When Split Happens

Military retirement benefits are often one of the most valuable assets in a military divorce, and dividing them involves both Florida family law and federal regulations. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains how military pensions are treated during divorce and why these cases require careful planning. Jay discusses how Florida's equitabl...

Military divorce follows many of the same rules as a traditional Florida divorce, but federal laws can create additional challenges involving jurisdiction, deployment, retirement benefits, and military-specific protections. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains the key differences between military and civilian divorce cases. Jay discusse...

In some Florida custody cases, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to investigate and provide recommendations focused on a child’s best interests. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains what a Guardian ad Litem does, when one may be appointed, and how the process can affect a custody case. Jay discusses the role of a GAL in hi...

A parenting plan is one of the most important parts of any Florida custody case—and vague schedules can lead to years of conflict. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains how detailed a Florida timesharing schedule should be and why specificity matters. Jay discusses the key components of a strong parenting plan, including weekly schedules...

If you’re considering divorce in Jacksonville, one of the first questions is: where do you actually file your case? In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains how filing works in Duval County and what you need to know to get started correctly. Jay breaks down how divorce cases are handled through the Fourth Judicial Circuit Court of Florida ,...

Many people starting a divorce or custody case in Florida ask the same question: Do I really need a lawyer, or can I handle this myself? In this episode of When Split Happens , Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains when a do-it-yourself approach may work—and when hiring an attorney is the smarter choice. Jay outlines the limited situations wher...

In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains what it actually means to be a board-certified marital and family law attorney in Florida . Jay walks through the exact standards set by The Florida Bar , including the required years of practice, documented case experience, specialty continuing legal education, the written certification exam, and th...

Filing for divorce in Florida requires more than just submitting a single form. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains the key documents required to start a divorce case and why getting the paperwork right from the beginning can prevent delays and complications. Jay walks through the core forms used to ope...

Relocation after divorce is one of the most misunderstood areas of Florida family law. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite , a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite , explains how Florida courts handle relocation cases and what parents must do before moving with a child. Jay breaks down what legally qualifies as relocation under Florida law, when...

Divorce involving military service raises unique legal issues under both Florida and federal law. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite , a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite , explains what service members and military spouses need to know before filing for divorce in Florida. This episode covers how jurisdiction and residency apply to active-du...

Unmarried fathers in Florida often feel unsure about where they stand legally—especially when it comes to custody, time-sharing, and decision-making for their children. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite , a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite , breaks down what rights unmarried fathers do—and do not—have under Florida law. Jay explains why fat...

In this episode of When Split Happens , Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite answers a question that surprises many couples: Do you have to be legally separated before filing for divorce in Florida? The short answer is no—but Florida’s divorce laws have important rules every spouse should understand before filing. Jay explains why Florida does not reco...

In this episode of When Split Happens , Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down when and how child support can be modified under Florida Statute 61.14 . Learn what counts as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances, how courts recalculate support, and why timing matters more than most parents realize. Jay covers: How i...

In this episode of When Split Happens , attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in Florida family law — the belief that mothers automatically get custody. Jay explains how Florida’s custody laws are gender-neutral, how courts apply the “best interests of the child” standard, and why both parents start on equal footing. You’ll learn w...

What really matters in a Florida family courtroom? It’s not about defeating the other parent—it’s about creating stability for your children. In this episode of When Split Happens , Jay Henderlite of Sasso, Guerrero & Henderlite explains how Florida family law judges decide custody and time-sharing cases based on the best interests of the child. Learn what “stability” means in Florida custody...

Are prenups just for the wealthy or a sign of distrust? In Episode 3 of " When Split Happens ," Jacksonville’s board-certified family law attorney Jay Henderlite debunks prenup myths, revealing how prenuptial agreements foster trust and fairness under Florida law. Learn how prenups clarify asset division, protect businesses or inheritances, and simplify divorce, while understanding what they can’t...

When can a child choose their parent in Florida custody cases? On " When Split Happens ," Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite answers this in Episode 2. Debunking myths about age-based choice, Jay explains how Florida courts prioritize a child’s best interests over ages like 12 or 16. Learn how judges assess a child’s maturity, why private discussions shield kids from conflict, and wha...

Start the school year right with " When Split Happens ," your guide to navigating divorce and family law. In this premiere episode, host Jay Henderlite, a dedicated family law attorney at Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite in Jacksonville, Florida, shares expert co-parenting tips for the back-to-school season. Using a simple framework—rules, routines, and relationships—Jay explains how to minimize st...