Raising Daughters

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes the value of kids having the autonomy to choose their activities, engage in free play with some degree of risk, and teaching them to ask questions about why they love certain activities in order to discover what they love, what puts them in flow, and what fulfills them. Uncertain times require personal responsibility, independence of thought, self-initiati...

In this podcast, Dr. Jordan uses some real-life stories to illustrate how to turn kid’s schoolwork over to them and the immense value in doing so. You’ll hear about motivation, the value of frustration and adversity, and the growth kids achieve when they are allowed to take responsibility for their education and lives. Previous related podcasts from Dr. Jordan : 5 Ways That Parents Mess Up Their C...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews Dr. Kenneth Barish about his new book, The Art and Science of Parenting and Grandparenting. Learn about the special gifts grandparents bring such as time to listen, following their lead, supporting their imaginations, and sharing stories about children’s parents and grandparents. Related Resources : You can find the resources provided by Dr. Barish at www...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan offers invaluable suggestions about how to best support your daughters and their friendship challenges. You CAN learn to be there for them without resorting to fixing & rescuing. Resources : Dr. Jordan’s previous related podcasts: The secret to lasting, deep friendships : Dr. Jordan’s interview with Barnet Bain, author of the new book: How to be a friend Mr. Rog...

Description : In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan offers some key questions to ask kids about what activities puts them in flow and how this can lead them to finding their passion and purpose. Related podcasts from Dr. Jordan: When will it be enough? Refocusing Teenagers On What’s Really Important Thank you for listening to my podcast.  Please join our community on our social media platforms and share...

In this new episode, Dr. Jordan describes the need to involve your daughter in decisions about her activities and to be open to her experiencing a range of activities to help her discover what she really loves and what fulfills her. Teach her about concepts like flow and grit and the importance of knowing yourself before you can know your purpose and life’s work. Previous related Dr. Jordan podcas...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes some of the limiting beliefs that girl’s develop after adversities and how it limits their development and confidence. Also learn what parents can do to help girls reframe/reform these beliefs after experiencing adversities so that they learn and grow from them instead. Limiting beliefs : “I am responsible for how other people feel” and “I must never disap...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews author Becca Pearce and her daughter Elaina about how a life-changing brain tumor woke her up to what’s really important in life. Becca shifted from a high-powered CEO to an executive coach, author, speaker, and a more self-aware mom and person. You can find Becca Pearce’s book, You don’t have to achieve to be loved , as well as info on her work at www.mo...

Dr. Jordan describes how the perfect antidote for busy, stressed out kids is to slow down and savor the moments. Listen in as he offers many examples of how to notice and experience the calming, grounding effects of being fully present and mindful. Related resources offered by Dr. Jordan : Book: Keeping Your Family Grounded When You’re Flying By the Seat of Your Pants, revised and updated edition...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews author Dr. Dale Atkins, author of the new children’s book, The Turquoise Butterfly, about ways to help kids understand and handle feelings of loss and grief and how to slow down & savor the moments to create lasting memories. Resources : Dr. Dale Atkins website for info on her books: www.drdaleatkins.com   Dr. Dale Atkins is a licensed psychologist, e...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews 3 teen girls who discuss the intense stress they feel due to an overemphasis on grades and playing on uber-competitive club sports teams, gaining admittance into top colleges, discouragement from feeling behind their peers, and being pushed to know their career path and whole life story too early. They describe what they most need from their parents about...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews Rebecca Atanassova and Alissa Hansen, author and illustrator of the new children’s book: George the Mouse in a Log Pile House, about the support they received growing up that encouraged their artistic passion. Also discussed are the important life lessons found in the story about inclusion, acceptance of those who are different than us, making room for ev...

Leadership in girls does not always look loud, dominant, or competitive. It can manifest as empathy, courage, cooperation, independent thinking, and a willingness to stand up for others. In this episode, Dr. Tim Jordan explains the qualities parents should notice and encourage as their daughters develop into confident and responsible leaders. You will learn: Why empathy is an important leadership...

Competition can motivate children, but constantly comparing grades, trophies, achievements, and popularity may create stress, anxiety, disconnection, and fear of failure. In this episode, Dr. Tim Jordan explores what children may lose when competition receives more attention than cooperation, community, and meaningful connection. Using examples from aspen and redwood trees, penguins, honey bees, a...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan used 3 metaphors to illustrate the value of allowing children to take care of themselves, solve problems, and advocate. This is one of the best things parents can do to support their kids development of grit, perseverance, confidence, and self-efficacy, preparing them to thrive.  Previous Dr. Jordan’s related podcasts : How Kids Grow From Adversities Letting Go of Y...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan stresses the importance of your daughter having a belief that she matters, is important, and loved as this belief will fuel her persistence, determination, courage, and her path. Learn things you can do at home to help her develop a strong belief that she matters. Previous related podcasts from Dr. Jordan : The Most Important Factor In Girls Gaining Confidence And R...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes the importance of focusing on what you do have control over vs. getting flustered with things you don’t. Learn about how to help regulate kids when they are losing it and how to practice preventative & regular self-care. Previous related podcasts from Dr. Jordan : Stressed Out Teen Girls Need to Refuel: Here’s How : good ideas for teens but also parent...

In this podcast, Blue’s Clues & Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood creator Angela Santomero discusses her writing & creative process in producing educational children’s TV and YouTube programming. She also discusses the educational value of her new book series, Penelope’s Purse, as well as her master’s class for children’s storytellers. Previous interview with Angela Santomero : Blue’s Clues Crea...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes the costs to kids from experiencing a decrease in free play and time outdoors. He also discusses the many benefits of kids experiencing: self-directed play, chances to handle their own conflicts and problems, play with some degree of physical risk, and having the freedom to choose and direct their activities and do them for their own sake vs. for trophies...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan interviews Nic McKinley, an expert in the prevention of child trafficking, about what parents and the government can do to prevent their children from becoming prey to online predators.  He is a military special operator, a CIA operative and known as the "Real Jack Ryan". Related resources:  www.nicmckinley.com   Nic McKinley’s website with info about the first dono...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan makes the argument that your daughter wants and needs you to remain an influence in her life now and forever, and he offers many ideas about how to remain close and an influence into adulthood. Key points : Dr. Jordan describes the phenomenon of Touch Points and its impact on your daughters moods and emotions; He also discusses the necessity of parents not reacting...

 In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes reasons why your daughter may not be motivated in school and then offers several tools to help her find her intrinsic motivation and become more engaged and fulfilled with her education. Key points : The better question to ask is: How can I support my daughter to find her own, intrinsic motivation in school? Kids become more engaged in school and any acti...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes the emotional roller coaster experienced by today’s middle school girls. Learn about girl’s emotional overload symptoms, the cost of having so little alone, quiet, down time, and how to provide safe spaces for girls to openly share, reflect, and become more inwardly focused. Previous related podcasts by Dr. Jordan: Middle School Girls Share About Friend Dr...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan implores us to change what we pay attention to, i.e. wars, conflicts, competition, and power and to instead focus on values like cooperation and connection. Humans are wired to connect and collaborate, so we just need to change what we value and emphasize. For more information on all of the resources offered by Dr. Jordan, go to his website at www.drtimjordan.com Pr...

In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan describes social skills most girls are lacking today due to excessive time spent digitally and how to teach these skills at home and at school. Previous Dr. Jordan related podcasts: Why have our teenagers become so socially awkward? Covid’s lingering social and academic effects on teenagers   Good books on this topic: Turkle, Sherry. Reclaiming Conversation Turkle,...