Find Your Freaks

Why belonging beats shame every time Most people who join Clutter Free Academy don’t show up with cheerful introductions. They arrive calling themselves lazy, terrible, bad moms, bad wives. They expect judgment. Maybe rejection. Instead, they’re met with kindness. Sometimes aggressively so. In this solo episode of Find Your Freaks , I go deeper into my conversation with Kathi Lipp (Ep 2) and explo...

What if your clutter isn’t a housekeeping problem — but a heartbreak problem? In this honest conversation, bestselling author, speaker and creator Kathi Lipp joins Tonya Kubo to unpack the emotional weight of “too much stuff” and the radical act of building a community where shame isn’t welcome, but you are. Together, they trace the roots of Clutter Free Academy — a Facebook group that grew from a...

A hospital bed, a message board, and the power of finding your people What we call “lonely” often hides in plain sight. You can be surrounded by people and still feel like you could vanish without anyone noticing. In this kickoff to Find Your Freaks , I share the story of being 29, healing from emergency surgery hours from home. Visible on paper, invisible in reality. Until a stranger showed up wi...

Ever felt too weird, too loud, too soft, too real — or just too complicated to belong? This podcast is your proof that you’re not alone. Find Your Freaks features raw, unfiltered conversations with people who are building belonging in unexpected places — and doing it by showing up exactly as they are. Hosted by community strategist Tonya Kubo, this show digs into the messy, beautiful truth of what...