Dating Herself | A Modern Dating Podcast

We are doing more than need to as women while dating just to avoid getting hurt... like trying to be more intentional, more discerning, more picky, and the endless list goes on, and it doesn't even work, you can do all this and still get hurt, still get rejected, still feel lonely. so I'm proposing something else in today's episode.

When was the last time you had so much fun you forgot what you were so worried about? This episode is a love letter to all my type A, eldest daughter, hyper independent girly pops about finding love, it was never that serious.

6 years ago I was trying to make sure I was every guy's dream girl, because I believed being the best version of myself would attract better men. So why wasn't it? Why, if I was my best self, was I not meeting my person? Why was I still having men from my past pop up, or men who claimed to be interested but never got to know the real me? In this episode I explain the only "strategic&q...

If you’re longing for true love but you’re tired of trying to get it this week’s fresh start episode of the podcast is for you. Sign up for the free live workshop here.

We are playing small with love, and I'm not talking about just settling for the wrong person. I'm talking about it being decided that there are only two ways to date, or believing that the love we want doesn't exist, or not ending things early because it's "harmless" when we know deeply and intuitively that it isn't for us, or making our single lives the prologue to t...

Today we are talking about cutting off pieces of yourself in order to be liked, the burden of dating being on women, and why more women need to enter their F*** it era.

How to stop choosing between your peace and finding true love

For the women in the in between space of dating. You've exited your healing era but have zero interest in diving head first back into the dating pool. If you want to meet your person and experience the kind of love you've always dreamed about without losing your health, wealth, or happiness listen to this episode and start feeling like the first choice before you even meet another man. If...

You're a catch, act like it

Find out if you're falling into the trap of "doing all the right things" in order to try and meet your person and how it can become a lot easier with one simple question before you even try to put yourself back into the dating pool.

“What if I never meet my person?” - is one of the most asked questions I get. While I could probably write a book on this to share with you, I decided there were 3 important things you need to know right now if you're wondering if meeting your person will happen for you. In this episode I am NOT recommending that you need to try harder, put yourself out there more, or do a bunch of things that...

Dating on the way to meeting your person can be vulnerable, uncomfortable, and even a little awkward at times, but it does NOT have to be hard and exhausting. If nothing is working when it comes to finding your person and you're questioning if you should even keep trying, or if love really is for you, listen to this episode. You can listen to the free 2 step dating plan audio here.

How to close the gap between being single to being in your dream relationship without doing a bunch of s*** you hate. I am a firm believer that dating on the way to meeting the love of your life (while it can be vulnerable, uncomfortable, or scary) is not meant to be hard and exhausting. Or make you doubt and question yourself. Listen to this weeks episode on how you can invite more ease, playfuln...

The right decision is the one you make, but I am here with todays episode so you can make a decision about if you want to keep dating to meet the love of your life or if it just isn't worth it anymore from a place of knowing. Not only will the overwhelm and exhaustion clear up when you make this decision, but you will be able to know what you actually want to do next, without worrying if it is...

We are talking about a really simple and fun activity that you can start incorporating into your regular every day life to create the relationship of your dreams without putting more work in. I use it every time I want to create change in my life, especially when I want to have or experience something I never have before, and have no proof that I can. If you want to create your dream relationship...

I'm inviting you to join my series where I will be dating myself for 30 days leading up to my 30th birthday. It's called the 30, flirty, and thriving series, but it's for the woman who wants to really celebrate herself over the next month with me. There will be literal dates I will be taking myself on, but there will also be intentional actions to create a complete identity shift to ca...

No amount of dating and meeting people will get you closer to falling in love than this one simple thing. It's the reason why you haven't met your person yet, and it has nothing to do with you or how many dates you're willing to go on. Listen to the Private Audio Series here.

If working on yourself has helped you to thrive when you're alone but you're still wondering why your partner, co-workers, or family members seem to undo all of that hard work with one comment this episode is for you. This is a short and sweet introduction to dating yourself instead of feeling like you still have a lot of work to do to not snap at your family member when they make another...

If just thinking about dating is exhausting, and you're wishing you could just skip to the part where you're in your dream relationship, I've been there. That is why this week's episode is a lightening round of solutions to get you to meeting them a lot more quickly without doing a bunch of s*** you don't like. Not only will these solutions remove the exhaustion of dating, but...

This week I am getting real with y'all, dating is hard. Especially when you are longing for romance and connection but can't seem to find your person. So grab a coffee and join me, we are talking about dating to meet the love of your life, and how it does not have to suck! 555 Dating Exercise ⁠⁠⁠Book a consult call here.⁠⁠ ⁠Have a dating question? submit it anonymously here.⁠

If I wanted to meet the love of my in 2026 without questioning my self worth the entire time this is exactly what I'd do. It's a simple solution personalized for you, because we are in our era of ease and peace, even while we are dating. ⁠⁠Book a consult call here.⁠ Have a dating question? submit it anonymously here.⁠

Let's talk about what no one tells you about dating - how to actually enjoy it as a woman. Especially if you're someone who tends to over think, and wishes they could just skip to the part where they are in a happy healthy relationship. Go from praying your next date will be the last one and you can finally delete hinge forever, to having the best damn time dating that you forget why you h...

Join me as a blab about one of the most exhausting parts of dating, that you might not even know you are doing! And how to stop doing it so that you can start enjoying dating. Listen to the 555 dating exercise here. Have a dating question? submit it anonymously here. Book a consult call here.

If you've come to hate dating and it feels like all you're doing is wasting your energy on men you don't even really like this episode is for you. You'll find out if it's worth it for you to date anymore, and how to do it in a way that is best for you. Book a consult call + (get a personalized dating plan) DM me your questions on IG or drop them anonymously here.

For real though, is it better to date IRL or use the apps? listen for an answer you won't find anywhere else, that will actually tell you how to date in 2026. Submit your dating Q's anonymously here. DM me here. Book a consult call here.