Dr D’s dating diaries

Watch out for a man who calls himself an alpha male ladies - no true alpha every needs to tell everyone that’s he’s an alpha - he just is… As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Talk about a small pipi syndrome. Mr Pearl sure had one amongst other issues.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Having a guy come up to you in Vancouver and asking you out on a date randomly is quite a rarity in Vancouver so how could I say no… As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

The term professional as in athlete, pool player etc means that’s you play a sport and get paid for it as a living - a source of income. Boy was this guy surprised when he got called out on that.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Let’s dispense with the stereotypes of miserly & super rich. Jewish men usually have good core family values and are well educated and appreciate a woman who is educated and strong minded. Except these 2 flashers and educators …  To all the Jewish men out there, come claim these 2 as yours…we dare you! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we...

TRIGGER WARNING  This episode deals with SA and anything that is non consensual.  Just remember that getting triggered is not always bad, especially if it helps you delve into your emotions and heal from it.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

From love bombing to gaslighting, Dr D goes through all the warning signs when dating or marrying a narcissist. Take away message - see the red flags and take them for what they are.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Dr D talks about being secure and knowing your worth so that when men try to play you, you will be prepared. Never settle for anything that’s not worth your time especially when you are at your most vulnerable.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Oxytocin - the feel good hormone that makes us start imagining a life with someone even before we have an established relationship. Holding ourselves accountable and not always playing victim, will surely help all of us be better partners and find our forever person. They are out there! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be...

Dr Deez will delve a little more into pretty privilege, white privilege and the total lack of accountability that some ladies (and gents) have  with regards to their behaviour.  Having a personality trait does not mean a mental health disorder but rather that you have a few characteristics of a disorder and all of us have a personality that’s a mixture of various types of recognized personality di...

Watch out for red flags ladies and run - in the opposite direction.  When they are still calling you from their mom’s phone number or they think that the government is controlling us - think twice before entering the danger zone.  As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

New Year’s Eve tends to bring out the creeps sometimes but thank goodness for good friends who know how to protect you when they sense impending danger even when you can not… As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

PSA - Dr D talks about the difference between a personality disorder vs a trait which all of us have - that is what makes our personality unique.  This by no means ridicules anyone with mental health disorders but does help you understand why certain people with certain personality traits behave the way they do. A trait however is not a mental health disorder and should not be treated as such nor...

Cocaine is one hell of a drug! You might be thinking you're talking to someone who's full of life and personality - and maybe at the time they really are... until that little party substance wears off and it's like you're talking to a brick wall. And on top of that, a possible threesome?! Well, maybe not! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into y...

If you want to have an interesting time or conversation, a Sugar Daddy will definitely fit that bill. Sugar relationships can be beneficial, but they can also get out of hand, so make sure you stay safe and set some hard boundaries! Oh, and also - make sure they can actually afford you. As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be...

It happens to everyone, and it seems especially on dating sites and apps. It might seem to be going well, talking for a while - maybe even a couple weeks or months...and then as soon as they get the opportunity, they hit you with the, 'hey by the way, I have 'x' going on and 'y' going on...can I borrow some money?' and then it all starts to make sense why something se...

Listen, it's one thing to use an alias for security purposes or trust reasons. But to never tell someone your real name even after gaining trust, until it's too late...? Interesting choice, 'Sean'! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better partners to one another.

Listen up partners - therapy isn't all scary like you think it is. In fact, it will probably help you be more approachable, and less scary, no matter who you are. Don't let old social standards get in the way of you becoming your best self - your most approachable self. You might find that you actually like the new and improved you after some much needed therapy! Maybe Cowboy Ryan could...

Ladies, know your worth. If a guy isn't following through with plans over and over again, he probably isn't the right one for you. It's important to set those boundaries so you don't waste your time with future endeavors. Spotting red flags like changing numbers and wanting to meet in a not public area...big no-nos! Maybe it was for the better that Sean stayed just a penpal! As...

Listen ladies, it's already a red flag when a guy wants you to stay with him before you've even spoken on the phone or met face to face. It's an even scarier red flag when that man admits to not having any friends and wants to take you out to a town he doesn't even live in and one you've never been to! One can never be too careful, and it's always better to be safe th...

Giving people space and respect should be obvious behaviours, but it apparently isn't always. Certain parts of the world are much more in tune with this behaviour and moral standing than others, and it becomes quite obvious to Dr. D as she travels abroad to places like France and Honolulu. How do these places differ than the States and Canada? What is the secret to a nurturing relationship? H...

Remember when we mentioned boundaries in dating? Well this is exactly what Dr. D was talking about. It's one thing if that 'spicy' talk is mutual, but sending those things out of the blue is just that - unsolicited, unwanted, and quite frankly, unattractive... despite what the sender may think. Communicate about boundaries, people! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also make...

***CONTENT WARNING:  This episode contains topics of sexual assault*** Dating and sexual culture are different all across the world, some more unpleasant than others. Today Dr. D advises us to come together to educate ourselves on past and current events in Iran, as well as in South Africa and the United States. Let's come together to raise awareness and prevention in these areas. On a lighte...

Well, the Match Maker didn't quite turn out as otherwise expected. There's always dating apps, right? Right...and just as many hit or misses. Communication is key, especially in the very beginnings of a potential relationship! It's important to give a good first impression of that, but this one, folks, is definitely not . As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look...

Dating is a fine balance between masculine and feminine energy that can be difficult to achieve. Chivalry and Feminism can live in harmony when executed just right - but does Dr. D find this balance and harmony in the third part of her match making endeavors? Tune in to find out! As always, Dr D keeps you entertained but also makes you look deep into yourself so that we all learn how to be better...