This is Not That Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama

You have no friends or can not keep a friend and you wonder why. This episode we are exploring subtle signs you may not be interested in making friends as much as you think you are. Shirley compares her personality and habits from a time where she was team small circle of friends to who she is today; outgoing, friendly, and open. Ciroc shares gems on how to get out of that "I don't need f...

There is an idea that once you hit 30, dating becomes a challenge or even less satisfying. For whatever reason it’s connected to societal pressure for women and the lack thereof for men. Let’s dig into Dating VS Relationships: And It’s Constructs ! Love the episode? Leave us reivew. Support our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠confession booth...

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. Apparently people are finding love in the club and other people online are not feeling it. Us, DO NOT FIND LOVE IN THE CLUB. Love the episode? Leave us reivew. Support our ⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ — Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell...

Shirley is currently watching sex in the city and she feels so secure in the conversation that dating in the 90's is not that quite different from dating in 2020's. All that has changed is the access to technology and people. The same issues in love, sex, dating, and relationships explore in Miranda's sex column, are surfacing in today's day age. Support our ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠...

There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media: -Wealth -Health -Intelligence -Being Fine...

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Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block. Support our...

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024. Support our ⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠ ⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠ ⁠ — Ask us for advice, sh...

Welcome back! Its your audio besties here. We are talking about red flags to lookout for in romantic relationships and should not ignore. How to spot the difference between red flags and drawing boundaries? How to deal with a guy who keeps asking you for your car? What nationalities to be on the lookout for Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠...

Your audio besties are back and we’re talking about depression. The issue you face with disappointment with life is the fact that your emotions build on themselves based on responses to them. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: The urges we experience when depressed like avoiding things, isolating, withdrawing, thinking of other sad things, and feeli...

Your audio besties are back and we got so much questions about modern women being labeled alpha women. What is a Black woman's place? DO WOMEN SUBMIT TO MEN ANYMORE ? On this episode we talk about: Modern women and submission What does submission look like in reality? Reasons Black women struggle with submission Listen to the full episode on ⁠Spotify⁠ Support our ⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is N...

Your audio besties are back and we’re digging into the history of butt play and reading out your dirty little secrets to Shirley.  This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: How did butt play come to life  Read your dirty little secrets What are signs of cheating other than penetrative and emotional intimacy.  Gems for this episode experience the wonder...

We have two new segments you will love, but first, a bunch of conspiracies' we need to debunk with ConspiracyGate. Hace you ever thought of people you would expeditiously send to jail for heinous crimes? Let's talk about our Citizens Arrests. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts On this episode we talk about: Trolls who talk behind private accounts JP Morgan Chase and...

Your audio besties are back and we’re talking about how acting out on delusion will make your dreams come true in the world of entrepreneurship. Businesses owned by Black women earn significantly less than businesses run by other women. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: Delusion as a personal growth strategy for entrepreneurs Financial freedom in e...

Your audio besties are back and with a new segment, Anime Banter. Listen to us nerd out about our favorite Anime movies and shows and fully dissect what may or may not be your favorite Anime. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. In this episode we discuss: The difference between being a Blerd, Dweeb, and Geek One Piece is not the superior anime Get to know us, Anime edition....

Wonder what it’s like for someone to not be into you.? Yeah? We got you covered. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama share the true signs that she’s just not that into you.  This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: Signs that a woman simply isn't into you The red flag date of Shirley getting flewed out by escape room guy The story of Cirocobama date that&#...

Welcome back! We missed you a lot and we are so excited to be back. We decided this season return would be best to address some ignant sh*t we found around the interest. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama talk new segments and more.  Subscribe to our ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ — Weekly uploads Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠confession booth ⁠ — Ask us for advic...

In this episode, Cirocobama and Shirley Dor crush the misconceptions on This Is Not That Podcast. They delve into a wide range of topics and challenge conventional thinking showcasing how the entertainers explore alternative perspectives, questioning assumptions, and embracing open-mindedness. Being Caribbean Heritage Month, we discuss: HIV/AIDS in the Caribbean Community Caribbean American HIV/AI...

By embracing sexual well-being you are nurturing wholeness in your life // Lè w anbrase byennèt seksyèl w ap pran swen sante w nan lavi w. Join hosts Shirley Dor and CirocObama on an engaging episode of This is Not That Podcast, as they delve into the multifaceted world of sexuality in the Haitian community. Together with special guests, they navigate attitudes, beliefs, and societal factors that...

As Shirley Dor and Cirocobama close out this season of This is Not That Podcast, we reflect on previous season while doing a mukbang. Topics we explored: Relationships dynamics Dating partnered men Interests in finding a romantic partner Dating blue collar men Dating as an entrepreneur What makes a woman masculine Prioritizing mental wellness and preventing burnout, we will see you next season in...

Shirley Dor goes viral on Twitter and people were not happy about it. It is unfortunately all too common for men to feel entitled to a woman's time and attention simply because they have financial stability. The idea that a woman's decision not to date someone who is financially unstable is not a reflection of their character or worth as a person is explored. Shirley Dor and CirocObama div...

Entrepreneurship often requires a constant hustle that can easily lead to neglecting one's own well-being and suffering from burnout and stress. We decided to practice what we preach and get facials at Talia V Skincare. In this episode, we share our personal experiences and discuss tips for taking care of yourself and being mindful of your busy schedule. We had the pleasure of interviewing Tal...

This is obviously NOT the podcast you thought it was. Romantic friendships, in contrast to sneaky links, involve the development of deeper intimacy and a form of platonic love, while avoiding sexual politics and crossing traditional boundaries. As professional conversationalists who does this for the views, Shirley Dor and Cirocobama dives into Sneaky links vs Friends With Benefits vs Romantic Fri...

Why do Haitian men have the reputation of being unfaithful? Shirley Dor and Cirocobama dig into research to determine the why behind infidelity. From trauma during slavery to increased likelihoods of Black men cheating. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This i...

It’s common for all genders to masturbate? Is masturbation healthy? 7 tips on how to masturbate with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod. Lo...