Gracefully Standing with Fenesss

Every new day is a fresh opportunity wrapped in God's mercy and grace. In this episode, we are reminded that His mercies are new every morning, and each day He blesses us with is another chance to grow, love deeper, and become better than we were yesterday. We talk about staying at the alter, remaining rooted in God's presence, and partnering with the Holy Spirit to walk in His will for ou...

In this episode, we discuss the challenges of standing for your marriage when life gets difficult. Frustrations, resentment, and irritation can creep in and cause you to drift in the wrong direction. But when you slow down, quiet your mind, and make room for The Holy Spirt, you can begin to see your situation through the eyes of gratitude rather than in our emotions.

Choosing Christ doesn’t mean the road will always be easy. Sometimes, things get worse before they get better, but even in the breaking, stripping, and renewing, God is still working. In this episode, we talk about trusting His process, even when we can't see His plan, and surrendering our marriages to Him through every rough patch, separation, or season of uncertainty. Because when we places...

In this episode, I share the importance of choosing Christ in our marriage, especially during the storms of life. Being children of the Most High God doesn't mean we won't face challenges, but it means we never have to face them alone. Christ is there to strengthen us, bring healing, and give us peace even in the hardest moments. No matter what challenges we encounter in life or in our mar...

This episode is a heartfelt call to stand for reconciliation with God first, then your marriage. I share honestly about the gift of time-and why we can’t assume we'll always have more of it. More than anything, this is about choosing God, eternal life, and allowing Him to guide us as we fight for what matters most: our marriages, our families, and our relationships with Him. My hope is that th...

Marriage is a journey to the promise God has for us. In this episode, I talk about trusting God's timing, understanding His order, and preparing for what He has spoken over our lives. Just because God gives us a "right now" word doesn't mean it will happen right now. Like the rain and snow that come down and accomplish their purpose, God's Word will not return void. We have t...

Hello, friends! I want to apologize for the audio on this weeks episode. Hopefully the volume isn’t too loud. 😊 In this weeks episode I speak about a conversation I had with a coworker on how God does some of His best work in the dark. It's amazing what God can do when we are unaware of what He is doing! We need to trust and known, that He is working or has worked it all out for our good!!

In this episode, I take a personal look at the word "hate" and how easily hurt, disappointment, and repeated offenses in marriage can cause us to develop hatred toward our spouse. But I want us to look deeper. It's not the person we should hate-it's the spirit that influence your spouse's behavior behind the scenes. That doesn't mean we excuse sin, tolerate hurt, or ignor...

Standing for your marraige is more than a decision-it's a calling. Just as King David had to endure a journey before stepping into his anointing as king, God may use your journey to prepare and strengthen you for the assessment of standing for your marriage. What you’re going through isnt necessarily breaking you-it may be preparing you. Your not just standing for your marriage. You are being...

In this episode, I'm talking about the spirit of pride and how it can keep us from receiving what God has for us. Through the stories of King Nebuchadnezzar and Jonah, we see how pride and disobedience can lead us away from God's will-but humility and repentance can bring us back. This applies to our marrages also! Even when our marriages aren't where we want them to be, we have to be...

In this episode, we explore how the challenges we face in marriage and life can draw us closer to God and strengthen our faith. Through stories in the Bible, we're reminded that even when we ask " God, why are You allowing this?" His purpose may be deeper than we can see.

This episode encourages listeners who are facing challenges in their marriage, not to give up on God's promises. Drawing from Daniel 10, angels fought through spiritual opposition to deliver Daniel's answer, reminding us that unseen battles may be taking place even when we don't yet see the answer to our prayers. This message is one of faith, perseverance, and trust: God is fighting fo...

In this powerful episode, we confront the sobering truth found in Proverbs 6:16-19-the seven things the Lord hates-and how these destructive attitudes and behaviors can devastate a marriage. This message is a call our to examine own hearts whiles recognizing that God is not indifferent to deception, pride, betrayal, discord, or any act that violates His covenant for marriage. He sees what happens...

In this week's episode, I share a powerful prayer revelation about the Holy Spirt's promise that counterfeit "placeholders" will be removed, and what rightfully belongs to covenant husbands and wives will be restored in God's perfect timing. This message encourages standing spouses to remain steadfast in prayer, trust God's process, and be filled with hope as His promises...

In this episode, we explore how God gives us the gift of time to grow, heal, and make each day better than the last. We discuss how the challenges we face in marriage can strengthen us when we trust God's purpose, and why building a relationship with God first creates the foundation for healing, wisdom, and a stronger marriage.

In this episode, we explore the message of the book of Habakkuk and how it applies to standing for your marriage. Just as Habakkuk questioned why God seemed to allow evil and injustice to continue, many standing spoused wonder why God appears silent while their spouse's wrongdoing goes unchecked. Yet God's response to Habakkuk reminds us that He is always at work, even when we cannot see i...

In this episode, we explore the life-changing wisdom found in Proverbs 1:7 and Proverbs 2:4-5, discovering why God's wisdom is essential for navigating life’s most difficult seasons. We discuss the importance of remaining rooted in God's Word, listening to the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and seeking God's direction-especially when standing in faith for your marriage.

In this episode, I touch on the book of Hosea and the powerful choice of obedience over personal desire. Hosea's response to Gomer's unfaithfulness reveals a love that reflecs God's faithfulness to His people. We also discuss how easy it is to judge a marriage from the outside, while the pain and complexity of infidelity often remain unseen.

In this inspiring episode, we explore the powerful promise found in the Book of Joshua 21:43 and how God faithfully fulfilled His covenant by giving Israel the land He promised to their ancestors. Just as God fought on behalf of Israel and brought them into their inheritance, He can also fight for covenants in marriages. Stand firm on God's promises, and believe the He is able to work, restore...

Sorry, friends! I don’t have a word for this week, due to my birthday. I will be back next week with an encouraging message. Until next time, pray always, stay covered and be blessed!! 🙏🏾💕

In this episode, we explore the biblical account of Deborah and Barak and the importance of walking in obedience to God's will with faith and courage. Barak was called by God to lead, but he was only willing to move forward if Deborah went with him. Because of his hesitation, the honor of victory was ultimaely given to a woman. Through this story, I enourage listeners who are standing for rest...

In this episode, we explore the story of Joseph and his brothers, a relationship marked by hurt, betrayal, and separation, yet ultimately restored through forgiveness and reconciliation. We connect Joseph's journey to marriages that may be struggling today, highlighting how healing, grace, and God's purpose can bring restoration even in the most difficult relationships. This is a message o...

In this episode, I share a meaningful conversation that led me to reflect on the heart behind this podcast-standing firm in seeking God's guidance through every season, and understanding the importance of staying close to Him no matter what challenges arise. We'll talk about faith, commitment, prayer, and trusting God to direct your path while strengthening your relationship and your walk...

In this episode, we talk about protecting your peace by trusting that Jesus Christ is your true peace. Through the powerful moments when Jesus calmed the storm while the disciples were afraid in the boat, and when He walked on water to meet them in the middle of chaos, we're reminded that God is present even in life's hardest seasons. We also connect these lessons to marriage-learning how...

In this episode, we explore the power of repentance and forgiveness through the lives of David and Joseph. This message connects deeply to marriage and God's promises for our lives. Healthy marriages require humility, repentance, forgiveness, and trust in God's plan. Just as God restored David and elevated Joseph through pain and betrayal, He can restore broken relationships, heal wounded...