Unfuckwithable

My gosh, you're good at talking yourself out of shit. And it feels really convincing. Perfectly logical. Perfectly explainable. You're like, Danya, I know. And you probably do. You've probably taught on it. Think of something you want that you haven't asked for yet. A sale. A new price point. Asking that person out. Leaving that person. Now ask yourself why you haven't. Not the student answer, the...

The higher the performer, the more likely you're mistaking pressure for power. You know how to focus. You know how to execute, how to push, how to discipline yourself and optimise and perform under pressure. That's why you've created what you've created. And when I say that, I get the same answer. "No, Danya, hard work's my edge" Yeah. I used to say it too. I could outwork anyone. It landed me in...

I was booking flights and researching points and I was like, I don't want to do this. I just don't want to. I know I'm very capable of figuring anything out. I've always done it. I don't want to. So I asked myself, can you imagine if I just asked if someone wants to share their points with me? Wait a second. Danya, I think you're onto something here. Then I bumped into an architect walking her dog...

I was in meditation yesterday and the word that came through, clear as anything, went straight into my journal. Dildo. yup we are going there in more ways than one...and how this has EVERYTHING to do with your money, impact, business. Okay. Game on. Never in a million years did I think I'd talk about sex or pleasure or any of this on my platform. And within a snap of a second it was like, bitches,...

I'm gonna tell on myself. Right here, right now. Because beeetch, I'm tired of the "shit". I'm tired of me. I've been in what I'd call "stuckness" energy, which is ironic, given the work I do with myself and my clients. It's not that I'm not fiercely grateful. It's not that I'm not present. I regret nothing, every choice these last three months was conscious and intentional. It's just... it's not...

Imagine you're going to a restaurant, an event, a nightclub, whatever. There's a cover charge. There are standards to get in the door. Either you meet them and you're in, or you don't and you're not. Very simplistic example. We've all stood there going, oh shit, okay, it costs that much. So where are you not doing that for yourself? Your time, your energy, your money, your heart, the experience of...

How do I figure out what I actually want? I feel like I'm just going through the motions, doing what I'm supposed to do, and I'm not sure why I'm doing any of it. Or the more honest version. Am I living by conscious choice, or am I just following the default settings? And for you it's not the settings you inherited. You've done a lot of work on those. It's the ones you've quietly attributed to thi...

Access a different solution, different perspective, different rendering of consciousness right here right now.... It is the state which you are identified with that determines your experience.  Okay, but what if it could? What if it could be easy. Is that even a possibility you rendered? Watch what your mind does with that. The guardians come up first. Nope, not possible. You don't understand...

Every conscious and subconscious thought you have is quietly running a Rolodex. Can I. Can I not. Do I have it. Do I not. The groceries. Where the kids go to school. The trip. The vendor. The retreat. The price you didn't raise. Whether you like it or not, every decision you make today is sitting in some relationship with money. And you're no stranger to any of this. You've read the books, done th...

A podcast host asked Danya a question the other day and she stopped him halfway through it. Not because the question was rude. Because the question had already decided the answer. He was asking what she'd say to the woman on the fence about the big pivot, the one who's "just really holding herself back." That phrase is the whole episode. Because here's what nobody says at this level: you can add e...

Recorded in her parents' truck, overlooking the ocean at sunrise. She's back with family because her sister had a scary diagnosis and just came through mastectomy surgery. So the question she opens with isn't a tidy one. How do you stay in gratitude, how do you stay in your own knowing, when the outside reality is mirroring back the complete opposite of it? And she widens it in the next breath, be...

There's a four letter word that will end a friendship in North America and start one in Australia. Same letters. Same sound. Completely opposite reaction. So what's actually being reacted to? Because it isn't the word. That question runs this whole episode. The anxiety before you speak on stage, the brace before you open the email, the spiral when you raise your prices and the first person says "t...

