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Anonymous is a gay man that has been in an abusive relationship for 9 years

The team is back to taking live calls in studio today. Anonymous hasn't been mentally okay ever since she caught her man having numerous affairs over the years. Her man has recently suggested that they have a baby because they are getting older, is this the right move?

It's 2022 and anonymous is tired of being a side chick, will this be the year that she gets a promoted to be the main woman in her situationship or not?

Anonymous VS the clingy wife

Anonymous is facing troubled waters, the mother of his children left him and the kids for another man, anonymous moved on and found a woman that loves him and his kids. anonymous's estranged wife now wants to be back in the picture.

Anonymous was dumped by her man because he wanted to pursue another woman, the grass wasn't greener on the other side now he's back. What would you do if you were in her situation?

Anonymous wants to play Russian Roulette with her life, she is aware that her cop hubby is cheating on her and she wants to start doing the same.

Anonymous wishes that her husband communicate better about his child that he has outside of their relationship. Does she have valid concerns or does she not like the child?

Anonymous is a young man in his late twenties, he is now concerned that his woman who is in her mid-forties wants to get married

Anonza makes more money than her man, with signs that lobola could be heading her way, she's starting to realise that this man has 3 children and that they could become a bigger financial burden on her than him

Why do some women not allow the kids to visit their fathers when their are no longer together or married. We discuss evil "babymammaz" in studio today.

Anonymous is dating a much younger man, she's afraid that his family will not accept her as the woman that he has chosen

After admitting to be a cheater, anonymous feels suffocated in his relationship because his woman hasn't entirely healed from it. He says she's insecure and follows him everywhere he goes. He isn't allowed to go see his family for Christmas because she doesn't trust he is going where he says he's going

Anonymous can't stop loving her boyfriend that has gone back to his woman and child

Bongeka from Cape Town wants the team to discuss financial disclosure in relationships

Zinhle from Cape Town wants the team to discuss Vat n Sit especially where blended families are concerned

Today we kick off our Festive Season #AskAMan with voicenotes to 0608061685. The team discusses relationship related questions sent via voicenote.  

Anonymous has been in a toxic relationship for 10years, she shares two children with her partner, the children have had a front row seat to the abuse at times. Anonymous says something keeps pulling her back into this relationship no matter haw many times she leaves him 

Anonymous is dating a man who doesn't want to commit to her. He just wants them to have fun, she wants more than just fun

Anonymous has been on a roller coaster ride with the father of her child. She is determined to work on this failing relationship, she wants to "fix" him

Anonymous fears for her life after her live-in boyfriend assaulted her in from of her children.

Anonymous has been unhappily married for 6 years. She recently went through her man's phone and found confirmation that he has someone else on the side. Is she strong enough to leave?

Anonza is a lesbian in her mid 30's, she's been with her partner for over 4 years but still hasn't met her family. 

Anonymous wants to mend things with her husband who shuts down whenever they have to deal with serious issues in their marriage. She admits to have been verbally abuse towards him at times.

Anonza wants to know whether or not he can make his marriage work. He states that he is a reformed cheater and misses his wife and family. Can they give it one last shot?