Drinks & Kinks!

Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear: 
 ​Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird! ​Bird shares a dating app story (and it involves Snapchat). ​Chaos talks about the varied differences between dating as a 21 year vs. dating as a 40 year old. ​Britt shares her vanilla-...

Part of this episode was a suggestion from our listener, Alex, and covers knife play and wax play with some low temp candles and what doing it as safely as possible entails, all while Britt actually gets to try it on-air! Maybe she's leaning into the "ish" a little more! Knife play often goes hand in hand with wax removal, and is a great stand alone too for some sensation play. There...

This episode covers learning a little bit of learning about the new vanilla-ish co-host, Britt! She shares her BDSM test results and we learn what makes her put the "ish" in vanilla-ish! You'll also hear the weekly dating updates, and a heavy focus on the new dynamic that Bird and Senior find themselves in! Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is Iced Coffee...

Drinks & Kinks returns with a new lineup for Season 3! Bird and Senior welcome in new co-host, Britt, and our very own Chaos to recap the wild weekend at KinkFest 2024 in Portland, Oregon! Britt brings a very vanilla newb element to the show, as a long-time listener and close friend. She's silently been a behind-the-scenes helper since the beginning and now will be helping bring up questio...

Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass. This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too! As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast! In this episode you'll lea...

This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans. In this episode you'll hear: Dating update for Bird Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating A recent par...

Our favorite brat, Vex, joins us for another awesome couple of hours to talk about pronouns and different types of sexualities! It's been a while since Bird gave y'all an update on her dating life, so today she gets to fill you in on the newest developments! And Senior's topic he's been prepping for: neo-pronouns! In this episode you'll hear Vex talk about her experience as a t...

Special guests this week are a pair of badasses who specialize in rope bondage and educating the kink community, Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer! In this episode you'll hear: How they both got involved with rope. Safety for getting started, because rope play is one of the most dangerous forms of kink. Why you should avoid cotton rope for suspensions (but it's great for decorative ties). Nylon is muc...

If you've ever been curious what Goddess had in her suitcases (from Episode 2, Season 2), we're here to tell you all about it! Join us, with returning guest Goddess and special guest Vex as we get into more toys than we could have ever expected! As a DISCLAIMER : you will hear a partial scene between Goddess and Vex as they demonstrate some of the toys (and Vex shows off how great of a bra...

This week we dive into the world of spanking, spankers, spankees, and spankos. Last week we had a pretty epic recording session planned, however Bird lost her voice so we'll have to save that episode for the future! Senior passed his final exam for the ropes bondage class, and Bird is now working towards becoming a certified sex educator coach. Some highlights from the episode: Negotiating a s...

Senior brings us the topic of dungeons this week! We get into our weekly update and talk about the Intro to Rope Bondage class final! And we dive into first-timer experiences with home dungeons on a smaller scale vs. public party dungeons, what to bring, what to wear arriving and what to wear to feel comfortable in the dungeon area, what you might see, dungeon etiquette and monitors, sleep divorce...

This week we get curious about what "BDSM" stands for and all it means! Senior and Bird talk about their first official BDSM scene together, and talk a little bit about the relationship road that hasn't always been easy. We also cover what some triggers for safe wording might be during a scene, how kink can be similar to EMDR therapy, some fun facts and stats about kink and de-stigma...

What does a BDSM scene actually look like? This week, we got the honor of having our first official guest on the show, and Senior joins in to recount his view of things as well! This episode is focused on revisiting Bird's first real scene as she goes over everything with Goddess, The Sadist who topped her, and how they navigated initial negotiations, adjusting for the setting, what tools and...

Now with 100% more Senior! Drinks & Kinks returns with a whole episode recapping our wild weekend at KinkFest 2023 in Portland, Oregon! Season 2 kicks off with a change in the lineup and a whole lot of amazing things we saw and learned about. We cover what classes we took all weekend, and take a quick look into Bird's first official scene with a Domme that we affectionately call "The...

Things are changing. There's going to be a little break while things are sorted and dust settles. We both would deeply appreciate some privacy at this time, and thank you for the patience and support. In the meantime, take good care of yourselves.

Part 3 of 3 in the Kink of the Week series: Voyeurism. We also add in the Cuckold/Cuckquean kink, and include Stag/Vixen as well! Updates for the week include Bird's second date with "Hunter" which included making out like teenagers in the back of a minivan, and Grant's update on CuteBoy, and mending a friendship with a former throuple he was a part of. Voyeurism can also tie into cucking and quea...

This week Grant and Bird do part 2 the Kink of the Week series: Exhibitionism. Grant heads up this conversation because he identifies as an exhibitionist! Grant talks a little bit about his homework he did for his list of aftercare things he loves, and Bird gives an update on "Hunter"! We share a little bit about what forms exhibitionism might take (however it's not limited to these things). Grant...

This week Grant and Bird kick off the Kink of the Week series for the next few weeks with part one in a set of three: Porn; Exhibitionism; Voyeurism. These all tie in together and now you get to learn what they've been learning and diving into and how these are related to each other! Grant did his homework this week, and we get to hear about his BDSMtest.org results! Bird also shares a little bit...

Dating apps are one of the most common ways people in this day and age meet other potential mates. Some are better than others, but mostly it's a tough place to find a match (even if you're monogamous)! We cover a handful of very popular dating apps we currently use, including the ones we got banned from! But juggling apps is genuinely not easy, so if you're struggling don't worry you're not...

We deviate from our schedule in order to talk about some fun things! Drinks this week are a twist on Bird's fav: Greyhound Spritz. Bird goes to another party.  Grant's Erotic Christmas party. White Elephant gift exchanges, and Grant gets a surprise from Bird. Is there an orgy happening for New Years? Grant updates us on the shopping trip he took to a locally-owned sex store and the books he bought...

In this episode:  We cover our most recent venture into "munches", and our weekly misadventures in our dating lives! We breakdown the umbrella of non-monogamy (also interchangeably known as "ENM/Ethical Non-Monogamy" and "CNM/Consensual Non-Monogamy"). We talk the different types, including:  Hierarchical Non-Hierarchical Solo Poly Throuples/Triads Unicorn Hunting Closed V Quads Polycule...

Bird goes to her first kink party ever, and shares her experience! We give an update on our dating life (surprise: Grant has a pattern and Bird has a type!) as well as some thoughts on what it was like to go to a kinky party without knowing what to expect, and truly embodying our motto of "getting comfortable with being uncomfortable"! The drink this week is Eyes Up Here ! Music: How We Feel by Pa...

We talk a lot of boundaries today, setting healthy boundaries for yourself, being willing to push those boundaries, getting comfortable being uncomfortable for the sake of growth! Respect is sexy! Consent is sexy! Boundaries are necessary! Bird also talks a little bit about her non-monogamy origin story, and what some of her boundaries are within her pre-existing relationship. **Trigger warning**...

Welcome to our inaugural voyage! We're your hosts, Grant and Bird! In this episode you'll learn who we are, what were all about, and how we came up with this! We have a drink, and chat about what's going on in our lives and what we've been learning and experiencing lately. We cover topics like non-monogamy, dating, sex, and our personal exploration into the world of kink and BDSM! The drink this w...