What Did I Say?

In episode 27, "Adults with ADHD Parenting Kids with ADHD," host, Dan Rothenberg interviews Justin Gillespie, a therapist and owner of a center for people with ADHD in Plymouth, Michigan. They delve into the challenges and experiences of adults with ADHD who parent children with the same condition. Gillespie emphasizes the importance of parental involvement in therapy and the necessity o...

In Episode 26 of our podcast, we welcome guest Coach Steve Anderson, a dedicated father coach who's passionate about helping fathers be the best they can be. Steve shares his experiences and insights on fatherhood, discussing the challenges fathers face and the importance of being present and understanding for your children. He talks about the balance of guiding and advising, while also provid...

In Episode 25 of "What Did I Say?" hosted by Dan Rothenberg, presenting the second part of a three-part parenting seminar titled "Do's and Don'ts". With over a decade's experience working with teenagers and young adults, Dan shares his insights on parenting techniques that promote a healthier family dynamic. He encourages the use of logical, short-term consequences...

In this episode of "What Did I Say?", host Dan Rothenberg delves into the first part of a three-part parenting seminar titled "Values Vs. Emotions". As a therapist who works with teenagers and young adults, Dan discusses the impact of parental interactions on kids and the reciprocal relationship between parental actions and the anxiety experienced by both parents and children....

In this episode of "What Did I Say?" with Dan Rothenberg, the focus is on the college admissions essay. Dan is joined by guest Ben Urwand, an expert in college essays. They discuss the challenges students face when writing this important essay and provide valuable insights and advice. Ben emphasizes the importance of authenticity and individuality in college essays. He highlights the mis...

In this episode of "What Did I Say?" with host Dan Rothenberg, join us as we dive into the crucial topic of advocating for our kids at school. Our special guest, Scotti Weintraub, the founder of Reframe Parenting, shares her personal journey and the inspiration behind her mission to help parents navigate the challenges they face when their children are struggling in school. Scotti opens...

In this episode, guest Mel Berwin discusses the concept of radical acceptance in parenting. She shares personal experiences and insights on how accepting the reality of our children's challenges can lead to more productive conversations and effective problem-solving. Tune in to learn how embracing radical acceptance can positively impact our relationships with our children and support their gr...

In this thought-provoking episode of our podcast, we delve into the significance of cultivating resiliency in ourselves and our children. Join us as we explore practical strategies for navigating through uncomfortable emotions, resolving conflicts, and fostering emotional strength. Discover the power of role modeling and its profound impact on shaping our children's ability to overcome challen...

In this episode, host Dan Rothenberg dives into the topic of resiliency and how it impacts the success of children. As a therapist and resiliency coach, Dan shares his expertise on how to help children and teens increase their resiliency in various aspects of life. He discusses the importance of role modeling and fostering individual values in children, as well as the significance of emotional and...

In this episode of “What Did I Say?” with host Dan Rothenberg, guest Jessica Villegas, a coach for teenagers and young adults, discusses the importance of coaching in this age group. She emphasizes the significance of understanding one’s values and how it can lead to success in life. Jessica also shares her expertise on parenting, the challenges of adolescence, and how coaching can be a valuable t...

In this episode, Amber Liechty, LPC discusses the importance of teaching consent to children from a young age. She explains that children who understand the concept of consent are more likely to have healthier relationships and to be better equipped to navigate sexual situations as they grow older. Liechty stresses the need for parents to actively model healthy relationship behaviors and respect f...

 In episode 17, guest Brad Baldridge discusses budgeting and paying for college. He explains the importance of early stage planning and late stage planning, and how families can navigate financial planning for college. Brad offers tips on how to find scholarships, negotiate with schools, and pick the right schools for your child. He also talks about the changing system of need-based aid and FAFSA,...

In this episode, Dan talks to Lonnie Woodley and Rosie Napoli. Lonnie is a therapist, former school psychologist and principal (also the father of actor Shailene Woodley but we didn’t really get into that our of respect for her privacy). Rosie Napoli is also a parent, former therapist and social worker. Dan, Lonnie and Rosie explore how parenting is a permanent job that is constantly changing depe...

