Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots sugge...

Season two, baby. In this episode, we kick off the new season by looking back at what we learned from season one — and then get into what everyone actually wants to talk about: how to make a relationship last. We break down “the spark,” why it’s overrated if you don’t build something underneath it, how to fight without blowing everything up, and what spontaneity really looks like once you have kid...

This week, we cover a very glamorous mix of topics: Erin's back injury, why Dry January is a scam (sorry), and the rise of Analog January —aka putting your phone down and remembering how to be a person. We talk about the chokehold screens have on adults and kids, what parenting looks like in a world of Roblox and endless content, and why boredom might actually be a good thing. Get More Erin + Abe...

This week, Abe sits down with Max Cohen, better known as Murray Hill Boy . Max talks about walking away from a legal career at 25, accidentally finding success on TikTok, and why growing up Jewish in New York gave him endless material. They get into what it’s actually like to build a following online, the not-so-fun parts of visibility, and being a gay guy in mostly straight friend circles without...

This week, we sit down with Rachel and Jordan — entrepreneur parents, investors, and the brains behind of your kids’ favorite snacks – cadootz! . We talk about what it’s really like to build multiple businesses while raising a family, feeding kids real food, and working together without losing your minds (or your marriage). They share how their insistence on real ingredients shaped their brands, w...

This week, Abe sits down with Jade Shanker from Netflix’s Owning Manhattan for a real, behind-the-scenes conversation. Jade opens up about breaking into NYC real estate, what it was really like being cast on the show, and the competitive dynamics inside the office once the cameras were rolling. She also gets personal about navigating a separation in the public eye, handling scrutiny, and finding h...

This week, Erin's answering all your questions — nothing off limits. She gets into her favorite furniture and home décor sources (and why she's constantly designing my own pieces), baby essentials she actually uses, and the renovation chaos currently happening in the Lichy house. I also cover BravoCon, Australia plans, beauty routines, pregnancy cravings, and what it’s really like having cameras i...

This week, Abe teams up with fellow Househusband John Barlow to shake things up behind the bar. Between laughs, they talk reality TV fame, business hustle, and what really goes down when cameras stop rolling. The convo naturally drifts into the spirits world — from agave aging to distribution headaches — before wrapping with some solid advice on staying grounded, supportive, and (mostly) sober thr...

This week, Abe's chatting with Dr. Amanda Kahn — the longevity queen who basically makes aging feel… optional. We get into why longevity is the new luxury, what’s actually happening at the cellular level, and how things like NAD, peptides, and hormones can make a real difference. We also talk stress, pollution, diet, and why waiting until something’s wrong to deal with your health is the worst str...

This week, we’re talking about the glow-up that comes after your twenties—the new wave of people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s getting into the best shape of their lives. We dig into how the conversation around health and fitness has evolved, and of course, debate the age-old question: is it really about diet, or is it all in the workout? Later, we switch gears with a Vogue-style rapid-fire round whe...

This week, we’re talking about the new rules of love — because apparently, having a boyfriend is now uncool . Inspired by a recent Vogue piece, we get into how younger generations are redefining relationships, independence, and what “commitment” even means anymore. We also touch on the weird rise of AI romance (yes, people are actually dating chatbots) and what that says about connection in the di...

This week, Abe reunites with his best friend, Preston Konrad, for a catch-up that’s part Miami flashback, part business masterclass. They swap stories from Art Basel, debate city life versus vacation-home dreams, and dig into Preston’s latest ventures—his luxury home-fragrance line and the new Preston Lane Home Collection. They talk about finding the right business partner, learning when to let sm...

This week, Abe sits down with Charlie Walk – music exec, brand builder, and comeback king. He started as a college intern at Sony and went on to run Republic, Columbia, and Epic, working with everyone from Mariah Carey to The Weeknd. After decades at the top of the music game (and a few major life curveballs), he’s now focused on brand investment and cultural A&R with projects like Charlie’s A...

We’re finally back in the studio and yeah, we’re talking psychedelics now. Abe went on a guided retreat led by Omani and Jeannie from Omya , and let’s just say things got… enlightening. There were breakthroughs, a few tears, maybe some messages from the other side— get ready. We get into Abe's “trickster energy,” facing your own chaos, and why sometimes the universe has to knock you upside the hea...

In this episode, Erin and Abe get real about what it’s like to mix marriage and business without losing your mind — or each other. They spill on establishing roles, communicating like adults, and building systems so no one ends up stepping on toes (or egos). From pausing before big decisions to celebrating the wins — both tiny and huge — they show how a business partnership can boost your relation...

Thinking about starting a business but don’t know where to start? Erin and Abe break it down – sharing the messy, the magical, and the downright unexpected parts of launching anything from handbags to Mezcal. They spill on spotting opportunities, leaning into your passions, and finding partners who actually get you. Plus, real talk on using the networks you have, knowing yourself, and surviving th...

Erin sits down with Danielle Robay for a conversation that’s equal parts heart-to-heart and real talk. They cover everything from the messy (and magical) parts of motherhood, to relationship ups and downs, to the little rituals that keep happiness alive. They reflect on life’s big moments - loss, love, career, and friendship - while sharing how asking the right questions can change everything. Get...

Ben and Zikki are a culinary power couple you need to know. In this episode, we dive into their upcoming cookbook and how they make the kitchen – and life – work as a team. From meeting in the Italian Alps to surviving long-distance during COVID, they’ve built a business and a life together that’s equal parts love and hustle. We talk teamwork, shared goals, the highs and lows of parentho...

Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited in...

This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and...

In this episode, Erin and Abe are joined by intimacy expert Shan Boodram to talk about Arya —the service that’s blending AI with real expertise to give couples fresh ways to connect (yes, really). They dive into the wild world of male and female sexuality, how modern tech is shaking things up in relationships, and how to keep things spicy without the cringe. The trio also shares personal stories a...

Leah Van Dale (formerly WWE’s Carmella) joins Erin and Abe to talk about postpartum recovery, blended family dynamics, and how her own experience led her to create Snatch, a platform for women navigating life after birth. They also get into life behind the scenes of reality TV—and Abe does his best to explain why he refuses to get a vasectomy. Get More Leah @ theleahvandale @ snatchforher EXPLORE...

What do HDMI cables, reality TV, and nanny trauma have in common? This episode. Erin and Abe unpack a nightmare child care situation, NYC parenting hacks, and their surprising take on faith, tradition, and why sometimes you should test your partner’s love with a little crazy. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! @ cometogetherpod @ erindanalichy @ abe.lichy Produced b...

In this week's episode, Erin and Abe tackle the chaos of moving, parenthood, and grief. Erin opens up about her journey with grief and how it’s starting to catch up with her, while Abe shares his own reflections. They also talk about the shift in their relationship post-baby and balancing it all with four kids. It’s real, raw, and a reminder that sometimes, you still might end up crying on your bi...

From the early days of Instagram memes to building a national beverage brand, Ben Soffer has seen it all. In this episode, he joins Abe to talk about turning “Boy With No Job” into a launchpad for Spritz Society, the secrets to scaling without VCs, and how being married to Claudia Oshry sharpened his edge and grounded his life. They get into the social media shift, why TikTok is both genius and da...