When In White

Motherhood hits differently when you’re also running a business. In this episode, we get honest about what it actually looks like behind the scenes. Maddie shares how she time blocks her business around her kids and what that really requires mentally. I open up about the quiet loneliness that can come when your friends don’t fully understand the season you’re in. We’re talking boundaries. Identity...

The debate continues. In Part 2, we respond directly to each other’s arguments about trying wedding vendors ahead of time. Is it a smart, intentional move — or an unnecessary expense? We dig into: Budget realities Trusting experience vs. testing it When trials actually make sense And what couples should prioritize most We end with our final closing statements — and you might be surprised where we...

Should you test your wedding vendors before the big day — or trust the portfolio and move forward? In this episode, we kick off a structured debate on whether couples should try out photographers, videographers, hair, and makeup artists ahead of time. We each present our opening statements and core arguments, breaking down: Experience vs. aesthetic Energy and personality compatibility Protecting y...

One of the most common fears couples carry into wedding planning is quiet but heavy: “What if I regret my choices?” In this episode, we zoom out — not based on trends or predictions, but on  five years of witnessing real weddings and real marriages unfold . We talk about what couples  think  they’ll care about years later… and what actually stays with them long after the day is over. We unpack why...

Booking season is exciting… and overwhelming.  In this episode, we share  five good things and five hard things about booking season  from a photographer’s perspective, plus what brides should know to navigate it with more clarity and less stress. We talk about inquiry details, timelines, boundaries, ghosting, and why intentional booking leads to a better wedding experience. If you’re engaged or a...

Micro weddings are officially  having a moment —and no, it’s not because couples are giving up on their dream day. In this episode, we’re unpacking why micro weddings are popping off in 2026: the economy, shifting priorities, and a collective “we’re done doing things just to impress people” mindset. Fewer guests, lower costs, and way less pressure—without sacrificing beauty, intention, or magic. W...

In this episode, we’re breaking down what it  really  looks like to exceed your 2026 goals—without the pressure to overhaul your entire life overnight. We talk honestly about: Eating to your macros in a way that’s sustainable (not restrictive) Setting movement goals that support your energy instead of draining it Keeping business goals light, intentional, and aligned And the question that kept com...

Snuggle in with us as we dive into a cozy round of Christmas Would-You-Rather questions—rooted in nostalgia, family traditions, and the little moments that make this season feel like magic. Grab your cocoa and join the conversation as we explore the rituals, movies, and memories we hold closest to our hearts.

Let’s make astrology feel less confusing and more relatable. We're unpacking our Big 3 — Sun, Rising, and Moon — and what they reveal about how we show up, love, feel, and create. From emotional depth to bold presence and visionary energy, this episode is a gentle invitation to understand your own cosmic blueprint with more compassion.

Why do we feel the need to justify our no unless it sounds “serious enough”? In this episode, we explore the psychology behind guilt, people-pleasing, and the invisible pressure to prioritize work over life. From family plans to client boundaries, we unpack what it means to choose joy without apology — and how healing it can be to let your no stand on its own.

We’re diving into the hottest of hot takes in the wedding world — the ones we usually save for vendor-only group chats. Whether it’s the awkwardness of being seated with guests, the reality behind “luxury” budgets, or the rise of content creators, nothing is off-limits. If you’re ready for honesty with a little heat, this one’s for you.

This week we’re diving into a big vendor question: would you rather be ghosted or told your client booked a competitor? Spoiler… we’ll take the honest breakup every single time. We talk about why transparency feels respectful, how it gives us closure, and why hearing “we found our dream vendor” actually makes our jobs easier. If you’ve ever been tempted to ghost a vendor inquiry, this one’s for yo...

We’re diving headfirst into the magic of the holidays — from mischievous elves and handwritten letters from Santa to slowing down for the moments that really matter. We swap stories about our favorite childhood memories (yes, including the year the Bratz dolls showed up in a perfect lineup from Santa) and how we’re keeping that wonder alive today.

