Too Into You

TW: Episode mentions stalking, harassment, intimate relationship abuse, and violence against women. In this episode, we’re joined by Eve McDowell, a survivor of stalking who, alongside Una Ring, successfully campaigned for the introduction of stalking legislation in Ireland. Stalking legislation was introduced in 2023 and now provides legal protections for victims of stalking.  Since then, she has...

TW: Episode mentions violence against women, domestic violence, intimate relationship abuse, self-harm, and coercive control. For this episode, Madeline and Mary sit down with Debbie Ging, Professor of Digital Media and Gender in the School of Communications at Dublin City University. Debbie teaches and researches on gender, sexuality and digital media, with a focus on digital hate, online anti-fe...

TW: Episode mentions domestic violence, intimate relationship abuse, and coercive control. For this episode, Madeline and Mary chat all things pop culture, what sexism and misogyny looks like in the world and online and the impact it’s having on our intimate relationships. We chat about: The portrayal of women in Euphoria How Wuthering Heights romanticizes control The manosphere and online content...

TW: Episode mentions domestic violence, intimate relationship abuse, and coercive control. For this episode, Madeline and Mary are joined by Juliana Shiel. Juliana is an artist and beauty influencer with a following of over 300k people. When Juliana was 19, she was in an abusive relationship. Since then, she has become a Too Into You Ambassador, spending the last 5 years raising awareness of abuse...

TW: Episode mentions violence, intimate relationship abuse, and coercive control.   Welcome back to Season 2 of the Too Into You Podcast! It’s International Women’s Day, and to celebrate, hosts Mary and Madeline chat to Destiny Ayo Vaughan and Jenny Maguire. Jenny Maguire is a writer, campaigner and commentator. Having previously served as president of Trinity Students’ Union, she is now a columni...

TW: Episode mentions violence, domestic abuse, and coercive control. Since 1996, 276 women have been killed in violent circumstances in Ireland. This is known as femicide, the intentional killings of women and girls precisely because of their gender. For the final episode of the season, we sit down with Jodie McGuinness, sister of Natalie McGuinness. 10 years ago, Natalie was killed by Oisin Conro...

Why do people stay in relationships that hurt them? This month on the Too Into You Podcast, we dive into the complex links between love, shame, and trauma.   Mary is flying solo for this episode while Madeline is away, but she’s joined by Suzanna Knight and Niamh Wilson from Women’s Aid’s Training Department. With over 30 years’ combined experience, they’re experts in coercive control and the impa...

TW: Episode mentions suicide, suicidal ideation, image based sexual abuse, sexual abuse, coercive control.   In this powerful episode of Too Into You, host Mary Hayes sits down with Alexandra Ryan, award winning journalist, law graduate, founder and CEO of Goss.ie and survivor of image based sexual abuse.   When Ali was 25, she was filmed, without her knowledge or consent, having sex with a man sh...

Ever felt like you’re walking on eggshells in your relationship? Or like your partner blames for their actions? Or like things are moving way too fast in the honeymoon stage? You’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.   In this episode of the Too Into You podcast, we break down emotional abuse in young relationships, what it is, how it shows up, and why it’s so harmful. We dive into the early red...

Thinking about reaching out for help but not sure what to expect? In this episode, we chat Linda Smith, Head of National Helpline Services, and Eavan Ward, Head of Regional Services, from Women’s Aid to break down what actually happens when you ask for support.   We break down: What it’s like to call the Women’s Aid Helpline or use the chat service at toointoyou.ie What to expect from an appointme...

On this episode, we chat to James O’Hagan from LGBT Ireland. James coordinates the LGBTQI+ Intimate Partner Violence Network.   We’ll be chatting about things like: - Does abuse happen in LGBTQ+ relationships? - What are the red flags of abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships? - What does a healthy queer relationship look like? - Where can young LGBTQ+ people find support?   Take the Relationship Quiz at t...

We’re answering your questions about dating and relationships, intimate partner abuse, and what healthy love really looks like. The Too Into You team – Mary and Madeline – chat through the questions you’ve sent us like: ·         We’ve got problems, but what if they promise to change? ·         How do I avoid narcissists and narcissistic abuse? ·         My friend won’t leave their toxic relations...

On this episode, we chat to Sarah Monaghan from the We Consent. We-Consent is a long-term national campaign, run by the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre, to inform, educate and engage with all members of society about consent.   We’ll be chatting about things like: - What is consent? - How can consent make sex more enjoyable? - What is sexual violence? - What to do if it happens to you?   Take the Relati...

On this episode, the Too Into You team - Mary and Madeline - break down myths and misconceptions about abuse.  We’ll be answering questions like: - Does abuse go both ways? - ⁠Why didn’t they just leave? - ⁠Is abuse just physical?  Remember, if you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship:  • Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900.  • Chat for support at too...

On this episode, we are joined by Jody Duggan. From the ages to 17 to 19, Jody was abused by her now convicted ex-partner Jake Boles. Jody is now an Ambassador for the Too Into You campaign and bravely shares her story so other young women feel less alone. If you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship: Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900. Chat for suppo...

For our first episode, we are joined by Keelin Moncrieff. Keelin is a writer, podcaster and mother of one. She has created an inclusive and supportive community across her channels, where she talks about everything from books, to sustainable fashion, food and self-care. If you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship: Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900....

The Too Into You podcast from Women’s Aid is here to explore the difference between love that lifts you up, and love that holds you back. With expert insights, real stories, and honest conversations, each episode will unpack red flags, celebrate green flags, and help you spot when someone is too into you. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. If you are worried about your own or a friend’s re...