Getting Intimate

Have you ever felt really frustrated by your low libido or quiet phase in your sexual desire? In this episode, I dive into rest and how important this phase is for your sexuality.  We go over the seasons of sexuality and what this means when you have low desire.  We look at what rest even has to do with pleasure and how one can truly honour the season of  not feeling aroused.  Rest is a powerful t...

Did you ever think that having less sex could increase your connection and intimacy even more?  In this episode, I go over Ry and I's 3-week sex detox and how setting an intentional break from sex with the intention of doubling  down on the intimacy + connection actually lead to multiorgasmic sex. I also share  why not having sex can do wonders for your communication, what the difference is betwee...

Ohhh haaaaaaay we are back and feeling Sluttier + Safer than ever. In this episode, The Pussy Fairy gets to sit down with Safe Slut and chat about sooooo many important + empowering things. This episode is filled with sex positivity  and we go over topics like What it means to be a safe slut, the shame around STI's, Genital Herpes and Tricia's story, Navigating conversations around disclosing and...

Oooo This episode is dedicated to ALL my pussy owners. Grab a partner, grab a friend, grab anyone who plans on eating pussy for this one because it's about to get WET.  In this episode, I share my passion for eating + worshipping pussy and answer all the questions like :  Why can it sometimes feel really hard to relax during oral, what the first thing is  you might have to relearn when it comes to...

Want to know what it takes to give an incredible mind-blowing blowjob?  Have you ever wondered how you can make a blowjob something for YOU as the giver?  The Pussy Fairy is here to preach cock worship, so come join in on the fun!  What are some things that you have to consider before giving a blowjob? What if you have a really bad gag reflex and how can you improve it?  How the fuck do I "worship...

The Pussy Fairy is back with some magic, this week we get into questions like What's the difference between sexuality and sensuality?  How to even tap into both? What if there are emotional blocks, trauma, or things in the way of tapping into that energy?  What are the common myths around sensuality + sexuality? How can you use sexuality and sensuality out of the bedroom to benefit your life?  I a...

When was the last time you spiced things up? Okay but first what does getting creative in the bedroom even mean?  Sometimes we also just need a good old reminder to spice things up, leave it to The Pussy Fairy to put a sweet little creative fire under your ass.  In this episode I cover things like: What does it even mean to be creative in the bedroom? Why do sex and creativity go hand in hand? Wha...

Okay I've been mega excited about this, because if you're wondering what burlesque has to do with healing infidelity you're in for a big awakening. I sat down with Lora Cheadle a former lawyer who now works with empowering women after betrayal.   In this episode you'll hear how Lora  helps her clients  to shift devastation into a reclamation of their Naked Self-Worth® so they can find their sparkl...

Okay have you ever thought to yourself; " Sexuality work is amazing and relationship work is cool but its not super high on my priority list".  Well, let me blow your mind and share with you why it should be on the TOP of your priority list.   I share all the incredible ways of how you can do the work in really small ways and big ways that have an impact on your whole life. You also get an intimat...

Ooo this episode gets super juicy, I share all the things you need to know to learn orgasmic manifestation and sex magic.  Are you getting super bored of writing your goals and desires down and just want to find a really incredible way to switch things up and make your dreams and desire come true ?   Ya girl the Pussy Fairy spills the tea in this, I share what it was like to do sex magic this week...

OMG I cant wait for you to listen to this one.  This  episode is one that you can listen to over and over again for those times when you're just feeling stuck and in an uninspired place with your libido + sex drive.  I go over how you can actually  increase turn on in your life and what things might actually be stopping you from being turned on. You'll learn what it means to fully embody your desi...

Have you ever wondered how traditional Chinese medicine can support fertility and conception? Maybe you're just starting your conception or fertility journey and you want some easy and practical ways to invite more intimacy and knowledge into baby making.  I had the wonderful opportunity to sit down with Dr. Denise Wiesner DACM, L. Ac.,  founder of the Natural Healing and Acupuncture Clinic in Wes...

