Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

Today's episode is all about beginnings, endings, and everything in-between. If you're at the very pinnacle of a relationship (i.e. - marriage), or the very start of a budding romance (i.e. - that amazing first date), the roadmap before you may not be as straightforward as you assume. Every relationship is a crazy choose-your-own-adventure, and today's stories capture that essence perfectly. Follo...

Today's episode is all about questioning both the big things and the small things in life. Whether it's a tongue-in-cheek inquiry into one's own mental state, or an impossibly difficult situation involving kids and their father, self-reflection and the seeking of advice from trustworthy people are two great steps to start you on your way. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow A...

While most of the general populace assumes that confidence is a rent/lease/sublet type of situation, they are sorely mistaken. Confidence is yours and only yours. It does not depend upon others, nor does it need anyone's permission to exist and thrive. The next time you're considering making a self-deprecating joke or about to mock an aspect of yourself, please, as a favor to us: hold that thought...

This week, we tackle two stories about facing a tough reality and figuring out how to move forward. In one, it's all about doing things for love. In the other, it's all about doing things for fun. In both instances, however, one has to confront extremely hard truths, accept the complexity of the situation, and devise a strategy in order to make a course correction for a healthy, happy future. Foll...

There are times in life when the old saying, "Judge not, lest ye be judged" is 100% appropriate and applicable. There are other times, however, when you have to take off your neutrality hat and judge the ever-loving heck out of someone because they've acted poorly and are totally deserving of that judgement. On today's episode, we cover both scenarios and give you some insights on how to tell the...

You'd be surprised to learn that many of our problems are sometimes a matter of perception. Because perception can make those problems seem more severe than they truly are, oftentimes the solution is mind over matter. Both of today's stories involve incidents where changing one's perception may be the key to dealing with issues head-on, leaving behind the emotional baggage, and eventually moving f...

Life is full of ruts, and we've all been in one at some point in our lives. It can be a relationship rut, a friendship rut, or even a happiness rut. While the way to get out of a rut is not an exact science, there are clear ways to minimize the low points and eventually find a way back to normalcy. Trust us on this one. We've been there. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow As...

We'll just come out and say it: relationships are hard with a capital "H", people. Whether you're related by blood, joined at the hip as best friends, or work closely as business partners, dealing with other humans, even ones you love with every fiber of your being, can be challenging at best. This week, we have two amazing stories of interpersonal relationships that are in dire need of a fine-tun...

Cruelty and pain can wear many masks, folks. In today's episode, we have two amazing stories: one maddening and one absolutely heart-breaking. In each, the end-result is unfortunately anguish and pain. That's sadly a part of life. But living isn't about simply accepting pain and hurt, but rather about dealing with it directly, addressing the source of that pain, and figuring out how to move forwar...

Whether it's managing time, managing money, or managing life, no one has all the answers. But you know what? We do have some experience, some ideas, and some advice that just might help. Because that's what this podcast is all about, right? Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAP...

As the country and the world slowly start to re-open, the monster known as stress is definitely having a moment. Whether it's stress about a perceived lack of progress over the last year and a half, a challenging life event on the horizon, or the chaos that can arise from multi-generational communication breakdowns, we all need to take a moment and just breathe. Things have been crazy. Things are...

This week's episode is all about perspective. Whether it's preparing yourself for the changes ahead or getting nostalgic about times past, we all have to try our best to live in the present and appreciate the moment we're experiencing right now. It's a daily struggle to be truly present, but trust us; it is so astonishingly worth the effort. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follo...

We are so excited to welcome our special guest, the coolest Enneagream Type 3 we know, Alisha Marie! On this, the final episode of our Enneagram Series, we cover the last remaining number (The Achiever!) and discuss how the Enneagram Test can truly help you navigate your social interactions in this crazy world. It ain't perfect, but it's an amazing tool if you know how to use it. Follow Alisha Mar...

On this, the penultimate episode of our special Enneagram series, we dive into the numbers 7 and 1 and two stories that directly involve these Enneagram Types. From the rule-following advocate for change to the spirited extrovert, these two numbers could not be any more different, yet they compliment each other perfectly. Strap in, folks. This is a fun one. And don't miss next week's final Enneagr...

The UA Enneagram journey continues with Part 3! On this week's episode, we focus on Enneagram 5's and 6's with two honest, touching, and raw stories. We are so excited to be sharing Enneagram with you and we hope that it might just make your lives a tad bit easier. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on Y...

The UA Enneagram party continues! This week, we take a gander at some of the Enneagram-related stories and questions you sent us as we continue our exploration of the most uncannily accurate personality type model we've ever come across. Whether you're a Type 2 or a Type 4 or a Type 9 Wing 1, today's episode is full of Enneagram goodness just for you! Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvic...

We've been talking about it for years. We literally mention it in almost every episode. We wholeheartedly swear by it. That's right, folks. We're finally talking about Enneagram! In today's Part 1, we introduce you to the Enneagram system, what the numbers mean, and how they apply to you, your friends & family, and your life. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNi...

Today's episode is all about the fantasies that we've been sold, or that we sell to ourselves. Whether it's the over-fantasizing of friends and life in general, or the fantasy that movies and television have sold us regarding "bad boys", there are times when one has to put aside that perfect picture that resides within your brain and appreciate the flesh and blood human being standing before you....

Whether it's avoiding toxic friends from your past or avoiding confrontations with a family member, finally tackling a problem is daunting at best, terrifying at worst. Sometimes, however, confrontations can lead to resolutions and in the long run, make life just a bit easier. So stop putting that confrontation off and figure out how to attack it head-on, folks. After the awkwardness, it just migh...

Whether it's sharing a foundational new love with a disapproving family or coming to the realization that a once-strong love has unfortunately faded, this week's UA episode is all about looking at one's love life with a sharp eye and being completely honest with oneself, as well as others. Sometimes you just gotta stop being hesitant and open up that crucial line of communication, folks. Follow th...

We all make plans. They're part of life. There are times, however, when situations change and even the best laid plans go horribly awry. Whether it's changing one's life for a relationship, or dealing with a housemate who's saddled with sadness, sometimes plans need to be altered and that's totally okay. Life happens, folks. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNic...

Today's episode is all about taking the insecurities that exist within us all, forming them into a little ball, and throwing that ball of shame out the damn window. Seriously. It's time to stop focusing on what's wrong and start flaunting everything that's right, people. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcas...

Today's episode spans the seemingly endless realm of anxiety-inducing situations. From general anxiety that appears to come out of nowhere to acute anxiety after a run-in with an old flame, stress can hit you at any time in any place and for any reason. Like the title of the episode says, anxiety is a friggin' beast. To check out SongPop2 go to: https://bit.ly/2RPULHK Follow the Podcast on Insta:...

In the face of self-doubt and fear of confrontation, it can be a monumental achievement to simply have the will to communicate. Yet it is exactly the act of communication that can be the key to addressing problems, whether they be with a relationship, a friendship, or within oneself. We'll say it once again, y'all: communication is everything. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Fol...

Today's stories encompass two very different familial issues, yet both involve the will and effort required to change the present for a better future. Whether it's a feeling of darkness about one's current overall predicament, or sadness regarding a stunted relationship with a parent, both situations need a lot of attention before things eventually get worse, or even irreparable. So don't waste an...