Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split

In this episode of Divorce After 50, Shari Frasure explains what common law marriage really means and how Kentucky treats it. Learn the differences between formal and common law marriages, why Kentucky doesn’t create new common law marriages, how out-of-state common law unions may be recognized, and what that means for property, retirement, and spousal rights—especially after age 50. Shari offers...

Kentucky common law marriage is one of those topics where what people believe and what the law actually says are two very different things. In this Divorce After 50 episode, real estate transition specialist Shari Frasure breaks down how Kentucky really treats common law marriage so you can protect yourself, your home, and your future. We’ll cover: What common law marriage actually means in the st...

Divorce after 50 isn’t just a legal or financial change—it impacts your body, your confidence, and your outlook on love and life. In today’s conversation with Kathleen Yorke, an expert in healing pain and rebuilding confidence, we dove into how emotional stress affects your body, simple ways to start caring for yourself again, and how opening up to new possibilities—even dating—can lead to unexpec...

Navigating divorce after 50 can feel overwhelming, but with the right financial guidance, you can build a confident future. In my conversation with financial expert Jeff Corbett, we explored how setting clear goals, finding trusted advisors, and prioritizing both short-term stability and long-term planning makes all the difference. If you’re facing major life changes, remember: progress starts wit...

Divorce after 50 isn’t just about signing papers—it’s a deeply emotional journey. Depression can show up as sadness, exhaustion, and self-doubt, even when you know ending the marriage was right for you. In this episode, I share how giving yourself grace means embracing your feelings without judgment and understanding that healing isn’t a straight line. Whether you’re struggling with grief, hormone...

Navigating life after divorce isn’t easy, especially when you become a grandmother for the first time. In this episode, I opened up about the unexpected blend of joy and quiet grief—letting go of old family traditions, sharing holidays, and embracing new roles. I talked about how self-care helps you show up for your grandchildren and how connection can be found in simple shared moments. Legacy is...

Navigating the holidays after divorce, especially later in life, can feel overwhelming. In this session, I shared that it’s okay to let go of old traditions and embrace new, simpler ones that truly bring comfort. Whether it’s creating experiences with loved ones or finding meaningful ways to connect—even volunteering or joining support groups—there is no right way to celebrate. The quiet moments,...

In this episode, Shari opens up about the powerful journey of reclaiming your space, reinventing your daily routines, and rediscovering your confidence in social settings — all after the age of 50. Whether you’re navigating an empty marital home, setting up a fresh space that reflects who you are now, learning the art of finding gratitude in your day-to-day, or figuring out how to make new connect...

Today, we’re diving into a topic that hits close to home for many – what really happens when divorced parents come together to celebrate their child’s wedding. Shari is joined by Sarah Burton, also known as the "wedding whisperer" and owner of Simply Love Studio. Together, they unpack the emotional highs and lows that can unfold when divorced parents and extended families are asked to share space...

Debra Clem, counselor, speaker, and writer,  discusses the vital topic of forgiveness after divorce. Debra shares her personal journey through profound losses and a long-term marriage ending, illustrating the critical role forgiveness plays in personal healing. She emphasizes that forgiving an ex-spouse — or anyone who has caused harm — is not about excusing their actions, but about liberating one...

Today we’re diving into a question that’s deeply personal—and often fraught with confusion and emotion—for many people of faith: What does the Bible actually say about divorce? To help us unpack this sensitive topic with wisdom, compassion, and clarity, I’m joined by author, speaker, and Christian teacher Connie Prater. Together, we’ll explore not only the scriptural foundations around divorce, bu...

In today’s episode, host Shari sits down with John Pearson—a man of faith, mentor, and the creator of the "Spirit, the Scribe, the Journal" book series and YouTube channel. John opens up about his unexpected experience with divorce later in life, navigating emotional upheaval, faith-based struggles, and the journey toward healing and self-discovery. Together, they dive into the unique challenges m...

