Unicorns Do Exist

It's Not a No, It's a NOT YET | God's Timing, Love & Becoming Who You're Meant to Be 🦄 Have you ever looked at your life and thought, GOD, WHAT THE HELL IS TAKING SO LONG? 😂 You prayed for it. You worked for it. You manifested it. You cried about it. And somehow, it's STILL not here. Girl, I get it. In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, I'm talking about perfect timing, divine intervention,...

Everything Is Working in Your Favor… Even When It Doesn’t Feel Like It | Unicorns Do Exist What if life isn't happening to you… but for you? 🦄✨Welcome back to Unicorns Do Exist, where personal growth meets a little chaos, spirituality meets sarcasm, and healing is never as pretty as Instagram makes it look. In this candid, unfiltered episode, Vanessa gets real about learning to trust herself, pr...

Are Women Monsters, or Are We Driving Them Crazy? | Unicorns Do Exist S2E2 🦄 Apparently, women are supposed to be quiet, polite, agreeable, and emotionally regulated while the world tests every last nerve we have. And when we finally snap? Suddenly, we're the monsters. Cute. 🙃This week on Unicorns Do Exist, we're diving into the stories of Lizzie Borden, Aileen Wuornos, and Lindsay Clancy, conne...

Season 2 is officially here… and we're starting with a conversation we cannot afford to stay quiet about. 🦄 In the Season 2 premiere of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa talks about the Cornell University sexual assault case, rape culture, consent, and the devastating consequences of silence. But this isn't just about what happened at Cornell. It's personal. Vanessa opens up about surviving her own sexu...

What happens when you realize you don't actually have your shit figured out? After taking a couple of weeks away from the podcast, Vanessa returns to Unicorns Do Exist with a brutally honest conversation about anxiety, uncertainty, healing, motherhood, dating, and starting over. Her anxiety has been loud lately. Her brain and body aren't exactly on speaking terms, and she's realizing that sometime...

🚨 Breaking News: If your relationship requires FBI-level phone investigations... congratulations. You're not in love—you're an unpaid detective. This week on Unicorns Do Exist, we're tackling one of the biggest relationship debates:Can men and women really just be friends? Inspired by Esther Perel and Tony Robbins, Vanessa explores the difference between trust and control, why hidden friendships...

🦄 Part 2 is Here... and the conversation gets even juicier. If you haven't listened to Part 1, go hit play first... we'll wait. 😉In Part 2 of last week's episode of Unicorns Do Exist, the conversation goes even deeper. What starts as a discussion about dating turns into an honest, hilarious, and surprisingly emotional conversation about modern relationships, love languages, masculinity, therapy,...

What happens when you ask a man for his honest perspective... and he actually tells the truth? This week's episode of Unicorns Do Exist was supposed to be about dating as a single mom—but somewhere between childhood stories, relationship advice, family trauma, and plenty of laughs, it became one of the deepest conversations we've ever recorded. Vanessa is joined by a trusted friend for an unfilter...

This week on Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa shares how a tournament she never expected to love became a powerful reminder of what truly connects us. From cheering for Mexico with family to witnessing heartbreaking moments of cruelty—and inspiring acts of kindness—this episode explores the beautiful (and messy) reality of being human. You'll hear stories about community, culture, healing old wounds, fi...

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt like they were meant to cross your path? In this heartfelt and surprisingly funny episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with special guest Marco for a raw conversation about grief, healing, manifestation, personal growth, and the people who enter our lives exactly when we need them most. Together they explore how pain can become our greatest t...

I survived heartbreak. I survived separation. I survived becoming a single mom. So why did one innocent suggestion about Disneyland send me into a full-blown emotional crisis? In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, I'm sharing a realization I never expected to have: dating isn't the scary part anymore. Flirting? Fine. First dates? Easy. Butterflies? Bring them on. But the moment someone wants to be...

What if the very things that almost broke you were actually shaping the person you're meant to become? This Pride Month, we're having the conversation that too many people are afraid to have. In one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest episodes of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with a longtime friend to unpack the realities of growing up LGBTQ+ in Latino families, battling mental health s...

