Deal To Heal With E. James

How can embracing your differences and practicing self-advocacy help you overcome adversity, build confidence, and discover your purpose? In Episode 260 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes Zaakirah Nayyar Muhammad, a speaker, author, podcaster, photographer, traveler, and disability advocate, for an inspiring conversation about embracing what makes us different and us...

What do you do when one moment divides your entire life into before and after? In Episode 259 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Barry Adkins, whose life changed forever after the death of his 18-year-old son, Kevin, following a night of heavy drinking. On July 9, 2005, Barry hugged his son, told him he loved him, told him to be careful, and watched him drive a...

Can Christians struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, or suicidal thoughts and still have strong faith—and why do some people feel forced to choose between prayer and therapy? In Episode 297 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes Brandy Chandler, wife, mother, counselor-in-training, and founder of Evermercy Wellness, for a vulnerable conversation about faith, mental...

How can you stop allowing grief, divorce, failure, depression, or past trauma to become your identity while still acknowledging how those experiences affected you? After more than three years of consistently releasing the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James uses Episode 257 to reflect on his own journey and introduce the next chapter of his work. Earnest explains why his professional...

What do you do when grief becomes so heavy that you don't know how to carry it—and how do we better support people who may be struggling in silence? In Episode 256 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes Leah Williams, author and mental health advocate, for an open conversation about suicide prevention, suicide-loss postvention, grief, mental health, community, and ho...

What happens when someone who has spent decades helping couples save their marriages experiences the end of his own? In Episode 255 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Colorado marriage coach Keith Dorst for a vulnerable and practical conversation about marriage, divorce, shame, communication, healing, and rebuilding connection. Keith brings extensive profession...

In a world dominated by social media, screens, and AI, how can we intentionally build stronger human connections and healthier communities? In Episode 254 of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Dr. Chris Casely, researcher, educator, coach, wellness practitioner, and founder of Bella, for an insightful conversation about what human beings actually need to move from...

In a divided world, how can listening to someone's personal story help us find common ground even when we disagree? In this meaningful episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with John “Philly” Fletcher, father, podcaster, mentor, and founder of the Common Ground Project USA, for a conversation about faith, mentorship, intentional living, and the power of bri...

How much of your identity has been shaped by social media, your career, relationships, family expectations, or other people's opinions—and which parts genuinely reflect who you are? In this thought-provoking episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with life coach, teacher, writer, entrepreneur, and strategist Mark Relic to explore the connection between ident...

Why do we keep repeating relationship patterns we promised ourselves we would never repeat? In this insightful episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Laziena Hodge for a conversation about relationships, childhood experiences, emotional needs, generational patterns, and what it actually takes to repair the connections that matter most. Laziena explains that...

Why is creating a safe exit plan essential for survivors of domestic violence and coercive control? In this eye-opening episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes Christine Dillard, author of The Truth She Showed Me and a passionate advocate for survivors of domestic violence, for an essential conversation about one of the least understood forms of abuse: coercive co...

Why can two people hear the exact same words but walk away with completely different interpretations? In this insightful episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes back Angie D. Lee, licensed clinical social worker, relationship therapist, intimacy coach, author, and speaker, for a conversation that every couple needs to hear. Although words may be spoken clearly, th...

How can fathers become more intentional about showing up for their children, even in the middle of busy schedules? In this inspiring and deeply encouraging episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with J. Hill for a conversation that every father—and every man preparing to become one—needs to hear. J. Hill challenges one of the greatest lies many fathers believe:...

How has practicing self-love changed the way you approach healing after trauma, grief, or major life changes? In this heartfelt and deeply encouraging episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Laura Robertson for an authentic conversation about what healing really looks like after life-altering trauma and loss. Laura challenges one of the biggest misconception...

What hidden challenges do many women face that communities often overlook, and how can we better support them? In this powerful and deeply compassionate episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Jessica Sanchez, founder and CEO of Daughters of Both Sons, to discuss the hidden realities of trauma experienced by many women and families, particularly within under...

How can someone recognize the warning signs of narcissistic abuse before it damages their confidence and identity? In this empowering episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James sits down with Saige Whitney, a trauma-informed coach and advocate, to explore the journey of healing after narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Saige shares how narcissistic relationships ca...

What role does shame play in shaping our identity, and how can we begin to overcome it? In this powerful episode of the Deal to Heal with E. James Podcast, Earnest James welcomes author, entrepreneur, and publishing mentor Kelly Morgan for an honest conversation about the hidden cost of seeking validation from others and the journey toward discovering your true identity. Kelly shares how shame, re...

How can organizations identify and address racism in the workplace before it becomes part of the company culture? In this thought-provoking episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with internationally recognized author, entrepreneur, and advocate Chinyere Udeh to discuss the intersection of workplace racism, corporate greed, and the transformative power of storytelling. Draw...

How can we better support widows after the sudden loss of a spouse? In this deeply emotional and compassionate episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with Crystal King Iwuoma to discuss the unimaginable pain of suddenly losing a spouse and the difficult journey of rebuilding life afterward. Crystal shares her personal experience navigating grief, shock, loneliness, and the...

How can unhealed trauma from past relationships affect a new relationship or marriage? In this honest and transformative episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with Dennis Porterfield to unpack a truth many people avoid: what you don’t heal will follow you into your next relationship. Dennis shares powerful insight on the importance of doing the internal work before enterin...

What are healthy ways to show compassion to yourself during loss? In this deeply compassionate episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with Julie Kettles to explore the realities of navigating grief and loss. This conversation centers on the emotional journey of grief—how it unfolds, how it challenges us, and how it ultimately shapes us. Julie shares insights on learning to...

What are the benefits of having more women in the building trades? In this powerful and purpose-driven episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with JC Sykes to explore how building—both physically and personally—can be a pathway to healing. JC shares how hands-on work in the building trades can restore confidence, create stability, and offer a sense of purpose. This conversa...

What habits can help someone become their best self while managing multiple responsibilities? In this inspiring episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with Tsotello Nenzinane to explore the journey of balancing academic responsibilities, creative pursuits, and personal growth. Tsotello shares how writing became more than just a skill—it became a tool for self-expression, cl...

How can advocacy improve opportunities and inclusion for autistic adults? In this insightful and empowering episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with April Ratchford to explore the realities of being an autistic adult, the importance of advocacy, and how success must be redefined for neurodivergent individuals. April shares her lived experience navigating a world that oft...

What daily habits can help you align your life with your purpose? In this empowering episode of Deal to Heal with E. James, Earnest James sits down with Linh Le to explore the journey of finding inner peace, overcoming self-doubt, and stepping into a life of purpose. Linh shares her personal experiences navigating uncertainty, internal struggles, and the pressure of self-doubt while learning how t...