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Anonymous is married to a man who’s 16 years younger than her and says the issue in their relationship is her partner and his friends. Anonymous says she feels like her partner is always prioritising friends and partying and she can’t do it. She says he came into the relationship knowing this but it’s now becoming a challenge in their relationship. Anonymous says aside from that he is a great husb...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about 18 months and she says it’s been amazing. Anonymous says in the last couple of months her feelings for her partner have suddenly changed and she doesn’t know why because he has done nothing wrong. and the relationship is fine. Anonymous doesn’t know why she’s feeling this way and wishes to go back to being in love with her partner again.

Anonymous says she cheated on her boyfriend last year and confessed what she had done because she felt guilty. Anonymous says months later he seems to still not be over the fact that she cheated on him and even got angry that she was being friendly with their neighbour’s guests over the weekend. Anonymous says her partner did cheat on her multiple times before but had stopped in the recent years o...

Anonymous says she’s been in the talking stage with a man for the last year. Anonymous says everything is going well and the vibe is good. But every time she brings up the conversation of them making things official the guy says she’s putting too much pressure on him. Anonymous is not sure if she can move forward being in limbo.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his...

Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a re...

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts...

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner th...

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him  to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family...

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has...

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raisin...

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cl...

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If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise r...

Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now...

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymou...

Anonymous is caught between two guys. The first guy is in a relationship with several other people and that would make anonymous a side dish, things are a little tricky there, anonymous says he does love the first guy though. Guy no.2 is cool but anonymous found out that the guy is engaged to be married to another guy, and even wants to introduce anonymous to his fiancé , anonymous is not sure wha...

Anonymous and her partner were struggling to conceive a baby and eventually went on fertility treatments which led to sex feeling like a chore for them, however, anonymous did fall pregnant and they have a child. The issue is that anonymous now feels like what they went through has affected their sex life and her partner doesn’t seem interested. They are also in a long distance relationship. Anony...

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 5 years and their relationship is fairly ok. Her partner has a 13 year-old son who she has a good relationship with but not with the mother of the child, who anonymous says is always fighting with her and bringing drama to her and her relationship. Anonymous says her partner is now also seemingly coming under stress from all this and taking it out o...

Anonymous met a man last year and they instantly clicked and started dating. Anonymous says in the midst of this she met her man’s friend and started clicking with him. One day she was alone with her man’s friends and ended up having sex with the friend she likes. Her man found out about the affair and they eventually broke up. Anonymous now wants her ex-man back even though he is now seemingly ha...

Anonymous and his now ex were together in what he thought was a beautiful relationship until he caught her in bed cheating on him with another man. The relationship continued after the incident but anonymous saw the same guy calling her and saw text exchanges between them…

Anonymous has been dating his partner for 2 years now. They both came into the relationship with their own kids, anonymous has 1 and the partner has two kids. Anonymous says because he’s in love with her he decided to also support her kids but now there’s a problem in the relationship because anonymous’s partner feels like anonymous is prioritising his own child over her children. Anonymous says a...

Anonymous has had a friends with benefits situation with a friend of his for the last year, this is guy no.1, however anonymous then ended up also having sex with guy no.2 who’s guy no.1’s brother, and they’ve now developed feelings for each other. In the middle of all of this anonymous has also had sexual relations with their guy no.3, who’s their other brother. Anonymous is not sure what to do i...