Before you panic-Google  “how to plan a wedding”  — take a breath. Let’s talk about what’s actually trending for 2026–2027 (spoiler: fall is stealing the show), how to know whether you’re meant for an elopement, micro wedding, or the full celebration,  and  the real answer to who you should book first. Hint: it’s whoever you’re most excited to work with — not whoever tradition says.

Ever wondered what your wedding vendors are like when they’re not talking timelines and first looks? In this episode, we ask each other 5 off-the-wall questions—like which fictional world we’d jump into or what our “target toxic trait” might be. Laugh with us, get to know us, and see the fun side of wedding planning pros. ✨ Keep the fun going—follow us on Instagram  @wheninwhitepodcast .

Being a bride with a bestie in the wedding industry sounds like a dream—built-in hype woman, expert advice, and maybe even a sweet deal. But what’s it  really  like? In this episode, we break down the do’s and don’ts of mixing friendship with business, how to support your vendor BFF without overstepping, and the things your wedding-vendor-bestie secretly wishes you knew. Spoiler: it’s all about bo...

What happens when a wedding dress mishap sparks a TikTok frenzy? In this episode, we dive into hilarious (and jaw-dropping) stories from couples and guests who shared the WORST things that happened at their weddings. From wardrobe fails to wild MIL behavior, we’re laughing our way through it all—and wrapping up with a reminder that even when things go wrong, love wins every time. Grab a glass of w...

We’re diving deep into  The Summer I Turned Pretty —covering Belly and Jeremiah’s almost-wedding, the tangled psychology behind the characters, and our bold predictions for the rest of the season. Grab your iced coffee, because this episode is full of hot takes and heartfelt analysis. 💌 Don’t forget to message us with your thoughts and theories—we might just share them in our next episode!

Styled shoots are everywhere—from Instagram to wedding blogs—but what do they really mean for brides and vendors? In this episode, we break down how styled shoots shape portfolios, the red flags to watch out for when vetting a photographer, and why some setups you see online just aren’t realistic for an actual wedding day. We also share vendor experiences—the good, the bad, and the “get out now” m...

From Pinterest-perfect moodboards to being the “ideal” parent, perfectionism sneaks into every corner of our lives. Maddie drops the truth:  “You’re never seeing perfection because your standards are always getting higher.”  We unpack the pressure to measure up, how those ever-climbing expectations hold us back, and why embracing the messy middle might just be the most freeing thing you do. Join t...

Whether you’re working with a mega influencer or your cousin’s brand-new page, social media wields more influence than you think. We dive into why you should  always  put agreements in writing—no matter the follower count—and how contracts protect your creativity, time, and sanity. Follow us on Instagram  @wheninwhitepodcast  for more behind-the-scenes and conversation starters you won’t hear anyw...

Whether you’re a wedding vendor drowning in emails or a bride staring at a blank Pinterest board—this episode is your lifeline. We’re breaking down all the  actually useful  ways ChatGPT can save you time, spark creativity, and help you show up like the pro (or the planner) you were meant to be. From writing emails to crafting timelines to dreaming up vows—it’s like having a virtual assistant who ...

Let’s get real. In this spicy episode, we’re diving headfirst into the hot take that has the wedding industry  shaking : is your client experience bad because you're overwhelmed… or because you're just not being a good human? We’re kicking off a new series on what it means to  actually  be a better vendor—no fluff, no excuses. Just real talk, accountability, and some hard truths we all nee...

Let’s be real—being a mom is beautiful, but it’s also  a lot.  The messes, the meltdowns, the endless questions (and snacks). In this episode, we’re talking about the power of the pause—the breath you take before reacting, the space you give yourself to be human, and how to practice patience when your nerves are frayed. Whether you’re in the thick of toddlerhood or juggling big kid emotions, this...

Choosing the right wedding vendors can make or break your experience—and we’re not just talking about the photos and hair. In this episode, we’re diving into the  red flags  you need to look out for, whether you're a bride, couple, or vendor yourself. From ghosting communication to sketchy social media presence, we’re covering why stalking (yes, stalking!) your vendors online is smart, how to...