Flirting With Life

It's my birthday (actually!) and your Aries Queen is coming in hot!  In this episode I sat down and reflected on my biggest lessons that have shaped who I am today.  We're talking about: why rejection is actually sexy  the truth about magnetism  how to stop waiting and start creating what you want  why stability doesn't have to be boring the shift that makes dating fun the energy that will move yo...

I'm sitting down for a deep chat with my podcast editor (and soul sister bff), Lia Lavoie! What started as a friend date turned into one of the most meaningful relationships on my entrepreneurial path and a reminder that the people you surround yourself with can either expand your dreams or shrink them (I vote for the former!) We get into the energy of being seen, the inner child that comes out wh...

Send your questions for a future Ask Lydia episode by email to flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com or DM to @lydiathedatingcoach In this Q&A style episode, Lydia is answering your real dating questions. She covers:  Why attracting the wrong men is not the real problem The difference between chemistry & compatibility  Lydia's way to define your relationship standards (it's not a checklist) How a scar...

I'm joined by Danielle Laura, a Trusted Seer and Advisor to Visioniaries, a two-time #1 Bestselling Author, and founder of the H.O.T. Method.  We dive into the journey from burnout and misalignment to purpose, truth, and deeply aligned love.  We covered:  How to recognize when you're living in misalignment  Why high-achieving women often suppress their intuition  The different between fear, ego, a...

This episode was recorded LIVE in Vancouver on February 24th, 2026.  Lydia sat down with Author, Comedian, & Introvert Confidence Coach, Michaela Chung to explore the surprising power of quiet charisma.  Together, they unpack how introverts naturally create mystery and how embracing your authentic energy can make you more magnetic than trying to be the loudest or most outgoing person in the room. ...

If you're ready to attract a healthy and delicious relationship without abandoning yourself, learn more about my 1:1 Romance Reset Program Here . In this fiery solo episode, Lydia shares her 8 spicy takes on modern dating that challenge a lot of main narratives and dating advice out there. These are the opinions she has developed through her own dating experiences, years of coaching clients, and n...

I'm joined by folklorists and best friends, Dr. Sara Cleto and Dr. Brittany Warman (of  Carterhaugh School of Folklore and the Fantastic ) for a conversation that's equal parts scholarship, whimsy, and deep self-reflection.  We cover:  the fairy tales that first imprinted on Brittany and Sara the concept of the "shadow tale"  why fairytales aren't just "cute" but cultural scripts  practical ways t...

Learn more about The Romance Reset 6 Month 1:1 Program Join the Single Season Society Group Membership In this spicy energy espresso shot episode, Lydia dives into her belief that rejection is SEXY AF. It's proof you're putting yourself out there, being seen, and playing bigger with your life.  She covers:  why rejection is a sign you're playing big with your life  how avoidng rejection = self rej...

JOIN THE SINGLE SEASON SOCIETY We're analyzing some pop culture icons to explore feminine power, emotional sovereignty and magnetism.  In this episode, we cover:  why magnetism comes from self-trust, not external validation the real meaning of "hot goddess energy" (beyond the male gaze) Rihanna's unbothered power  Taylor Swift's emotional sovereignty and storytelling  Miley Cyrus' courage to evolv...

JOIN THE SINGLE SEASON SOCIETY In this episode, I sit down with women's alignment coach & human design guide, Rachele Kehler, for a stripped back and real conversation about what it really means to lead the feminine way and trust your intuition.  We cover:  how the modern calendar can pull women away from their natural internal seasons  the connection between embodiment and leadership signs your d...

If you're going through a breakup or hung up on a heartbreak...this episode is for you!  Join the Single Season Society ! In this episode, we cover:  my pivotal breakup moment in 2022 and what it felt like walking away from a relationship draining my life force  the 3 loops that keep most people stuck in heartbreak  the 4 ways to reclaim your heart and actually move on  why your heart is not actua...

TV shows like Bridgerton and Heated Rivarly have stirred something deep - a collective wish for yearning, romance, and the desire to be wanted.  Drawing from personal reflections, pop culture, and years of being a dating coach, Lydia unpacks:  the cultural fatigue around dating  why Heated Rivalry has unexpectedly unlocked desire for romantic love (especially for women)  how yearning can feel safe...

