All Things Melanin

In this episode of All Things Melanin , we’re talking about what it means to choose yourself, build intentional relationships, and keep pursuing your goals through seasons of discouragement . We discuss how friendships and sisterhood change as we get older, what makes a friendship meaningful, and why quality often matters more than quantity. We also talk about staying committed to your dreams when...

What happens when love becomes an addiction, your career path feels uncertain, and the people closest to you don’t support the dream you’re pursuing? In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about love addiction and unhealthy relationship patterns , making intentional career moves in corporate America and business, and navigating what to do when your family doesn’t believe in your drea...

Are you becoming the person you’re hoping to attract? In this episode of All Things Melanin , we’re talking about how to become the partner you’re praying for , including healing before dating, dating yourself, setting standards, and building a fulfilling life that doesn’t depend on a relationship. We also discuss reinventing yourself professionally and whether it’s ever too late to change careers...

What does it really mean to put yourself out there —in dating, your career, and your personal life? In this episode of All Things Melanin , we’re talking about dating, vulnerability, personal branding, networking, and professional boundaries . We discuss the challenges of putting yourself out there in dating, including fear of rejection, dating apps, vulnerability, and opening yourself up to love....

Do you need closure to move on from a relationship? In this episode of All Things Melanin , we explore how to move on without closure, let go of relationships that no longer serve you, and find peace when you don’t get the answers you hoped for. We’re also sharing the story behind the relaunch of our YouTube Channel, All Things Melanin TV , including why we stopped, why we’re starting again, and w...

In this episode of All Things Melanin , Erica and Shelby talk about dating with purpose in your 30s and building the life and relationships you truly want. They discuss recognizing when someone is serious, chemistry vs. compatibility, overlooked green flags, and making sure you’re not settling out of fear of being alone or starting over. Plus, they share time management tips for side hustlers , in...

In this episode of All Things Melanin , Erica and Shelby celebrate 9 years of conversations, growth, and community. They discuss what they’ve learned about dating and relationships , what they’re committing to do for themselves, and the lessons that come with building something meaningful. Plus, they tackle a real-life girls’ trip friendship dilemma in Mentor Moment and share encouragement from Ps...

Are you tired of "entertaining" people who don't fit your future? In this episode of All Things Melanin , Erica and Shelby help you distinguish between intentional dating and simply dating out of boredom, and much more. Dating & Relationships: The signs of “entertaining” someone when dating vs. being intentional The Journey: Navigating the "slow seasons" of building a b...

Are you struggling to navigate dating and relationships, or wondering how to change your career after a long gap year? In this episode, Erica and Shelby discuss how to navigate various transitions occurring in life. This episode tackles: Dating & Relationships: Unlearning bad dating habits to improve future dating experiences The Journey: Navigating following trends vs. staying authentic to yo...

Are you standing at a crossroads? Is it ever too late to change your career ? From the heartache of post-breakup recovery —deciding whether to go back or move on—to the courageous leap of starting a career from scratch , we explore how to rebuild with intention. In this episode, we tackle: Dating & Relationships: Going Back vs. Moving On The Journey: How to create relevant content consistently...

Are you actually seeing a red flag, or are you just projecting past fears onto a new situation? This week, Erica and Shelby dive deep into the psychology of discernment—both in our relationships and our creative journeys. We’re exploring what it looks like to "do your best" when your "best" changes every single day. In this episode, we discuss: The Check-In: Redefining what &qu...

Is your plate full, but your cup empty? This week, Erica and Shelby are talking about the art of the "pour"—how we invest in ourselves to keep the momentum going without burning out. We’re getting practical about the tools that keep All Things Melanin running and getting personal about the relationships that might be running their course. In this episode, we cover: The Check-In: What &qu...

Is privacy the new "flex" in dating? In this episode, we explore whether you should keep your romantic relationship off social media and how much of your relationship you should actually share online. We dive into The Journey of getting back to business basics to avoid burnout and scale with intention. Plus, we tackle the big question: Is it time to take a leap of faith and apply for you...

Ever feel like you’re working on a vision that only you can see? This week, Erica and Shelby get vulnerable about dating, the journey of building a brand and/or business, and much more. Inside this episode, we discuss: Dating & Relationships: Are you protecting your peace, or are you just unavailable? We discuss how to identify if you're operating from high standards or emotional armor. Th...

This week, Erica and Shelby get real about the "busy seasons" of life.  In this episode, we discuss: Dating & Relationships: Strategies for maintaining romantic and platonic relationships when you’re navigating difficult and busy seasons. The Journey: After 10+ years in the workforce, we share the lessons we learned the "hard way" Mentor Moment: We tackle a tough listener d...

In the season finale episode, Shelby and Erica kick off the episode by sharing a random act of kindness they've experienced. In this episode, we discuss: High standards vs. Unrealistic expectations How to become more discoverable and find your unique voice for your brand and/or business Navigating difficult situations Words of Encouragement from Proverbs 16:3 If you have a question that you wa...

Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode by sharing one piece of advice their moms have given them that has always stuck with them. In this episode, they discuss: The impact of dating apps and social media in navigating the dating scene Unique challenges and triumphs their brand has experienced Maintaining a sense of individuality when in a long-term relatinship Words of encouragement fro...

Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode with a heart of gratitude. This week's episode discusses: Navigating dating and healing Building meaningful relationships through networking Knowing when to take a leap of faith vs. staying put Words of encouragement from Luke 1:45 If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email at allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in ou...

Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode by sharing their favorite things. This week's episode dives into: When to introduce your new boo to family and friends Navigating professional burnout Navigating new and current friendships Words of encouragement from Romans 12: 6-8 If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email at allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in o...

Erica and Shelby kick off this week's episode by sharing what lessons life is teaching them right now. This week's episode dives into: The feelings and reality around being in a "waiting season" Building an authentic brand story for your brand/organization Navigating a rough patch when dating someone new Words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:9 If you have a question that you want us to answer, s...

Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode by sharing whether they'd choose the same degree/path as they did originally. In this episode, they discuss: Top 3 non-negotiables How to navigate being multi-passionate First date questions to ask when getting to know someone new Words of encouragement from Psalms 23:1 If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email at allt...

This week, Erica and Shelby kick the episode off by sharing the importance of celebrating your wins, big or small. In this episode, we talk about: Unlearning Surval Mode: How to remain soft, open, and emotionally available without compromising your standards or peace How to balance creativity, business, and the creative process When and if you should spin the block for an ex Words of encouragement...

Shelby and Erica kick off a new season by checking in and sharing what they've been up to and what's to come. In this episode, we talk about: How to maintain romantic and/or platonic relationships when life gets busy All Things Melanin turning 8, our favorite memories, and what we're looking forward to Sharing perspective on what to do when you're feeling "blah" and at a...

In the season finale episode, Shelby and Erica discuss the importance of self-love and setting the bar high, important skills we've learned along our journey, and how to make new friends in a new city. Words of faith from Isaiah 26:3. Submit your questions for mentor moment via email at allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or IG @allthingsmelanin__. Stay Connected! Website Instagram YouTube Threads Fa...

Shelby and Erica discuss friendship breakups and their impact, the importance of dreaming, and how to go about finding your purpose. Words of faith from Psalm 23:1 .To submit questions for mentor moment, email ⁠allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com⁠ or slide in our IG DMs @allthingsmelanin__ Stay Connected! Instagram YouTube Website Threads Facebook Connect with Erica Connect with Shelby