listeners icks.

On last week's episode, we had Kim on who was literally in labor. This week, we get to hear her exclusive birth story.

We are joined by Kaylin's sister Kim and brother-in-Law Riley as they are literally hours away from meeting their first child! They relate their love story and journey together through thick and thin, sorrow and joy.

This week it's Kay's turn to answer rapid fire questions! What does Kay want to be remembered for? Was she really the Ugly Betty of 7th and 8th grade?? Find out now straight from the source!