2026 is the year you stop playing small and do it for the plot!  Join the Single Season Society ! In this episode, Lydia covers:  what "do it for the plot" really means and where it came from  how to say yes before you feel ready - in dating, business, and life  how solo adventures build confidence and magnetism  dating tips for single women who want more fun, play, and intention  flirting with li...

In this episode Lydia sits down with her friend -- astrologer, business mentor and thought leader Natalie Holbrook! They share a juicy and geeky deep dive into astrology as a tool for your purpose and money-making magic. You'll also hear a mini 2026 reading for Lydia live!  We cover:   the "secret sun sign"  how intuition and chart reading work together in astrology  money wounds by sign and how e...

If you've ever been told you're too much, want too much, or feel like you've outgrown certain rooms, relationships, or roles, this short but potent energy espresso shot is for you.  This episode is for women who are done shrinking, dimming, or self-editing to stay palatable.  We cover:  why feeling "too much" is often about environment, not identity how desire is actually data the hidden cost of s...

In this New Year's episode of Flirting With Life, Lydia invites you to into a different way of approaching your next chapter. She brings 3 powerful energetic shifts that will transform how you relate to love, success, visibility, and desire in 2026.  Lydia also shares:  a personal reflection on the fear of success a euphoric solo travel moment that taught her the power of being fully expressed why...

If you're ready to take your dating life from meh to MAGIC, this episode is for you.  In today's episode, I'm sharing the real reason why your dating spark is gone (that has nothing to do with apps, scripts, or strategies).  I peel back the curatin on how I help my clients approach dating in a way that feels self-honoring, grounded, and delicious.  This episode covers:  what feeling numb in dating...

What if "feeling ready" is the biggest lie your brain tells you?  In this episode, Lydia sits down with Stacey Brass-Russell - Broadway performer turned yoga studio owner turned Transformational Mindset & Business Coach, for powerful conversations about visibility, reinvention and the real reason so many brilliant women delay the work they're meant to do.  In this episode we cover:  why your brain...

If you want to launch a dream project but keep waiting to feel ready, this episode will show you why starting anyway changes everything.  In this 90-day reflection of The Flirting With Life Podcast, I pull back the curtain on how a spark of an idea turned into a real show with launch parties, nearly 1,000 downloads, and a top-50 placement in Apple's Relationship Category. You'll learn:  why waitin...

Get my Free Delicious Dating Playbook here !  Welcome to an energy espresso shot episode! I share the shift that has completely changed how I experience connection, community, and everyday magic. If you've ever felt stuck in a story about your city, your environment, or your ability to meet people, this bite-sized dollup of energy is just what you need.  I cover:  how an unexpected Threads Post ex...

Learn more about my 1:1 Romance Reset Program - My 6 month high-level dating mentorship to help you:  recalibrate your energy and attachment patterns date without the drama and real clarity  flirt with life offline and call in a partnership with certainty and trust  --- In this intimate, behind-the-scenes solo episode, sit back with me as I take you through what I've learned from the first year in...

In this juicy conversation, I sit down with sacred sexuality educator and best-selling author Phoenix Amara, to talk about what it really means to treat your sexuality as life force, prayer, and power.  If you've ever felt shame about your desires, judged yourself for being "too much" or wondered how to reconnect to your sexual energy in a grounded and safe way...this episode is for you.  In this...

This is for my business and entrepreneurial girlies! I'm joined by my friend, business strategist, and the Doula of Marketing, C.J. Thomas.  We cover:  what it really takes to be turned on by your business (especially if you never got into this work for the marketing part)  "The Queen's Gambit" brain for strategy expanding your capacity to hold more clients, visibility, and money C.J.'s experience...

In this juicy conversation, stylist and confidence coach, Trish Taylor, joins me to unpack how clothes can become a daily practice of self-trust. Trish has worked with celebrities like Kerry Washington, Zendaya, and Ariana Grande, and she has a special gift for helping women create intuitive-led style that aligns your inner identity with your outer expression.  We cover:  style as self-expression...

BECOME A FOUNDING MEMBER OF THE SINGLE SEASON SOCIETY . If you've ever felt your energy dip as the winter approaches, this episode is a reminder your aura doesn't need to go into hibernation.  In this episode, we cover:  the secret to turning your routines into rituals that feel sensual  why taking up an indoor hobby is a necessity  how to use your wardrobe as an energetic activator  the power of...