Have you ever feel attracted to other people whilst in a relationship?  In this episode I talk about my personal story of how I deal with feeling attracted to other people and  drop some tips on what you can do to navigate attraction in your relationship.   What does it mean to be attracted to someone else?  How can you actually use the attraction to other people to strengthen your communication +...

Society shows us all the ways that disconnect us from our Pussy's and with all the crazy messaging around it can sometimes feel hard to know how to actually practice Pussy self love and learn to really tune into her wisdom. In this episode I break down what this could look like for you and share 3 super easy ways to invite some Pussy self care into your life. I also go over why the media and socie...

 Do you want a really delicious quick 15 min way to connect with your Pussy and fill your body up with aliveness and sexual radiance?  Listen to this guided practice I created just for you.  This is fabulous for early morning wake-ups and just before bed to give you that boost you need to feel connected to your pussy and your sexual energy.  If you want to have something deeply nourishing and easy...

Control, control, control . In our society this can sometimes feel like  a pretty big and heavy word. What if we had the opportunity to look at control in a new way and find ways to feel less of a struggle with it in our relationships. If you struggle with control, this episode  might be so insightful to the way you view your relationship and how you show up to it.  This episode really brings to l...

Have you ever wondered what really keeps the spark alive? Is it sex toys and sex parties? Nope, in this episode I go over some really important  things to consider when it comes to keeping the spark alive in your relationship.  It can be really tricky to pinpoint how you can do this even with lots of practical advice out there. Sometimes it's the things we don't even think about that keep the spar...

The strap on is one of my favourite sex toys in the bedroom because there is so much to you can do with it.  In this episode I talk about : Who a strap on is for, What you can do with it, How to get used to your strap on, The different types of strap ons and  , What to look for when you're shopping for your favourite strap on. Strap on play can really bring in a fun new element into the bedroom fo...

So you're curious about prostate play ? Let me tell you there are so many magical and mind blowing sensations that come with prostate play, some might even argue that prostate orgasms are more intense than ejaculatory orgasms. In this episode we talk about the basics of a prostate, the stigmas that can hold cis hereto males from exploring it and how to navigate conversations around exploring this...

Have you ever wondered why you might not be feeling desire at the same time as your partner? Or why sometimes your desire for sex isn't constant?  In this episode I talk about how the seasons of your turn on and sexual desire work and what you can do to  support the fluctuations of desire. If you want to unlock the ways to looking at desire, this episode is for you!  Feel free to give this podcast...

Intimacy doesn't mean just sex, It can mean so many other things! in this episode we look at different intimacy types, what you can do do figure out if you actually avoid intimacy in your relationship, the reasons you might be doing this and ways to reconnect to your partner again.  We look at what intimacy actually means and what the quality's and elements are of good intimacy. This episode also...

Emotions in the bedroom are a big topic and I go over all the possible reasons why you might be shedding some tears  in the bedroom during consensual sex.  We go over all the reasons from one end of the spectrum to the other.  You can learn how to ask for what you need when it does happen and how to understand the reasons your body does this.  I share some personal stories of when it happens to me...

So you want to try anal ? Do I ever have the deets in this episode. I go over things like consent, communication, boundaries , safety and trust.  What to try first, what you need to prep, the stigmas around anal sex and what the deal is with poop.  I share some things that I personally love about anal and some things I don't.  We will go over  all the do's and don'ts and the sexy details of how an...

Who wants some sex hacks for the bedroom? I share some hacks you can use in the bedroom with your senses and  how to tap into each of the five senses to enrich your sex life, my favourite sex snacks,  how you can take some of the senses away to bring an element of surprise and how you can truly get primal with sound + taste.  Feel free to give this podcast 5 stars if you loved this episode.  Subsc...

What are a Dominatrix's favourite things to do? What does a day in the life look like? What are some super common things people love coming for ? Sooo many questions and sooo many answers in this episode with Dominatrix : Domina Elata  Have you ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Dominatrix?  Domina Elata is a sadistically, sassy Queer, with a heavy hand who has been working in sacre...