What happens when your darkest chapter gets used against you… and you decide to tell the truth anyway? In this raw, emotional, and deeply personal Pride Month episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa opens up about a part of her story she's never fully shared before. After a recent court battle where her past mental health struggles were used in an attempt to question her ability to be a mother, Vane...

"I went from ‘men are gross’ to ‘WAIT… why is HE cute?’ Send help!" This episode is pure Chisme, chaos, and character development. I’m talking dating after a decade-long relationship, postpartum confidence, rediscovering my flirt game, deleting Hinge 47 times, giving out fake numbers, and entering my fluid era like a telenovela plot twist. We get into: • dating as a newly single mom • feminine ene...

If you’ve ever been told “you’ve changed”… this episode is your permission slip to evolve.  In Episode 31 of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa dives deep into the magic, the mess, and the miracles of change, growth, motherhood, identity shifts, and choosing yourself — even when it scares people who preferred the old version of you. From childhood survival mode to becoming a mother, from heartbreak to hea...

 There’s a special kind of strength that comes out when someone tries to shake a mother’s peace — and in this episode, Vanessa steps into that power with honesty, fire, and zero sugar‑coating. This is the raw truth of what happens when alignment gets tested, motherhood gets threatened, and you refuse to let someone drag you out of character. Vanessa opens up about the emotional chaos of the last t...

Are you staying because you’re happy… or because you’re scared?  In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real about the judgment women face no matter what they choose — stay, leave, forgive, start over, evolve. Pulling from her own story and the stories of women around her, she breaks down why choosing yourself is the most powerful (and hardest) decision you’ll ever make. From Becky G t...

If you’ve been feeling like you’re shedding old versions of yourself and stepping into a whole new era… this episode is your sign.his week, I’m talking about the massive inner shift I’ve been going through — the kind of growth where you look at yourself and think, “Wow… I’m not the same person anymore.” From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work...

If you’ve been feeling like you’re shedding old versions of yourself and stepping into a whole new era… this episode is your sign.his week, I’m talking about the massive inner shift I’ve been going through — the kind of growth where you look at yourself and think, “Wow… I’m not the same person anymore.” From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work...

 This episode is for anyone who’s tired of being the “nice one,” tired of being tested, and tired of people trying to drag them back into an old story they’ve already outgrown. If you’re learning boundaries, protecting your peace, and choosing your new life over old chaos — this one is a must‑listen. Press play and share it with someone who’s at their breaking point. Follow @unicornsdoexist 

If you thought Part 1 was wild… baby, you’re not ready for this one.  In this episode, I’m picking up exactly where we left off — the breakup, the co‑parenting chaos, the Mexico trip, the mixed signals, the boundaries, the disrespect, the healing, the “let my people deal with you,” ALL OF IT.This is the episode where the fog lifts, the truth hits, and the receipts come out. If you’ve ever tried to...

This is the episode I was terrified to record — and the one you’ve been waiting for.   If you’ve ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or lost yourself trying to keep a family together… this one is going to hit you in the chest. For the first time, I’m sharing my side of my divorce — not from anger, not from pain, but from a place of healing, clarity, and finally being able to breathe again. From...

STOP WHAT YOU’RE DOING — this is the episode you didn’t know you needed today.   If you’ve ever struggled with mental health, grown up in a culture where “we don’t talk about that,” or used survival mode as your personality… this episode is going to hit you right in the heart..In this raw, honest, and deeply human conversation, I’m taking you through the parts of my story I’ve never sugar‑coated —...

If you’ve ever wondered whether you can really stay friends with an ex — or why it feels easier with some people and impossible with others — this episode is about to drag you (lovingly) into the truth you’ve been avoiding. In this episode, Vanessa breaks down the messy, hilarious, and surprisingly tender world of staying friends with your exes — from long-term relationships to those short-lived “...

This episode is for every woman who’s leveling up, glowing up, and finally realizing she is the prize, not the consolation. Today, we’re talking about becoming that woman — the one everyone wants, but not everyone gets access to. The woman who invests in herself, respects herself, and refuses to let anyone with no goals, no values, or no direction get close to her energy. Because here’s the truth:...