Successful on paper: where "not enough" actually comes from  How can you be successful on paper and not feel successful? Easy. Let me show you... If you've built something real and there's still this low hum of not quite, this episode is going to read your mail. Inside it: one of my clients got a 97 on a test in high school, and a single sentence from her dad installed a program she's still r...

You wake up grateful. And there's still something underneath it you can't name. If that just landed somewhere in your body, this one is for you. Inside it: the email that derailed a day you were already winning. You'd done the gratitude practice. You were in flow. You'd had a great first session. Then it arrived and you were gone for the rest of the day. And the part that actually gets you isn't t...

You are deeply self-aware. You know your patterns. You know where you tend to get in your own way. You have done the work, read the books, invested in the rooms, and built a level of success most people will never experience. So why can’t you see what is keeping you here? Because the version of you who created this level does not automatically have access to the consciousness required for the next...

This episode wasn't planned. And to be honest, I almost didn't share it for the very fear of what's discussed in it.  But I also recognise that as the very reason I need to share it, because I know more women are feeling this exact way. Ironically, this is the entire embodiment of my work, and you're catching me in a very real, raw, vulnerable, unfiltered, unscripted conversation. For whateve...

Your bank balance. Your launch revenue. The number on the scale. Your marathon time. None of it inherently means anything. The number is neutral. The suffering, pressure or freedom you experience comes from the meaning your subconscious has attached to it and the relationship you have with what you’re seeing. In this episode, we’re talking about the subtle distinctions that completely change how y...

So what is it? At a certain level, you don't need more strategy. or another module. or another person giving you a 10-step framework for something you already know how to do. Because let’s be honest, you already know what to do. You are smart. You are self-led. You are resourced. You have built success. You have done the healing, the coaching, the strategy, the nervous system work, the subconsciou...

You already made the decision. You’re already taking the action. You’re already in the room, running the launch, building the business, holding the vision, leading the team, making the moves. So why does it feel so heavy? In this episode, I’m taking you inside a very real, very humbling moment I had while getting back into running after a hip injury... heart rate monitor, beach in Australia, parro...

You don’t need to become more disciplined. You don’t need to become more focused. You don’t need to become more impressive, more successful, more “on.” You need to remember how to play again. In this episode, I’m riffing from morning tea in Australia... dogs at my feet, kookaburras in the background, wind doing the most...on a conversation I keep having with high-level founders, leaders, and visio...

You didn’t build all this success just to become trapped inside the identity that created it. The business. The money. The accolades. The role people know you for. Beautiful. But what happens when the version of you that built the empire starts becoming the cage? In this episode, I’m talking about the invisible prison of success — and why your next level isn’t more strategy, more discipline, or mo...

You’re calling it selfless. And I'll say to you what most people won't. I’m calling bullshit. with love. but it's true. Because at this level, the thing you’re calling kindness, consideration, or “just how I am” is often fear dressed up in sophisticated language. You’re not doing it because you’re such a good person. Well, not only. You’re also doing it because it protects you from something. The...

What if magnetism isn’t about being louder, more controversial, more polished, or more “confident” online? What if the real reason your message isn’t landing has nothing to do with your strategy… and everything to do with the parts of you that still don’t feel safe being fully seen? In this episode, I sit down with my soul sister Diana Sofia for a raw, hilarious, deeply honest conversation about w...

What happens when the life you inherited no longer fits the woman you’re becoming? In this episode, I’m joined by Gina Trimmer: founder of Revitalized Womanhood, host of the Revitalized Womanhood Podcast, travel mama, community builder, and woman who has lived one of those stories that makes you question every excuse you’ve ever used to stay where you are. After losing everything during the recess...

Most high performers are living backwards. And the most confronting part? It looks incredible on paper. In this episode, Danya goes deep on the philosophy at the heart of her work, the difference between becoming and unbecoming, why the personal development hamster wheel keeps so many successful people stuck, and what it actually means to operate from unfuckwithable frequency. This isn't motivatio...