Shari welcomes photographer Ashley Lowe to discuss the powerful, healing role of photography after a major life transition like divorce. Ashley shares how portrait sessions can help women, especially those over 40 and 50, reclaim their confidence and sense of identity following the end of a long-term marriage. She explains that for many women, professional photos are something they haven’t experie...

Today's guest is Michelle Kelly, a Mary Kay entrepreneur with a passion for empowering women, especially those finding themselves at a crossroads after divorce. The conversation centers on the profound impact that rebuilding confidence can have after a long-term relationship ends. Michelle shares insights into how refreshing your appearance—not out of vanity, but as an act of self-rediscovery—can...

Shari explores how property is divided during a divorce in Kentucky, focusing on the unique challenges that come with untangling assets later in life. Shari explains the difference between community property and equitable distribution states, noting that Kentucky follows equitable distribution—meaning property is divided fairly, but not always equally. She clarifies important terms, distinguishing...

Shari tackles the challenging decision of what to do with the marital home after a divorce. She begins by addressing the emotional significance of the home, acknowledging that it's more than just a building—it's a place filled with cherished memories and milestones. However, she emphasizes the importance of considering whether staying in the home aligns with one's future goals or if it's just a me...

Host Shari Frasure welcomes Pat Fenner, author and podcaster, who shares her insights on navigating life after a gray divorce. Pat discusses her personal journey through divorce after decades of marriage and the inspiration behind her book, " Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Significance, and Joy ." She highlights the unique challenges faced by individuals over 50 goin...

Samantha Tishner is a coach specializing in helping women heal and move forward following divorce. Samantha shares her personal journey, explaining how her own experiences with divorce inspired her to assist other women in navigating the emotional landscape post-marriage. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with oneself, letting go of past burdens, and forgiving oneself to create space f...

Annemarie Neisz from Trifecta Title in Lexington, KY joins Shari to talk about the crucial role of title companies during a divorce. They explore how these experts manage the legalities of property ownership, uncover hidden liens, and ensure smooth transactions. Whether you're selling your home or buying out your ex-spouse, early involvement of a title company can prevent surprises and delays. Und...

Morgan Murray, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA), talks with host Shari Frasure about the complexities of managing finances during a divorce later in life. Morgan shares invaluable insights on key financial considerations such as retirement, healthcare, and the division of marital property. She emphasizes the importance of getting organized, assessing future financial needs, and underst...

Today on "Divorce After 50," we explored how comprehensive wellness services can support your journey after divorce. DG Linton Gridley shared incredible insights on tailored health plans and nurturing both body and mind. Aging gracefully is possible! Reach DG Linton Gridley directly at 859-539-2147 or visit the website at agingwithgraceinfo.org to learn more about the services offered by Aging wit...

Divorce after 50 can be a challenging experience, especially when it comes to understanding what happens to your home, mortgage, and credit rating. Our latest podcast episode of Divorce After 50 touches on these critical concerns and provides valuable insights to help you make informed decisions. Here are three key takeaways from our discussion: Options for Your Home: Learn about the main routes y...

We're taking a look at the legal intricacies of family law with our expert guest, Lauren Brooke. With 19 years of experience and a broad practice across 15-20 counties in Kentucky, Lauren sheds light on critical issues from child custody and mediation to real estate and financial disclosures. We also explore the importance of choosing the right attorney, understanding various fee structures, and l...

Host Shari Frasure, at the age of 50, separated from her husband, entering a deeply stressful period in her life. This major life transition significantly impacted her mental, emotional, and physical health. Around the same time, she began experiencing menopause, which compounded her challenges. Shari has navigated these tumultuous waters, dealing with significant weight loss and other health issu...

Shari had the pleasure of speaking with Stacy Starkey, an experienced insurance agent from Assured Partners. They discuss how divorce affects your insurance needs and what you should consider to ensure you're protected during this transition.