Untangling Relationships

In this episode of 'Untangling Relationships,' hosted by Janae and Penney, the discussion centers around caretaking, part two of a three-part series on caretaking versus caregiving. Key topics include recognizing caretaking behaviors in oneself and others, understanding the motivations and consequences of caretaking, and the impact of blurred boundaries on relationships. The hosts also del...

In this episode, Penney and Janae give an introduction to Caretaking and Caregiving in relationships. They explore how these dynamics can lead to conflict and how to recognize what role you might be playing in these relationship dynamics. Brene Brown -Sympathy vs. empathy youtube video https://youtu.be/KZBTYViDPlQ?si=P_Id2pggZOxpRxmL

Join Janae and Penney in this episode of 'Untangling Relationships' as they explore the importance of regular relationship check-ins. They discuss how over time, relationships can grow distant as daily demands and other responsibilities take precedence. This episode provides a detailed approach to conducting monthly relationship check-ins, focusing on maintaining intimacy and trust. Key to...

We are back from our summer break to talk about Attachment Styles. This episode breaks down the different attachment styles you may have and how they may be impacting your relationships. There is lots of self-reflection and introspection to dive into in this episode. Links mentioned: Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson

This episode explores personal vulnerabilities, the societal pressures of perfectionism, and the path towards more authentic self-perception and relationships. Links Imposter syndrome episode Brene Brown Empathy vs. Sympathy video Habits for Wellbeing website Boundaries and Core Values episode

We asked the AI overlords to summarize this episode, and here's what they said "In the bustling, diverse world of relationships, many couples find themselves striving for a semblance of perfection, embodying the calm and composed duck gliding on the water's surface while concealing the frantic paddling underneath. This phenomenon, known as "Floating Duck Syndrome," encapsula...

Embrace Your Own Healing Journey "Untangling Relationships" offers profound insights into the healing process, not just for trauma but for anyone navigating the complexities of emotional growth and relationship dynamics. Janae and Penney’s candid discussion sheds light on the importance of acknowledging the stages of healing, embracing the nonlinear nature of this journey, and continuall...

In this mini-episode, we discuss one of the first key components to successful communication- the antidotes to criticism and defensiveness. We explore the importance of positive need statements over criticism and the steps to take accountability and empathy to address defensiveness. We work through examples and encourage you to start applying these skills to various relationships for better commun...

We have been working with couples for the past 3 years- Here are our favorite tools we use and what we have learned so far. Join round 1 of the online course here ⁠https://www.hilltopwellness.net/coursesignup⁠ Use code ROUND1Friends for over 50% off the course. This episode talks about the development of relationship tools for our upcoming online course. We share insights on employing tools like p...

In this episode, we discuss the concept of an emotional bank account, originally coined by John and Julie Gottman. We explore how deposits, such as building trust and spending quality time, can strengthen relationships, while withdrawals, like ignoring, criticizing, and yelling, can erode trust. We emphasize the importance of trust and communication in all relationships, from romantic partnerships...

In the realm of relationships, trust and trustworthiness lay the foundation upon which intimacy and connection are built. Episode 29 of "Untangling Relationships," hosted by Janae and Penney, delves into these critical elements, providing listeners with a deep understanding of their meanings and implications within romantic and other relationships. Exploring Trust and Trustworthiness Tru...

Analyzing the intricacies of relationships portrayed in reality TV offers a unique perspective on human interactions. Despite the heightened drama and external pressures, the raw emotions and relational dynamics depicted serve as a mirror to our own experiences. As viewers, we are invited to reflect on our own communication styles, conflict resolution strategies, and the importance of empathy in n...

Unraveling the Knot: Uncovering the 6 Predictors of Divorce Through Reality TV It's often said that truth is stranger than fiction, but when it comes to understanding the complexities of relationships and the subtle nuances that predict divorce, reality TV might just provide some of the best real-life examples. In this episode, we'll break down some key insights and concepts as illustrated...

In Episode 26 of "Untangling Relationships," our hosts, Janae and Penney, bring to the table an insightful and open-ended conversation about body positivity and acceptance. They are joined by McKenzie, the creator of a local body acceptance community, Body Kind. This discussion underscores the significance of self-compassion, mindfulness, and inclusive spaces to promote body acceptance....

In episode 25 of 'Untangling Relationships', hosts Janae and Penney explore the relationship between movement, stress, and mental health. They exchange personal experiences with physical activities like yoga and CrossFit, highlighting the impacts on their physical and mental well-being. The conversation interrogates societal and personal expectations around physical wellness, the mental ob...

Ep. 24 New Year Resolutions and Reflections In this episode of 'Untangling Relationships', your hosts Janae and Penney reflect upon the past year and share their new year resolutions and career aspirations for 2024. They discuss their goals, emphasizing the importance of setting realistic, incremental goals, creating a supportive environment, planning for potential failures, and persisting...

Get ready for a deep dive into the world of relationship repairs in our latest podcast episode. No relationship is perfect, and conflict is inevitable - but it's the recovery that counts! Learn how to navigate the aftermath of a fight, join hosts Janae and Penney on this enlightening journey

Welcome to episode 22 where hosts, Janae and Penney, discuss the concept of mental load, the cognitive effort required to manage situations and complete tasks, with specific emphasis on the mental load associated with the holidays. Key points include how mental loads are assigned and the impact on individuals and their relationships. We suggest ways to share and manage the mental load to reduce st...

Today's episode starts with different holiday perspectives based on Google search trends tied to Thanksgiving in different states, from the types of food served to different ways people spend the holiday. We also discuss tips on handling the holiday better, including letting go of expectations, sharing chores, and avoiding the pressure of perfection, among others. This conversation touches on...

In this episode, Janae and Penney discuss the concept of creating a culture of appreciation. They emphasize its importance in personal and business relationships and discuss ways to cultivate it. They suggest mindfulness in recognizing others' good qualities, using positive language about one's body, and setting aside time to reflect on appreciations. The hosts also recommend formulating a...

This episode is all about blended or crockpot families, growing up in them, and/or parenting through them. Penney and Janae chat about their personal experiences and perspectives on blended families. They discuss tips and advice on the dos and don'ts in bringing two families together and creating space for everyone involved. Interested in working with us? Go here

Welcome to our last episode in this parenting mini-series. Today we are joined by all three of our parenting couples to talk to them about how their relationships have changed over the course of having their first child/ first pregnancy. Each of the parents gives insight on how to keep intimacy alive, ways to handle differences in parenting styles, and what they wish more people knew about raising...

Join us for a special guest episode with three dads who talk about their experiences of fatherhood so far. We dive into questions like "What is your favorite part of being a dad" to "How you are coping with all the changes fatherhood brings". Stay tuned for next week where we have both the moms and dads on together! CW: Miscarriage

Join us for a special conversation with a group of moms who are getting candid about their journeys. We dive into their biggest societal pet peeves, their top tips for other moms and parents, and some of their favorite memories from motherhood. These moms have wonderful perspectives to share and insights to learn from. We are so lucky to have them on the pod. I hope you enjoy this episode. CW: Inf...

This episode is a debrief from our women's retreat between Penney, Janae, and our guest Tina. We talk about the big takeaways we gained from the retreat and give tips on how to keep the momentum going after you have gone through a phase of transformation and change. Links mentioned: Bringing Baby Home Program Event Follow us on Social Media: Instagram Facebook