Cultivate By Bec

Being a mother and the mental agility required. Switching from thing to thing, seeing and doing multiple mental agility tasks in any given moment.

Pregnant women often get labeled as “nesting” when they are trying to get their family home ready for the new baby. I find this utterly offensive, and a perpetuate of ingrained language used to belittle and shame women. What if a woman trying to prepare her home was an innate divine act of brilliance she should actually be praised for?

Ever felt like you’re suddenly public property just because your pregnant? Or that people think they can give you any opinion they want and shame you into agreeing just because you’re pregnant? NO MORE MAAM, NOT TODAY. Let’s chat about societal expectations and how to politely tell others to f*ck off. And at the same time, letting our own story of being pregnant and motherhood be ever unfolding an...

Why I am so passionate about women being educated about themselves - their womanly anatomy and how to take care of it, their anatomy and neurology as it relates to sexuality. My childhood conditioning growing up in Christianity. How growing up being taught this belief scaffolding eroded my confidence, worthiness and self belief. How growing up in this context completely under-educated me about my...

When we judge another, what is the implication for how we judge ourselves? Could practising neutrality be the gateway to unconditional self love?

Finally in a beautiful place with choosing clothing, with FASHON, with what that means for ME. Listen along for questions I’ve asked myself to find my truest clothing choices.

Time to get really honest with yourself. Are you keeping that energetic exchange going because it’s “good” so you feel like you should? Just because and exchange is good, doesn’t mean you should! Let’s dive in

Shrink your energetic portals down by making decisions ahead of time. Take control of your brain and instruct it on exactly what will be happening in the future. Practise reclaiming your energy by pre-preparing your days.

Do you ever feel tired from having to revisit a decision over and over again? What if you used constraint parameters to reduce energy wasted on decision making. And actually got to breeze through day to day life knowing you don’t have to choose a new shampoo!

What are you doing day to say that is a SHOULD? Can we become honest with ourselves and start to unpack where we could regain our energy by removing shoulds from our lives. Closing down shoulds will free up our energy and allow us to live a life we more desire.

Have you ever considered the energetic exchange you have with people, items and decisions hundreds of times per day? Let’s get aware! Because then we can begin cultivating an energy filled and aligned day!