In this episode, Dan shares his golf metaphor for parenting and how it can help kids aim for success. He reminds us that just like in golf, we don't always have to know exactly where the pin is, and it's okay for our kids to start by heading in the general direction of their goals. As parents, our role is to help our kids grow qualities like practice, patience, and determination, and the r...

📢 Parenting Tip Alert! 📢 Looking for ways to handle your child's behavior? Check out this great tip from Denise, a seasoned parent. She suggests focusing on natural and logical consequences and teaching your children how their behavior affects others and their relationships. Remember, your children are people too and should be treated with respect. Help them develop into thinking adults who...

In this episode of ‘What Did I Say?’ Dan uses a relatable football metaphor to discuss the importance of teamwork in parenting. He emphasizes that success is not possible without a plan that everyone has bought into.  Join Dan in this insightful episode for more parenting tips and tricks that are sure to help you tackle the challenges of parenting with ease.

Dan and comedian Alicia Dattner discuss dating and love addiction as depicted in her hilarious solo show “The Oy of Sex.” Dattner discusses her search for self-esteem through dating and kissing boys and her recovery to self-love. Dan and Dattner also discuss childhood experiences that effect our ability to advocate for ourselves during adolescence and adulthood. Dan ends the show by identifying th...

Dan and guest Karen Kopulos (aka. KK) dive right into a conversation/education about what parents can learn about pronouns and inclusion in order to better connect with their teens and young adults. KK explains how many Gen Z and Millennials have gained an understanding of gender and sex that is more expansive than what we grew up with and how we (parents) can help bridge that gap with education....

Dan opens the show with his guest, Richard Halpern who is a parent coach and former school counselor in Oregon and Washington. Dan and Richard dive into a conversation about divorce/separation including helpful tips for parents that are currently going through separation. Richard also explains the effect that divorce, and separation has on youth of all ages. Richard discusses how to “turn lemons i...

Dan opens the show with Amber Liechty where they begin their discussion about the effects of porn on teenagers and in general. Amber illuminates on related issues such as how to discuss sex with our children, role modeling affection with our partners and consent. Amber is truly gifted at articulating and educating us on these challenging topics. Dan felt hopeful at the conclusion of this discussio...

Dan opens the show by discussing his new practice OneYou Coaching. Dan explains the difference between coaching and therapy to help you, parents, to find the right professional to help your child thrive. Dan then has a conversation with the founder of Youth Coaching Institute, Dr. Leah Mazzola. Dr. Leah is one of the leaders in the field of youth coaching. She lends us her expertise on how to set...

Dan opens the show on camera for the first time since What Did I Say expanded to YouTube. Dan gets right to the interview with Michael The Chairman, podcaster, youtuber and standup comedian. Michael has been disabled and bound to a wheelchair since he was born. Michael and Dan discuss meeting challenges with humor and Michael expands on his experiences with bullying and gaming when he was in high...

Dan begins the show answering a question from a viewer about how to react to your adult children when they bring up unresolved issues from the past. Dan then interviews Valerie Edwards, a dietician from the Portland, OR area that specializes in teenagers. Valerie enlightens us about how to facilitate a healthy food culture in the home and the potential harm to a “diet culture.” Valeria also discus...

Dan begins the show with a quick story about how to model integrity for our children. Dan then interviews therapist, Amber Henin, who shares her expertise about ADHD from a professional and personal perspective. Amber runs groups for youth and adults in the Portland, OR area and explains how we can reframe ADHD from a disorder to a strength that society and has difficulty understanding and support...

Dan opens the show about family vacations and how we as parents sometimes squeeze the fun out it them with unrealistic expectations. Dan then interviews his friend and comedian, Dan Gabriel, who talks about the “cult of Los Angeles Baseball.” Dan Gabriel enlightens us on how to raise a child in competitive athletics without squeezing the fun out of that. Dan shares his secrets about how to foster...