Haughtivities

Can you imagine finding out that your friends no longer want to be your friends?? Crazy, right? In this episode, Jay Denee' talks about gaining closure without apologies, arguments, or final conversations.

Asia Cross is living proof that freedom starts when you stop trying to save everyone. In this episode, she opens up about breaking free from people pleasing, staying in her God-given lane, and choosing obedience over approval. If you’ve been warring with things that don’t belong to you, this one is for you.

Jay Denee' speaks with Danielle L. Dickerson-Traylor about her inspiring journey of healing, faith, and transformation. Danielle shares her experiences with abuse, grief, and loss, and how God led her from brokenness to purpose. She also discusses her new book, From Madam to Missionary , and reflects on how God continues to beautify her life. This episode is filled with hope, resilience, and t...

Jay Denee’ learned that boundaries don’t mean beef. And now  you  know this too—just because someone hurt you doesn’t mean you have to make them feel it. God is teaching you how to forgive, protect your peace, and still keep it cute.

Jay Denee’ talks about choosing wisely who you share your purpose with and why your circle impacts your destiny.

Jay Denee' dives into the drama of people who try to shame others for their choices, give opinions nobody asked for, and act like they know someone's life better than God. She reminds listeners why staying in your own lane, focusing on your growth, and trusting God's plan is the real power move.

There’s  grace  in the wilderness. God didn’t leave you in Egypt…and He’s not rushing you into Canaan. The wilderness is where He prepares you, strengthens you, and shows you who you really are. “God isn’t slow concerning His promise…” — He’s just making sure you’re ready.

In this episode of  Haughtivities , I get real about hitting what I thought was “rock bottom.” From being stripped of everything to facing a life I never imagined, I share the raw, undignified moments of this season. I also dive into my two-year journey with God—how He’s been present through it all and what I believe He’s doing now. No filters, no pretending—just me, my story, and a whole lot of h...

In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the complexities that come with aligning oneself with God's desires and presents the 3 Ps: -Perseverance -Pliability -Pivoting

Jay Denee' speaks on the importance of leaning into your joy factors during a healing journey.

Diamond Brown graces the "Haughtivites" platform with an uncut perspective of the mental health aspect of healing, honing in on her own experience.

In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the bittersweet nature of healing--how beneficial yet scary it could be to embrace the newness of healing. 

This episode focuses on the importance of coming to a resolve that everybody is DIFFERENT. Everyone won't respond to situations, trauma, transitions, etc., the way you would. It is best to make peace with that! 

In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the power that is given to triggers and how crucial it is to remember that progress is never compromised, merely because of triggers.

Jay Denee' talks about how crucial it is to set boundaries, as you raise your standards-a task that is not as easy as it sounds.

Jay Denee' discusses the challenges that come with elevation. "Glowing up" is surely rewarding, but there is also pain in the growth that is required to steward the "glow" well. 

Jay Denee' welcomes her audience to the NEW and IMPROVED "Haughtivities!"  Find out what Jay has been up to for the past year!

Jay Denee', Charisse, and Eduard continue their conversation about people being hurt, in a place of healing-- this time, acknowledging their own contribution to the problem and potential solutions. 

In part one of the Season finale, Jay Denee' is joined by Charisse and Eduard Flowers to share the ups and downs of building relationships, at church. Tune in and listen to how they navigated through some tough seasons, what they learned about themselves and how they matured through it all. 

Jay Denee' is joined by Shani P to discuss co-dependency in relationships and why it is important to maintain a sense of individuality. 

Jay Denee' is joined by Kennedi Strahan to discuss SITUATIONSHIPS. 

Toxicity has unfortunately become normalized, especially in relationships. In this episode, Jay Denee' rifts on her blog post "We've All Been Nikki Parker" to illustrate the essence of the toxic culture of this generation.

Jay Denee' clears the air regarding men who pretend to not like plus size women but secretly desire them. She also shares her struggles with weight and how her perspective of a weight loss journey has changed.

Jay Denee' reflects on a time, where she hated her darker complexion and what led her to pursue authentic self-love. 

What price are you willing to become DECIDED?  In this episode, Jay Denee' is joined by Tatenda Chairuka to discuss the joys of being a decided woman and the pain connected to embarking on such a journey.