Dream Life Survival Guide

Shakespeare said "all the world's a stage." i like to think of it as a tv show. you can revise and rewrite as you see fit, and the characters can develop and change. including you. especially you. you can design your own character exactly how you want it, and then just step into the character when you call action. it's all YOU. decide who you want to be, and then become her. xx enjoy

our ego loves to be right. so much so, that it often does it even when it's not in the best interest of our goals and dreams. in order to push past this current version of yourself, you have to let go of needing to be right, and drop the old story altogether. if you believe that money is hard to come by, your entire universe is going to go to work to prove you right. your beliefs are a command to...

you've likely heard of following your joy, but have you tried following your fear? 👻 chasing a no instead of bracing for it and avoiding it? through the simple action of following your resistance and pushing beyond it, you can discover the edges of your limitations and grow exponentially faster towards your goals. following your fear is like running diagnostics on your operating system and going...

what does it mean to truly feel your feelings? i used to hate when people said this to me because i was like, well duh, i feel them alright! but deep down i was rejecting them and not fully allowing the feeling, which ironically just made them grow stronger and overwhelming. in this episode, i dive a little deeper on what it means to surrender to your feelings, connect with their message, and then...

you've probably heard the saying your thoughts create your reality, but did you know there's another layer underneath that is quietly controlling your thoughts? this is your identity, and it is quietly running the show of your life. in this episode, we break down how self-concept is dictating your next steps after your manifestation shows up, and decides whether you can hold it or whether you fall...

i don't know who needs to hear this, but...do it NOW. if you're reading this, it's probably you. do the thing you've been waiting for a better time to do, now. news flash, the thing you've been waiting for isn't coming. and even if it is, you're going to find another excuse to wait even longer if you keep waiting, so you might as well just do it now. in this episode, i share 5 steps on how to take...

you are cordially invited to...my pity party! womp womp i'm just kidding. terrible at banter. but seriously, jealous is an invitation...to what? when we feel that green eyed monster pipe up while scrolling on the timeline, it can be an invitation to explore our own unfulfilled desires, and to evaluate honestly what our own blocks are. jealousy is an invitation for self-exploration and a literal fr...

i'm a planner. i recognize that. but sometimes, you have to let go and let God. let yourself color outside the lines sometimes, and allow God to show you just how magical this world can be. it's exciting! in this episode, i share some ideas on how to stop planning everything to a T and leave a little room for magic. enjoy xx

perfect is an illusion, honey. so stop obsessing over something that doesn't exist, and just finish your work! the world deserves to see, hear, feel your creation. and you deserve to be seen, heard, and felt. in this episode, i share some actionable steps to help you get to the finish line. let's gooo xx

most of us know it's important to give, but how many of us are unknowingly blocking our blessings and resisting receiving? in this universe, everything is a flow, and nothing stays the same. if you are resisting receiving, how can you expect flow to continue? a lot of us unconsciously reject the universe's gifts because we don't feel worthy, and we don't even realize that we're doing it. in this e...

i'm sorry to inform you, but you're a type. so am i. we all are. and it's not a bad thing, it's just a part of human nature to classify things. rather than fight it, we can understand what that type is and work it to our advantage. in this episode, i break down how to recognize what that type is, how to not let that box you in, and how to use it to your advantage in marketing your business and you...

does this sound familiar? as soon as i... make more money get in a relationship get healthy ...then i'll really go after my dreams. sound familiar? well, newsflash, no one is coming to save you. no circumstances or people outside of yourself are responsible for your success, and if you keep waiting around for circumstances to be perfect, you will only attract more waiting. instead, recognize that...

first rule of the Internet: don't read the comments! just kidding, sort of. while feedback is good, it's immensely helpful to understand why you can't please everyone, and why you shouldn't try. if you know you are a good person and coming from a genuine place, that's all you can control. once you know your values, you can speak confidently without worrying what people think. someone is bound to b...

there is a paradox of beauty that we internalize as young girls - namely, that our beauty determines our value, but that we also don't have any authority over it and what gets determined as "beautiful." We're also taught an inherent paradox that we shouldn't desire beauty or to stand out, evidenced in popular terms such as "pick-me girl," implying that wanting to be seen is inherently cringey. in...

Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching talks about the idea of wu wei , or inaction. He says, "The Tao (Way) is ever without action, yet nothing is undone.” A seeming paradox, but in reality, going with the flow can often be the quickest way to reach your manifestations. The outer world is just a reflection of your inner world, and the more we can align with it, the more harmony there is with both the inner and o...

there's a really important distinction between playing just not to lose, and playing to win...i break it down for you in this episode. trust me, you're going to love this one, especially if you're an overthinker (like me). College football coach Lou Holtz once said, "In this world you're either growing or you're dying so get in motion and grow.” status quo doesn't exist!! get to growing baby! enjo...

seriously, what's wrong with being nice? i feel like being nice gets a bad rap. ever heard the saying, nice guys finish last? being nice is highly misunderstood. in this episode, i clear up what being nice is not, how to set your boundaries, and what being nice truly is. and why it's ok to be boring sometimes, because i'm just doing me. you do you. the end. enjoy!

Welcome to the inaugural episode of the Dream Life Survival Guide! Taking this one episode at a time, with weekly episodes. In this episode, we chat about what it means to show up for yourself, how the universe responds, and why it's so important. Oh, and...tailor your pants. Enjoy!