Three Way Call

Finding your personal style can often be a daunting task, especially in a time of quick trends and over consumption. In this episode we break down our fashion journeys from high school uniforms to figuring out our personal styles. We will dig deep into what it means to dress for your body type and actionable steps to learn intentional shopping. Ultimately, we hope to inspire you on the journey of...

In this episode we tackle the concept of flirting, but this isn’t a how-to. We really want to unpack how the underlying actions of flirting are often expressions of connection, extraversion, and comfortability with others. Using this framework "flirting" as a mode of authentic connection, we will dive into our experiences from childhood to adulthood and how depending on our environments and contex...

A big trip with your partner can often be a microcosm of your relationship. From miscommunication to conflict styles, so much can come up when you are travelling together. In these make or break situations, how can you avoid the strain that travel can put on your relationship? In this episode, we dive into Amanda and Nikta’s different experiences with travelling, both with their partners and with...

“Grind Culture” might be ruining your life. It's everywhere--all over our social media feeds we see the perfect pilates princess, the workaholic finance man, or the bodybuilding gym rats. However it shows up, grind culture tries to convince you that if you don't give 150% to whatever you are doing, you might as well not do it in the first place. In this episode, we explore ways we have see...

These days, planning a wedding means being inundated with content surrounding wedding horror stories, advice, and of course…capturing it all in the perfect TikTok. With Nikta currently planning a wedding and Amanda already married, in this episode we break down three major topics that we’ve seen the most discourse about online: 1) What is worth spending your money on. 2) Choosing the wedding party...

“Manifestation” is a buzzword in the cultural conversation around achieving your dream reality; however, does this simply mean thinking something into existence? In this episode, we explore methodologies through which we’ve seen manifestation applied successfully. We dive into Amanda’s experience with manifestation, from a young age being exposed to “The Secret,” and how these techniques resulted...

Being a “stan” has become a guilty pleasure for many adult women; however, we want to unpack what it means to be a ‘stan’ and why it's a practice of community building and joy for all genders and ages. Why does stanhood’s association with young girls and feminine joy make it distasteful in the current cultural conversation? In this episode, we dive into Nikta’s experiences as a lifelong super fan...

These days it feels like every influencer on social media is pushing us to romanticize our lives…through buying the perfect products, of course. In this episode, we explore what it means to romanticize your life. Diving deeply into the history of romantic literature and romcoms and then assessing the modern move towards romanticizing one’s life, we aim to separate romanticization from hyper-consum...

With the widespread shift towards cancel culture, we’ve found that forgiveness has become a very black and white topic. In this context, does an apology actually mean forgiveness? In this episode, we dive into Amanda and Nikta’s starkly different experiences with forgiveness growing up, and how repetitive apologies or lack thereof informed our adult tendencies towards feeling resolved after confli...

We’ve all, at least once, been asked the question, “What’s your type?”. We’ve also heard the popular answer, “I don’t have a type.”  In this episode, we explore how to answer the question, WTF is my type? We investigate the reasons why, oftentimes, when we describe our types, integral parts of our vulnerabilities and fears are revealed by what we conceal in our answers. By sharing Nikta’s experien...

Amanda & Nikta have been friends for over a decade. We met on the first day of high school, lived together in University, and now we live in different countries. When we were in High school, everyone told us we were the same person. We loved the same subjects, got the same grades...the same boys even had crushes on us! But when we got to University, everyone told us we were polar opposites; Am...