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Send episode requests here Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved.  But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached. In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new m...

Send episode requests here Do you feel invisible in public, like men never notice you?  Or maybe you do get approached, but it’s never by the men you’re actually interested in? In this episode, I dive into why that happens and how to change it by using Pleasure Presence—a practice that helps you become magnetic to men without having to compete for attention. I explain why high-achieving women of f...

Send episode requests here Do your conversations with men often start strong but fizzle out over time?  Do you experience ghosting, men telling you you’re "wifey material" but never making you their wife, or men pulling away fast after pursuing you intensely?  If any of these sound familiar, this episode is for you. In this episode, I break down why mastering emotional connection is esse...

Send episode requests here I love auditing my love life because it always leads me to uncover systems or patterns in my behavior that give me dating success —patterns that I can teach. In this episode, I’m sharing how my Feminine Positioning Process added an incredible man to my rotation (and others). This process wasn’t something I initially realized I was doing, but once I started noticing it, I...

Send episode requests here If you’re a High-Achieving Woman of Faith balancing a career, personal commitments, and maybe even kids, you deserve to date men who add to your life, not drain it. Right now, dating might feel like just one more thing on your already full plate—leaving you feeling pressured instead of supported. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You need to set the standard early on b...

Send episode requests here Tired of going on great dates and never hearing from the men again? He compliments you, tells you how much fun he’s having, and it feels like everything is clicking. Then, just like that—nothing.  No text, no follow-up call, nothing.  So you reach out…and there’s no response If this keeps happening to you, you can break the cycle.  Listen in as I share with you exactly h...

Send episode requests here If you are a High-achieving, Woman of Faith who is financially successful, you have every right to date a man who is also successful with money.  Society and mainstream religion often pushes the idea that love should be about more than money, and you might hear things like:   “It’s shallow to focus on money. You should care more about how a man treats you.”  Or  “Focus o...

Send episode requests here I’m an introvert who runs a multiple six-figure coaching business, takes 4-6 pole dance classes per week, and I still had the capacity to go on 10 dates last month. It’s not because I’m special—it’s because I have systems in my love life that support me and make dating easy, fun, and manageable. Tune into this episode as I take you behind the scenes of my love life to sh...

Send episode requests here “Good girl” conditioning is a big reason why Women of Faith struggle to attract quality men. Our need to be nice, perfect, and always please others makes us ignore our own needs, stay quiet, and settle for less.  This often attracts men who don’t respect us or take advantage of our kindness, instead of men who value and appreciate us. But when we become the S.U.N of our...

Send episode requests here When I got married, I stopped trusting myself. Because of the “good girl” culture that society and religion promote, I was conditioned to trust my husband’s thoughts and opinions over my own, all in the name of submission. It wasn’t until I decided to start trusting myself again and put my needs first that I realized how much damage losing my voice had caused to my healt...

Send episode requests here Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones… …and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship. This week, we're going step by step on how you c...

Send episode requests here “Good girls” finish last.  And here’s the truth: all that effort  it takes to be a “good girl” as a Woman of Faith tends to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones… …and it ends up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship. If you’re a Woman of F...

Send episode requests here Taking a break from dating to heal might seem like the right move, but it can actually mess up your love life.  You can’t truly heal your relationship wounds if you aren’t actively exploring them with men. By stepping away, you’re just avoiding the issues, not fixing them. If you want to do the real work and heal, join me in this episode to learn about the biggest mistak...

Send episode requests here You got questions, I have answers.  Tune into this week’s episode to dive into some Q&A where I cover insightful topics like knowing when to take a break from dating, managing time with multiple dates, and figuring out your next steps when you're ready to jump back into the dating scene. We also tackle those tricky situations where someone's actions and gen...

Send episode requests here I believe that every Woman of Faith should be a Marriage-Optional Woman.  When you are Marriage-Optional, you are always well-loved and taken care of…without having to rely on a husband for this kind of support.  You can confidently meet and date high-quality men knowing that you can get married whenever you want.  Whether you desire marriage or not, tune into this episo...

Send episode requests here If you easily lose interest in online dating due to boring, dry conversations, it’s not because the men are dull or the app is full of low-quality, unserious users.  The issue is that you haven’t mastered the art of creating enjoyable conversations. Before you delete your dating apps again, tune into this episode to learn three simple ways to have fun, engaging conversat...

Send episode requests here When life gets tough, many women shy away from dating.  They believe it’s not the “right time” and that they should wait until things improve. However, dating during challenging times is a valuable life skill that you can learn.  Once you master it, you’ll be amazed at how much the benefits of dating can enhance your life and make things easier. Tune in to this episode t...

Send episode requests here Women of Faith are conditioned to believe that their value is found in marriage and being a wife.  Which is why single men feel comfortable shaming us for also being single.   It’s why we feel inadequate when we are pushing 30 or 40 and still don’t have “the ring” And it’s also why we choose to stay in toxic, unhealthy marriages that don’t serve us, just to save face. In...

Send episode requests here If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.  You’re the woman who is always making time You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support, You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going. You’re the woman who is always there to ma...

Send episode requests here Most women of faith worry about appearing desperate or thirsty while dating.  It’s because we don’t wanna turn men off.  We don’t wanna be taken advantage of And we don’t want our feelings hurt.  The problem is, this state of worry is causing us to attract the wrong men and sabotage our opportunities for a real, meaningful connection.  Tune in to this episode to learn th...

Send episode requests here If you want to win in life, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish.  If you want to win in love, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish.  High-achieving women of faith are known to set goals for their lives (education, career, finances etc…) But when it comes to love, we “wait and see” what happens.  And this is why we’re losin...

Send episode requests here As High achieving women of faith…we love to say we are “Dating with a purpose” But most of us still aren’t getting the results we want while dating.  We aren’t getting approached by the men we like.  We aren’t having the conversations we want to have And we aren’t going on the types of dates we desire.  And that is because we aren’t dating with intention.  Tune into this...

Send episode requests here “How come it’s the ones who engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)” I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside.  What these women don’t realize is that be...

Send episode requests here If you’re not being approached by quality men in person.. It’s because you’re not properly positioned.  This is why you can show up to all the events or places that quality men hang out at… And still not be approached. Tune into this episode to learn 3 Non-negotiable skills you need to learn if you want to be approached by quality men anywhere and everywhere you go.  Int...

Send episode requests here Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion.  They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate” They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them.  They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but...