This Black Love

You see it, another episode of This Black Love!!!!! Today is a good day to talk about turning pain into power. Today I have a special guest Mr. Frank Mesa, yes you heard me right. He is an author and season 1 contestant of amazing race. His story about manipulation in relationships is one for the books. Teaching how we can realize certain traits from partners, and even yourself that you don’t have...

I know I have been gone for a while and now I'm trying to get back right. And better way than to start with a book review with the author! Esther reached out to me from listening to my podcast and told me about her book called The Ugly Truth, My Dating Life Sucks! And when I tell this book is a good read, I mean that. Y'all know that I love to get the conversation started and baby we are t...

I know I missed last week, but I am back. I needed some time to celebrate me! I am now the big 38 and I love it and embracing it! I just wanted to let y'all know I am not going anywhere I just needed some me time. So, I hope you all enjoy today's episode of This Black Love! We will have some things to talk about! Enjoy your weekends lovies!

I know this is out of the ordinary posting an episode on a Sunday. But it is 420 y'all!!!! Happy Resurrection Sunday or ass y'all like to say Happy Easter!!! Today this is 2-part episode of This Black Love! I started filming on Friday and finished today! But I had to finish this and post it so that you can know what the discussion it about today. We are learning to date and love on ourselv...

Happy Friday TBL Fam!!!! I hope all is well with you all! Today is going to be a great day, so claim it! Yes! I am speaking on the whole Marvin Sapp scandal that went on recently. We as a people got to do better because why did he do that? But I did have a few thigs I wanted to say, and I promise I am not here to offend anyone. Just speak my truth. So, let's talk about it. If you have any comm...

Hello TBL Fam!!!! It's Friday again, and I got another great episode for you guy!! I hope all is well with you all. Today I wanted to get this topic off my chest. And you will hear me say in the video that if the shoe fits wear it, and if it doesn't just let it fly. But I feel as a community we need to hold each other accountable. But it's a learning curve, we have to learn to crawl be...

Happy Friday my loves!!!!! I know I missed last week, but I had to give y'all a new episode of This Black Love!! And since we are still in the month of March, which is Woman's Month, I wanted to speak a little bit on us as women. All positive thoughts and uplifting and you know I had to drop some truth. So, lets appreciate each other just a little more always and not just for one month. We...

Happy Friday!!!! Today I have a special treat for y'all today!!! I'm always shouting her out and I was blessed with her appearance today, it's none other than Tay from House of Lu Beauty 1950!! And yes, I am glad to have another entrepreneur chatting with me today!!! We go waaaaaay back and it was fun catching up with my good good sister!! Please make sure you shop with her at House of...

Happy Friday!!!!!! I know what you're all thinking.... where have I been. I have been healing my heart and mind to get back right. I didn't want to have to fake a smile or anything. I wanted to be authentic as I always am. But I am here and back at bringing y'all another episode of This Black Love!! This episode is kinda all over the place, but I just want to let y'all know I'm...

Happy Friday This Black Love family!!! You all are my family for real. I can be myself and be my best version. Y'all accept me for who I am. So, today's episode is a little different. I get really vulnerable and open up to accept my real truth. This is my first time being this transparent in my life so take it easy on me a little. I do hope that my vulnerability can help or be relatable to...

Happy Friday This Black Love!!! As you know it's time for another episode. This episode well not be one to expect, but it needed to me said. Some conversations need to be started and why not start now, it's the best time to. You don't want to wait until it is too late, and you can no longer talk. As I stated I am not afraid to talk about the hard stuff because it can lead to your healing. But let...

Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!! We are back to our regular scheduled program. And today I have a guest!! I am so excited to have my first guest of the new year. We are growing people, and I am glad you are getting to witness this. This conversation was amazing and deep at the same time. We toughed on just about everything. you can find Koolaid on all social media platforms at koolaidmuzic....

Happy Sunday and Happy New Year!! It's the first episode of the new year and I wanted to start it off with a topic of the day. Now I know that this episode it late, time has gotten away from me already. But I didn't want to leave you hanging! So, I seen a story online that i had to put my two cents in on. And I would like to know what you all think as well. This episode has a poll attached and I w...

Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!!! It is the last Friday of the year 2024! I am excited about this coming year! All good thing for 2025. I just wanted to send some positive energy your way and not hold you too long. Just some helpful nuggets going into the new year. Let's all make sure we celebrate responsibly and make it to see 2025. I love y'all down and thanks for rocking with me another y...

Happy Friday. we are now 11 days before the New Year. I want everyone to enjoy time with family and friends but also not go into debt for the coming year. Most times we spend so much trying to keep up with the "Jones" but are going further and further into debt. That's not what we need for the new year. When we die, we can't take all our things with us, so why store up on earth? I want better for...

Happy Friday my fellow Black Love family! Its Friday December the 13th!! Can you believe its Friday the 13th!!! But nonetheless I have a new episode ready for you on this Friday the 13th. With all the social media gossip and receipts going around about Remy Ma and Papoose, are celebrities really #COUPLEGOLAS? What makes a couple #couplegoals? Who started it and where is its origin? Well, y'all kno...

Happy Friday!!!! OMG! The year is coming to a close and we only have 4 fridays (including today) left in the year! It's exciting!! I hope all enjoyed their thanksgiving holiday. Today I wanted to bring an awareness that is happening in our community that we dont talk about much. I just gave a little one to bit information that I looked up and wanted to share. To let you know you are not alone. I h...

Happy Friday This Black Love family!!!!! I hope all is well. And just like that I am back with another episode of This Black Love at its regular scheduled timing. I just been feeling a type of way with all these different dating shows, it shows me that I am not ready to start dating. But to really take a dive into who are we really dating? Do we really know who we call our boo or we just liking th...

Happy Friday my lovessss!!! Here is another episode of This Black Love. I know, I know this episode is late. I was gonna put up a late episode but not this late. I had a few tech issues but nevertheless I got it done. But as the holidays are here just be kind to one another, you never know what someone is going through and please love on your family. Also, today I weighed in on how woman is treate...

HAPPY FRIDAY LOVESSSSSSS!!! It's Friday and another episode of This Black Love is here!!! Today I wanted to pour out my heart to yall about being a friend and knowing that everyone isn't your friend. Also, I wanted to touch on the Megan The Stallion documentary and I have a few choice words, and it gets a little deep. And some things I say I really did mean them, buut lets really start the convers...

Happy Friday!!!! Its the first of the month! Happy November. We have one more month until 2025. Time is going fast. But not as faster than the way we out here dating. Just to warn you, I am all over the place with this episode. But I do have a subject that started this conversation started. Just bear with me and my scattered brain today. Thank you for listening and sharing!!

Happy Friday!!!! As we continue to explore different things and different activities, I wanted to talk about what I'm currently watching. I love, love, love watching movies and series. And I wanted to show what I am currently watching. I would also like to know what you are currently watching. Don't be afraid to connect with me by messaging me. I would love to hear from my sweet listeners are watc...

Happy Friday!!! Yes, when you see consistent in the dictionary my picture would be right there. Today I wanted to get you out of your comfort zone and try something different. So, I wanted to let y'all in on one of my favorite hobbies, READING!!! It can be fun, and you can get caught in a different reality from a good book. So, let me show you some of my favorite reads and books I need to read, lo...

Happy Frrriiiidddaayyy lovely people. I hope today brings you nothing but joy and happiness. I wanted to continue my consistency with a serious but needed topic. Number 1. Ladies take time for yourself and rejuvenate. Number 2. Let's start a conversation with our young people, whether you are a parent or guardian. Let's not think that they are not going through things when they are. It's time to c...

Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!!!!! Come hell or high water I was going to get this episode out to you today!! Whew, this was a tough one but we have to get the conversation started, and a change needs to be made. Here is my quick opinion about Mr. Marcellus Williams. I didn't get a chance to dive deep in his background, it's just another innocent black man put to death for a crime he did no...