We Just Got Here

This week's Reddit Realness went somewhere we genuinely were not prepared for 😭🎙️ He loves his brother. Genuinely, deeply loves his brother. They are close. They are family. 💕 He also loves his brother's wife. Not a crush. Not admiration. Love. Real, consuming, impossible love.  And he has absolutely no idea what to do with that. 💀 Does he say something and destroy everything? Does he say nothi...

Episode 119 is here with the usual chaos 😭🎙️ We're starting with food intolerances, getting into the wins of the week and then going straight to the brokest things we have ever done in our lives 💀 And yes. The broke lover girl era gets its full moment. 😭 Then there's the Reddit post. She slept with someone 7 years ago. She just found out it was her boss' husband. She still works the...

This week's Reddit Realness got really interested…  She works 60+ hours a week, has an 8 month old baby and has done everything right. He's ballooned to over 400lbs, hasn't seen a doctor once in 6 years despite her begging, lost his job and falls asleep at the wheel 💀 She still loves him. But she can't stand to be near him anymore. And the guilt of feeling that way is eating her alive 😭 She's no...

Episode 117 is here and we came with EVERYTHING 😭🎙️ A hike that went completely wrong, a casualty that nobody can say they didn't see coming, Gunna's run club and the gate that nobody asked for but everybody has thoughts about 💀 Then the boring vs interesting women conversation that we genuinely could not stop having 👀 And then. The Reddit dilemma. A woman gets engaged. Her future mother in law...

This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most unhinged and heartbreaking ones we've ever covered 😭🎙️ She met him at a conference. He was charming, charismatic, easy to talk to. Within weeks they were dating. Within months she was in what felt like the best relationship of her life 💕 He understood her demanding career. He never pushed to move in. Everything worked perfectly. For 18 months. And t...

Episode 115 is here and we did not come to play 😭🎙️ From a bush meat scandal in Dalston that we are still not over, to the conversation about eating ass that started casually and went further than anyone planned 💀 Then there's our wildest fantasies 👀 (some wilder than others, we'll let you decide) And then the Reddit post that had us fully invested — she's catching feelings for him, everything...

This week's Reddit Realness hit different 😭🎙️ A Black woman living abroad finally found someone who felt like home in a foreign country. A man who shared her background, her culture, her world. And then she watched him flirt with another woman. Right in front of her. Repeatedly. Gleefully. 💀  When she confronted him he laughed it off. When she went through his phone she found exactly what he...

This week the girls are getting into the Ls, the Ws, the vents AND the things we should have never — not even for one second — accepted in our lives 💀 Because apparently we have ALL stayed somewhere we had absolutely no business being 😭 And then we get a jaw-dropping dilemma from a fellow got here baby that you do not want to miss! 👀 📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro 1:00 – Steph & Tia's Ls &...

Two Reddit dilemmas. Zero chill. Absolutely no holding back from Steph & Tia 😭🎙️ This week on Reddit Realness : 💔 Dilemma 1: She's been with her partner for 3 years. She has major surgery coming up in 10 days. He breaks up with her… via letter. Is she overreacting or is this genuinely one of the worst things a partner can do? 👀 😈 Dilemma 2: He cheated on his girlfriend. Then karma came for...

Episode 111 is giving EVERYTHING and we are not holding back 😭🎙️  This week Steph & Tia are back on their nonsense — from gym couple drama, to the very real pressure of marriage and kids, to the Reddit reader whose relationship started crumbling the second she moved in with her boyfriend 💀 Plus… are we really out here EATING our skincare? We need to talk 👀  📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro / Gym...

Episode 110 is HERE and we are NOT holding back 😭🎙️ This week Steph & Tia are back with another chaotic, honest and hilarious episode covering EVERYTHING — from the week's biggest Ls and Ws, to the countries we'd actually pack up and move to, to the thrush chat nobody asked for but everybody needed 👀 📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro 01:40 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week + Countries...

In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma. A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted. Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even ask...

Episode 108 of the We Just Got Here Podcast is messy in the BEST way. Steph & Tia start with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into absolute chaos — from fighting for justice for Punch the monkey to unpacking the very real problem of dusty monkey baby dads 🥴 Things only get wilder as the girls rank the ultimate “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs (some of these are genuinely dangerous), fo...

In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a confession that left us speechless. A man matches with a woman on Tinder, falls hard, and genuinely believes he’s found something real. No red flags. No suspicious behaviour. No profile picture. No visits to her place. Until one night… they run into her husband. He claims he had absolutely no idea she was married with two kids, an...

Welcome back to Episode 107 of We Just Got Here Podcast 💛 This week gets REAL. We start with life updates and Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week before diving into a heated conversation about polyamorous vs monogamous relationships… and whether Nick Cannon’s “colony” lifestyle is chaos or clarity 👀 Then in Reddit Realness, we react to a jaw-dropping dilemma: A woman’s husband cheats on he...

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a heartbreaking dilemma about love, betrayal, and the moment everything falls apart 💔 A listener shares how, after a beautiful first Valentine’s together, she checked her boyfriend’s phone, only to discover he had been using Grindr since the very beginning of their relationship. He insists he never physically cheated. He says it “meant nothing....

Episode 105 of We Just Got Here Podcast was supposed to be a short Patreon bonus episode… but due to a family emergency, we weren’t able to record our usual show this week. We still wanted to give you your Thursday dose to get you through the rest of the week, so this one is a little more raw, a little more honest, and very much unfiltered. Expect banter, dark humour, and chaotic tangents as we ge...

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia read a dilemma that proves the grass is not always greener… sometimes it’s just AstroTurf 😭💀 A listener writes in after leaving her husband for another man who convinced her she “deserved better,” promised the world, and had her mentally picking out kitchen appliances and baby names. Fast forward a few months and… the man has vanished, the future has...

Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀 Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal). The girls also get into: The internet’s obsession with vabbing Why the dating scene feels completely cooked The rise...

In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳 A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm. Things get even more awkward when he...

Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔 Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question: Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become? The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dyna...

The girls return with a new weekly bonus episode for an extra dose of chaos and laughs exclusively on Patreon

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a devastating dilemma 💔 A listener writes in after discovering that during the early years of her relationship, her partner was secretly sleeping with another woman,  sometimes on the same day she’d just left his place. When she confronted him back then, he denied everything… only for her to later find the messages, photos, and proof still save...

Episode 100 of We Just Got Here Podcast is pure chaos 😭💀 Steph & Tia kick off the milestone episode asking the important question: what would you actually do if you were in a horror movie? Before diving into their Ls & Wins of the Week. We read out the worst text messages people have ever received, share some of the most unhinged messages we’ve personally been sent, and then hit peak Red...

In this week’s Reddit Realness Minisode, Steph & Tia react to a shocking dilemma about a woman whose fiancée became obsessed with getting “revenge” on a childhood bully...and completely destroyed her own life in the process. What started as unresolved school trauma spiralled into stalking, harassment, police involvement, job loss, and criminal charges. Now the listener is questioning everythin...