Authentic You

SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah catch up on life in this episode with hilarious stories, unfiltered conversations, and the kind of random tangents only best friends can have. Nothing is off-limits, and they somehow manage to turn any topic into a good time. Follow along on social media for new episodes and updates, or to connect with us. We'd love to hear from you!  Authentic You Women's Community http...

Erika is back with SeaJay and Deborah, bringing a much-needed spiritual perspective as they dive into the comfort of the Holy Spirit. This conversation centers on what it truly means to relate to God as our Comforter and how different our lives might look if we actually embraced that truth. Too often, we take comfort into our own hands, but what happens when we surrender that instinct and allow Go...

SeaJay and Deborah are back this week for a catch-up, and while we dearly miss our co-host Erika, with her out, the conversation gets a little looser. This episode hits everything from SeaJay confidently stepping in as your go-to "doctor friend" to our ongoing relationship with technology...why are password resets so personal, and when did we start treating ChatGPT like our most supportive friend?...

This year has started off around here as a full-on sprint with fasting, 24-hour prayer, and the Pastors Conference. Meanwhile at home, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah are deep in the reality of personality differences, communication in marriage, and how the same husband can still manage to reveal brand-new surprises about himself. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect wi...

Christmas with grown kids is a whole new game. In this bonus episode, we share simple Christmas parenting hacks focused on flexibility, connection, and letting go of perfection. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We'd love to hear from you! Authentic You Women's Community https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay       Jesus Culture Podcast Network https...

We're honored to welcome Chrissy Cole, Lead/Creative Pastor of Project Church, to the podcast with SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah. Chrissy is passionate about women in leadership and deeply committed to helping them find healing and build a healthy private world. This is a powerful conversation on leading with vulnerability and why the tender things God places in us need intentional care, like a tiny...

In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah introduce us to the wonderful Kathryn Scott, who is a lead pastor, worship leader, and true gem of a human. She's warm and wise and carries a deep history with the Lord that naturally raises the spiritual maturity in the room. Kathryn shares a powerful message on disappointment, something we all face in different ways. She reminds us that while it's okay...

SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah get real about the joys (and surprises) of aging because yes, our bodies are changing, and no, we aren't ready. Having a twin going through it too is helpful, but don't worry if you don't have one; ChatGPT is basically the next best thing (or not). Stick around for a powerful message from Becky Johnson on the kind of boldness that only comes through prayer. She challenge...

In this honest and relatable episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah reflect on a new season of life—realizing they've become "the adult" in their relationship with their parents. They approach it with a tenderness to unpack the tension of wanting to help, while also honoring boundaries, navigating unfamiliar territory, and figuring out when (and how) to step in. This episode is full of wisdom and vul...

There's a lot to catch up on in this bonus episode—SeaJay's daughter got married! From a surprise ER visit just days before the wedding to some real talk about faith, fear, and leadership, this episode goes deep. Erika's dropping wisdom, Deborah's keeping it real, and SeaJay's bringing all the heart.   Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We'd love to hear...

SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah kick off this episode with laughs about pet peeves, the Mandela Effect, and even imagining Erika with long hair. Then, we switch gears and hear a powerful message from Jo Geerling, a wife, boy mom, pastor, and leader, on what it means to pack light for the journey with God. She shares how to stay encouraged, travel with purpose, and not get stuck hyper-focusing on the de...

When you can't ask your mom for flirting advice… you call a friend like Alisa Gilstrap. This week, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah chat with some of our favorite Jesus Culture team members, Alisa Gilstrap and Chloe Frye, about all things dating! From healthy guy/girl friendships, to showing interest without losing yourself, we talk about non-negotiables, shame-breaking conversations, and the difference...

In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah catch up on Deborah's house renovation adventure. Then, SeaJay brings a relatable and empowering message about what it means to invite others in and show up with confidence when it's your turn. It's funny, it's encouraging, and it might just be what you need today.   Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We'd love...

In this episode, we're honored to share a special message from one of our very own hosts, Deborah Giles! She dives into a powerful message on hearing God's voice, the heart behind the prophetic, and why it's more about obedience than perfection. But first…SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah take a moment to remember a recent loss of a beloved family dog—sharing sweet memories, heartfelt moments, and the jo...

We've all done it. We jump to conclusions without the full picture, fill in the blanks with assumptions and walk away feeling hurt, offended, or misunderstood. But what if there's a better way? In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk about breaking free from offense, choosing curiosity over criticism, and learning to assume the best in others. Let's explore how to live with grace and not...

In this bonus episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah are catching up, and pretty much nothing is off the table. They're talking about what it's like living with adult and teenage kids, the mystery of people who choose to sleep in tents (camping), and the surprisingly fun chaos of sharing calendars with friends and husbands. They also get into whether being a rule follower, or breaker, is really who y...

In this inspiring episode, our friend Janessa Ford opens up to SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah about the journey to true freedom—learning to love herself, breaking free from shame, and speaking truth over darkness. She shares the power of words, the importance of blessing our bodies, and the challenges of raising daughters in an appearance-focused culture. Join us for an honest conversation about self-...

Proximity and timing are key ingredients needed to build friendships. In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk about the importance of walking through life with others and how trusting God in the process helps us navigate the highs and lows of relationships. Friendship takes bravery, vulnerability, and the willingness to not take things personally when the vibe just isn't right. Join us as...

In this powerful episode, Tiina Fitzgerald, our friend and guest, shares her journey through the deep grief of being raised by her mom battling a mental health disorder and becoming a single mom after the sudden death of her daughter's father. SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk with Tiina about how she turned to the Lord and community for support and how the mandate to "take every thought captive" he...

In this episode, Ruthie Ridley shares her journey from a nursing career, driven by external pressure, to building an influential online platform rooted in purpose. Starting with a small following and facing insecurity, fear, and isolation, Ruthie's obedience to God's call led to success—especially as she spoke out on cultural issues like racial injustice. She reflects on the importance of building...

In this episode, Becky Johnson chats with SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah about the challenges and blessings of raising pastor's kids, the importance of spiritual covering, humility, and submission to God's plan. True favor follows surrender. Through vulnerability and trust, they discuss how we often carry baggage into our relationship with God that needs to be shed for growth to occur. Becky's story r...

We've got something new—bonus episodes are here! Starting this month, we're dropping extra content to keep the conversations going between regular episodes. In this bonus episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah catch up on life, from backyard chickens to life hacks. They chat about the emotional energy of shopping, why SeaJay might be your new favorite nurse, and how letting their kids pick their outf...

Dana Regules joins SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah to dive into her journey of loss, waiting, and God's perfect timing. Losing her only family at the age of 18 and facing years of infertility brought deep questions and struggles, but through faith and community, Dana discovered hope and redemption. Her story is a testament to God's faithfulness, the power of saying yes, and building a legacy despite li...

What happens when the lies we've believed about ourselves collide with the truth of who God says we are? In this powerful episode, Megan Schimmel sits down with SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah to share her journey from questioning where she fit into God's story, to embracing her identity in Him. Born with physical challenges, she once believed her struggles were the result of sin, but through God's rad...

Life is full of moments that challenge and shape us—but are we open to learning, growing, and embracing the unexpected? In this season of Authentic You, SeaJay Liebscher, Erika Myburgh, and Deborah Giles are back, diving into real conversations about growth, grace, and the beauty of doing things differently than we imagined. Join us as we laugh, reflect, and explore what it means to walk this jour...